Bathi iphupha lokuqala lokuba owesifazane okhulelwe wayenomntwana wakhe wexesha elizayo uprofeto. Mna andiyazi ukuba yinyani le nto, kodwa iintsuku ezimbini ngaphambi kokuqala kwe-ultrasound, ndineliphupha elinjalo. Ndiza kwi-ultrasound, kwaye umfazi-ultrasound uthi: "Kubonakala ngathi intombazana". Kwaye ucinga ntoni, ndihamba ngeentsuku ezimbini emva kwe-ultrasound, ibhinqa liyithatha, nangona ndiyazi ikhulu leepesenti eziphezulu kunye namadoda ezenziwe apha. Kwaye, ekhokela isisu sakhe kwisixhobo, watsho igama ngelizwi, ukuba ndiphupha: "Kubonakala ngathi intombazana!". Nangona i-ultrasound yokuqala ayisoloko ikwazi ukucinga ngokuchanekileyo ngesondo somntwana ongakazalwa, kodwa intombi yam yazalwa! Ngokubanzi, imibala ebalaseleyo, amabhinqa aqaqambileyo mabhinqa abakhulelweyo bayachazwa lula. Xa umfazi esesimweni, uhlala ecinga ngako. Ngaloo nto, umntwana wakhe ozayo. Indlela evakalelwa ngayo, indlela ekhula ngayo, ikhula. Iingcamango zakhe ziza phambili, ekunakekeleni umntwana, ezithengela iimvuthu, malunga nokuba ubomi buya kutshintsha njani emva kokuzalwa komntwana. Ngoko ke, ngokukhawuleza ukhulelwe sele sele ukhulile abantwana.
Ngamanye amaxesha abafazi abakhulelweyo baphupha amaphupha aphikisayo. Musa ukuhlaziswa. Mhlawumbi, ngenxa yokoyiko lokubangela into ethile kumntwana ozayo, ubomi obusondeleyo bomtshato bomtshato bubonakala kumbindi okanye mhlawumbi luyeke ukuba kwenzeke. Okanye, ngokuchasene noko, abaninzi abasetyhini ngexesha lokukhulelwa bavakaliswa ngokukodwa. Oku kungenxa yokuba akukho ukoyika ukukhulelwa okungafunekiyo kwaye akukho mfuneko yokuzikhusela. Ngenxa yoko loo maphupha.
Kodwa ngokuphindaphindiweyo, amaphupha akhulelwe kunye neendlovu zokulala ezihlobene nokuzalwa okuzayo, umntwana ozayo. Ukuba ukuzalwa kunzima kakhulu, umntwana uzalelwe ngesiphene, ukuphambuka. Eli liva lo mama. Ngokwemvelo, akukho mntu owaziyo ukuba yonke into ingahamba njani ekuzalweni, enokuphazamisa inkambo yokukhulelwa. Kodwa akuyimfuneko ukucinga ngokubi ngexesha lokuthwala umntwana. Funda kwaye ubukele iifrikhi ezibuhlungu kunye nokusasazwa. Emva koko iphupha liya kuba nokuzola, ngaphandle kwamabala.
Iimvakalelo ezintle, amafilimu amahle, iinkqubo ezithakazelisayo! Cinga kuphela okulungileyo! Kwaye kungcono ukwenza okuzonwabisa ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Abaninzi abaninzi bafazi bafumana iitalente ezifihliweyo. Zama ukudweba, ukubethela umnqamlezo okanye ukukhwela nje - kwaye kulungile, kwaye unokuzilungiselela ngokubakho umntwana ozalelwe!
U-Elena Romanova , ngakumbi kwisiza