Ngenxa yokuba wonke umntu ungumntu osebenzayo, unesizathu sokushukumisa abantu-isifiso sokwenza, inqwenela yemvelo. Ngokomzekelo, unako ukuzisa umntwana othabatha inzala yonke into ephantsi kwesandla sakhe aze ayibeke emlonyeni wakhe, kwaye ngoko uyazi ihlabathi.
Oku kuphakamisa ukuba iinjongo zingenangqondo, kwaye iinjongo ezihambelana nokujoliswa kweziphumo (ukusuka kwiminyaka emithathu ubudala) ziyingxenye yesifundo sokufunda: okokuqala umntwana uphenjelelwa ngabazali, ngoko isikolo. Umsebenzi wokuqondisa wezinto ezixhasayo kuxhomekeke kakhulu kummandla. Amazons, bakhulise abantwana babo ngendlela eyahluke ngokupheleleyo kunabantu baseYurophu. Umzekelo, kubalulekile ukuba umntu omncinci waseNdiya afunde indlela yokubhukuda aze azi izityalo ezinetyhefu, kwaye abantwana bethu batyathwa kwiintloko zeziphi iingozi ezizilindeleyo, umzekelo, ekhaya okanye kwisitalato.
Iindlela zokukhuthaza
Abazali bafanele bakhuthaze, bangabanyanzela abantwana ukuba benze! Enyanisweni, ngamnye umntwana ngokwakhe ufumene ulwalathiso lwemisebenzi yabo, nangona abazali bekwazi ukulawula le nkqubo, bamnike ukuba benze into enomdla kwaye inomdla. Ngaloo ndlela, abazali kufuneka basebenzise inzululwazi yengqondo yomntwana, umnqweno wokufunda into kunye nokukhuthaza umntwana ukuba enze! Kukho iindlela ezimbini zokufumana umntwana enze nantoni na.
Eyokuqala
Ngomnqweno ukudala ukunqongophala kwezinto (into ekufuneka uyisuse, ukufihla, ukufihla, umda). Akufanele kuthathe into embi. Izenzo zomntwana zihlala zilinganiselwe, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo abazali babonisa ngomzekelo wabo ukuba le mida ingawela. Kumelwe kuthiwa izazi zeengqondo zinike le ndlela yokwenza lukhuni, ukuba uthabathe ukutya kumntwana wakho, uya kumnceda ukuba athathe ngokwakhe kwifriji. Esi sikhuthazo sinxulumene nomnqweno weziphumo, umntwana ayingxenye engenamntu, kwaye ngabaphi abazali abangabomeleza ngezenzo zabo, umzekelo, ukulungelelanisa imidlalo yezemidlalo phakathi kwabazali nabantwana, abazalwana kunye nodade, umntwana kunye nabahlobo bakhe. Ukongezelela, abazali bafanele babonise umntwana ukuba angayihamba njani imida eqhelekileyo, umzekelo, ukuze azilungiselele ngokuzimeleyo umsebenzi wesikolo okanye afunde ukudlala nasiphi na isixhobo somculo.
Indlela yesibini ebaluleke kakhulu yokukhuthaza iyindumiso. Abantwana, abazali babo abahlala bebadumisa ngenxa yeziphumo eziye zafezwa, ngokuqhelekileyo babonisa umnqweno omkhulu wokufunda nokufezekisa into ethile, kwaye ukuhlambalaza rhoqo ngokubanzi kunokusonakalisa umnqweno womntwana wokwenza into ethile. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba umntwana adunyiswe ngokunyanisekileyo kwaye alungele.
Yintoni efunekayo ukukhuthaza
Okokuqala, kuyimfuneko ukuvusa umsebenzi onoxanduva lomntwana. Cishe rhoqo umntwana uzama ukuxelisa abadala. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, iinjongo kufuneka ziqondwe ngokucacileyo ekuqiniseni umsebenzi nasekuphuculeni izakhono. Ukongezelela, indima enkulu idlala ngokuqhubekayo. Yonke imisebenzi kunye neembopheleleko ezithathwe ngumntwana, kufuneka zenziwe rhoqo kwaye ngokuzithandela. Ingunaphakade evumela umntwana ukuba azive ekhuselekile.