Unomntu obalaseleyo!
Xa kuziwa kwendima kabawo ebomini bomntwana, amagama "ukunyaniseka", "ukuqina", "inhlangano" ivela. Akunanto. Amadoda amaninzi adibanisa imfundo yabantwana kunye neentombi kunye nokuqeqeshwa kweempi zaso. Fumana indlela yokuziphatha eyiyo kuya kunceda kuphela ... uthando.
Yiba ngumzekelo
Ngoku awuyena nje umphathi ophumeleleyo okanye umakhi wezakhono. Wena inkwenkwezi, ilungileyo, umfanekiso opheleleyo. Ngoko inkwenkwe ikubona. Iphefumlela kwaye inike umvakalelo wokuvuya. Kodwa kwakhona ibeka imbopheleleko ethile. Uyabonwa ngenyameko ezimbini, nakuba unomdla, amehlo. Izenzo zakho zivavanywa kwaye zithathwa njengomzekelo. Indlela oziphatha ngayo nomfazi wakho, abazali, bahlobo, indlela ophumla ngayo, indlela odla ngayo - umntwana akaphosi nantoni na.
Ukujonge kuwe, omncinci wenza izigqibo malunga nokulungileyo nokubi ukukhulisa umntwana omnye kwintsapho. Ngoko ke, ngaphambi kokuba unyuse umntwana ukuba angashiyi iTV (ukuphulwa kombono), khumbula: uza kuthatha ixesha elingakanani ixesha lakho kwi laptop? Uyakwenqabela i karapuzu ukusela isoda (kwaye wenze okulungileyo), kodwa ngexesha lokuhamba awuvumeli ibhotile yamanzi amnandi ezandleni zakho? .. Iimzekelo zinganikwa ixesha elide. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba kungcono ukwenza ngokuchanekileyo, kwaye kungekhona nje ukukhawulelwa kumazwi alungileyo.
Thetha ngolu hlobo
I-Kid iphole i-slide efanelekileyo yeenkcukacha kwietafile. Emva kokujonga ngokukhawuleza, ufumene ifowuni yakho yeselula kuyo. Ukuvula idayari, ndafumanisa ukuba phantse zonke iikhasi zihlotshiswe ngemidwebo ekhanyayo, enkulu engabonakaliyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, umntwana wenze into ongayithandiyo (nangona ayinakuphikiswa: unetalente yangempela). Impendulo yakho yokuqala ngokukhulisa umntwana omnye kwintsapho kukumemeza, ufunde, ungavumeli, usethe isakhelo ... Yeka, ungafaki, njenge-brand BMW entsha, cingisisa malunga nokuba yintoni inkohlakalo eyenziwa yintsapho. Ukutshabalalisa ifowuni? Okokuqala, zifihle izinto ezibizayo. Kwaye okwesibini, i-crumb ayizange iphishekele injongo yokuphula i-mobile.
Wazibuza ngokwenene ukuba yonke into ehlelwe ngayo kweli hlabathi. Epholile phantsi, hlalisa intsha, ubuchule (okanye umyili-myili) emadolweni kwaye uthethe naye. Musa ukukhathazeka malunga nemibuzo enokukhathazeka: "Unokwenza ntoni na?" Wenze ntoni na? "Chaza ukuba abantu abadala banezinto ongenakuzithatha (nangona ufuna ngokwenene). Sebenzisa iimpawu ezithile, ungaphakamisi izwi lakho. Uya kukhangela-isebenza kakhulu!
Musa ukufihla imvakalelo
"Amadoda akwenene ayalili. Baya kunqanda izibonda okanye ebusweni babo ukuthuthumela okuncinci ... "Shiya le mifanekiso emnandi kumaqhawe ase-blockbusters. Ebomini, konke kunzima kakhulu. Kwaye maxa wambi kunzima ukubonisa iimvakalelo zakho kunokuzifihla ngokujulileyo. Kodwa ufunda. Uze uvelise imvakalelo. Ukuba umntwana ngu nakrolesil, cacisa ukuba ucaphukile kwaye ukhubekile ngenxa yale nto. Ndikholelwe, kwikamva umntwana uza kucinga kathathu ngaphambi kokuba enze into ephazamisayo upapa. Oku kusebenza ngakumbi kunanoma yiyiphi "ukuhamba ekhoneni" okanye "akukho khathuthi." Futhi ungakhohlwa ukudumisa ngenxa yokuba i-crumb ikulungiselele iimpazamo zakhe. Emva kwakho konke, ubulungisa abuyinto engqinelanayo yokunyaniseka. Uqondisa zonke iimvakalelo zakho zethenda malunga nomgomo omnye: ukukhulisa umntwana onoyolo, ohambelanayo, ozalisekileyo ... umzali ozayo. Utata kufuneka abe negalelo ngqo kwimfundo yomntwana omnye kwintsapho, njengentloko kunye nenkokheli yentsapho.
Kwindlela entsha
Zama ukungabandakanyi kwigama lakho lesizwi: "Ndikhuliswe njengaye, kwaye akukho nto, indoda yakhula," "Musa ukuthuka - uyindoda!", "Khangela ndilapha kwiminyaka yakho ..." Yonke le nto ixhomekeke kubalulekile: "Ndiyakuthanda!" , "Nguwe ongcono kum!" Ukuba ngumzali kumfundi izifundo, ngoko ke le zifundo mazifanele kwaye zifanele.