Yintoni abantwana abaphuphayo
Kuninzi kuxhomekeke kule nto. Ngosizo lwezenzo ephupheni kunokwenzeka ukunquma ukuba iziganeko ezivuyayo okanye ezibuhlungu zilindele kwikamva.
- Abantwana bazisa iintyatyambo, iilekese okanye ezinye izipho. Ubomi benene, uya kuphumelela kwishishini kunye nolonwabo kubomi bentsapho.
- Abantwana baxabana - kuthetha ukuba kufuneka usombulule iingxaki zentsapho, kwaye aziyi kuhambelana nenzala.
- kwiphupha elinjalo kunokwenzeka ukuba ukwazi ukuba yivaphi amava obhekana nawo ebomini. Kungenzeka ukuba iphupha elinjalo libonisa ukuba uzive usengozini kwaye uxhomekeke kwabanye. Ukuze uqonde ngokucacileyo amava akho afihlakeleyo, kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba yintoni eyenziwa ngabantwana ephupheni, ukuba yiyiphi isini. Ngokusekelwe kulo unokufumana ukutolika okufunekayo.
- ukuba uphupha amakhwenkwe ahlalileyo - uya kuziva ukuba unamandla okwanda kwamandla, ishishini lakho liya kuqala ukuphuhlisa kwaye uza kuqala ukufezekisa impumelelo emitsha.
- Amakhwenkwe adlala umdlalo osebenzayo kwaye azinikezele - ngoko uya kutshatyalaliswa ingxaki kwintsapho kunye nemali.
- Ukuba abafana baxabana nento ethile, akufanele uthembele kuphela kwimbono yakho. Cela uncedo lomntu omdala, kwaye ukuba sele usunikwe uncedo oluvela kubantu abanolwazi, ungayeki. Ngoko unokuphucula ngokukhawuleza ishishini labo. Uninzi kakhulu, unesihloko esincinci malunga nobomi bakho nomsebenzi.
- kubi xa omnye wabafana belimala ngexesha lomdlalo. Kwimeko apho, kufuneka ugxininise kuphela kwimicimbi, ekubeni isimo sakho sengqondo esingenabungozi sinokukukhokelela ukuba udibane.
- amantombazana owaziyo kakuhle kwaye unobungane kunye nawe uqikelela ukuba uphathwa kakuhle ngabanye kwaye usebenzisa ukuzithemba kunye negunya labo. Ukuba amantombazana aqhelekanga, kodwa esonwabileyo kunye nentlalontle, ke le phupha lifanekisela abantu abaselula kunye nolwalamano.
- Abantwana abangenangqondo kwaye bengayithobeli, baxhamle ubuhlobo obunzima nabanye. Yaye ukuba ngaba abantwana bayakukhwaza, kuthetha ukuba ubudlelwane kunye nomlingane luye lwaphela ngokupheleleyo kwaye ukuba awuwunqobe umquzulwano, mhlawumbi ulwaphulo.
Ezinye ukutolika kwamaphupha ngabantwana
Kwenzeka ukuba uphupha ukuba ulondoloze umntwana ekufeni (umzekelo, khupha umntwana ngaphandle kwamanzi). Oku kuthetha ukuba ngokwenene uya kufumana udumo, inhlonipho nentlonipho. Ngaphezu koko, uzinikezela abanye ukuba baqonde ukuba uhlala ukulungele ukunceda.
Nangona kunjalo, kukho enye imbono. Ukulondoloza umntwana ephupheni kuqikelela ukuba uzive ungabonakaliyo, kwaye kubonakala ngathi abanye abayixabisi imizamo yenu.
Ukubona umntwana kwisihlalo sabakhubazekile kunentsingiselo eninzi, kuxhomekeke kwindlela umntwana abheka ngayo kunye nomgcini-stroller ngokwayo.
Ukuba ubuthongo buhle, umntwana ulele kwaye uyamomotheka, kwaye isitulo sabakhubazekile ngokwalo namhlanje kwaye ukhululekile, ngoko uya kutshatyalaliswa kungekudala.
Umqhubi ongcolileyo ngaphandle komntwana uthetha ukuba ungaqiniseki ukuba uthembekileyo kumntu ovela kwindawo yakho. Kodwa ngokwenene, kuvela ukuba izikhalazo zakho zazingekho phantsi.
Izibini ezisandul 'ukutshata, iinjongo ezinjalo zephupha ukuzaliswa ngokukhawuleza. Kodwa ukuba uphupha ukuba uyagubha umntwana kwaye uyimculela i-lullaby-lungele ukuba uya kuba nexesha lokudandatheka kunye nexinzelelo. Mhlawumbi uya kuhamba kunye nomthandi wakho kwaye uya kumkhumbula kakhulu. Okanye uzive nje ukubola.