Ukutolika kwamaphupha ngekati
Ukubona kwiphupha lakho le nto isho ukuqala kokwazi, ukunyuka kwe-intuition yangaphakathi, ukuqonda okwenyaniso kokomoya. Ukuze ukwazi kakuhle ukuba zeziphi izilwanyana eziphuphayo, kufuneka uhlaziye iphupha uze uqonde izinto ezibalulekileyo zebali (ukuziphatha kunye nemeko yesilwanyana, inombolo, umbala, njl.).
Fumana ukuba uphi na amaphupha amakati neekiti.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, ikati ithathwa njengesimboli sephupha njengesibonakaliso esihle. Kubaluleke kakhulu kunyango lobuthongo ubuhlobo bomntu ophuphayo kwikati kwiphupha kunye nobomi boqobo. Ukuba uvuka kubantu abameli beemvakalelo eziphazamisayo, ngoko kukutolika kuninzi kuya kubakho ukuhlaziywa kwintlanganiso esondeleyo kunye nomntu onobuqili nombi kakhulu. Ukuba izilwanyana zizilwanyana eziyintandokazi, ngoko iinkcazo zokulala ziya kuba neendlela ezininzi.
Ukuba uphupha ikati eneenkomo okanye nokuba ukhulelwe, luphawu lokuzalwa kweengcamango ezintsha, izicwangciso, ukubonakaliswa kwazo eziza kuphucula kakhulu impilo yakho. Xa uphupha amaninzi eekati, kuthetha ukuba ebomini bakho kukho amathuba amaninzi okuzibona njengomntu onetalente kunye nolwazi.
Ngendlela, emva kwephupha elinjalo, amanqaku amaninzi atholakala kumntu. Oko, apho uphupha khona, xa ikati ibetha, yenza umphuphi acinge ngesimo sakhe sengqondo kulabo abakujikelezile. Kungenzeka ukuba ungumthombo wokucaphuka, inzondo kunye neengxaki, kungekhona nje kubantu abangaziwayo, kodwa nakwabathandekayo.
Ukuba uphupha ikati elimhlophe-lindela ukuchuma kunye nenwabe ekuthandaneni kwentsapho. Kwakhona, eli phupha lithembisa ukuphucula ubomi bemihla ngemihla, utshintsho lokuhlala kwindawo epholileyo kwaye ekhululekile. Ikati elimnyama kuthetha ukuba lowo uphuphayo akakonwabanga ngobomi bakhe, akukho nto imkholisa kwaye ayithandi. Intshontsho ebomvu yindlela yokubonakalisa uvuyo kunye nethemba lokwenene. Emva kwaloo phupha, lindela iindaba ezilungileyo kunye noshintsho.
Yintoni ikati efile ephuphayo okanye ebulala ephupheni?
Eli phupha lifanekisela ukuxabana kwangoko okanye ukungaboni. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba uya kuba yinto ephosakeleyo yeemeko kunye nezingxoxo. Njengoko kuthethwe kwincwadi yephupha, inhlanhla kunye nabantu abanokuthi basondele kuwe, kodwa ngenxa yobunzima babo ubenza baxoshe kude nawe, ngaloo ndlela bahlukane.
Iilwanyana ezifileyo ephupheni (kungakhathaliseki ukuba zifile okanye ezandleni zakho) zingabonakalisa izinto ezingalindelekanga, iimvakalelo ezingenangqondo, nokuba yintoni kwimisebenzi enemveliso, efunyanwa ngumntu onqwenelayo nokudumala.
Ikati ephupha ayikwazi nje ukuguqula ngokubanzi ubomi bomphuphi ngandlela enye okanye enye, kodwa kwakhona sisihlandlo sokuzicingela wena, kunye neenjongo zakhe nokuziphatha. Kule meko, ngokungakaze kwenzeke ngaphambili, ilizwi elithi "baphathe abantu njengoko wenzayo ukuze ubaphathe".