Yintoni ukuguquka? Wonke umntu uya kuphendula lo mbuzo ngendlela yabo. Konke kuxhomekeke kwinkcubeko yangaphakathi yangaphakathi, kwimfundo esondelene kunye nenqanaba lokukhululeka kwengqondo lomntu ngamnye. Ukuze umntu amanga ngosuku lokuqala - kukuphakama kokuguquka. Kwaye umntu kunye neqabane lesini - into eqhelekileyo eyayiqhelekileyo yesiqhelo. Ngoko indlela yokuhlula phakathi kokuphambene ngokwesini kunye nokuqhelekileyo kwaye ngokubanzi kukho umqondo "wokuguquka" kwisondo?
Enyanisweni, kukho into enjalo. Kwaye kukhonkco kwaye kufanayo kumntu wonke. Ukuguqulwa kwesondo kukuhlobo lokuxilongwa, uhlobo olungavumelekanga kwengqondo apho umntu engakwazi ukufumana ukwaneliseka ngokwesondo "ngendlela evamile". Kwiimeko ezininzi, ukuguquka kubandakanya ubundlobongela nokuphakama kwamandla. Kodwa akunjalo. Kukho nawuphi na, kukho iintlobo ezininzi ezisisiseko zokuguquka ngokwesondo. Malunga nabo kamva.
Sivame ukuva izimvo ezifana nale: Oku kuguquka kwangempela! "Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantu abaneendawo ezintle ezifihliweyo basabela kuyo kwaye kunokuba bacefe kwaye bangabonakali ebhedeni. Kwaye bawabiza ngokuthi ukuguquka, ngokuqhelekileyo ukubonakalisa ukuvakalelwa kweemvakalelo kuncinane ngendlela engavamile kubo. Abantu abaziyo ukukholisa omnye nomnye, abangenako ukwesaba iimvavanyo, banokuguqulwa ngokulula njengeziphambeko emilonyeni yezontengane ezinzima kwaye ziyalondoloza.
Kodwa kukho elinye ibali. Kukho iimeko xa igazi liphazamiseka ukusuka kwenkcazo yokuxhatshazwa okuveliswa yintlanzi ethile kwixhoba elingenacala. Akukho namnye oshiywe ngokungathandabuzekiyo konke - oku kuguquka kwangempela. Kwaye akukho namnye ochasayo oku. Kwaye abantu abanjalo (okanye abangewona abantu) bagwetywa ngokupheleleyo ngaphandle kokungafani. Uya kumangaliswa, kodwa kungekho kwimeko yokuqala, nokuba ngowesibili akubhekiselele kwiziphambeko zesini njengoko kunjalo. Kwimeko yokuqala, sijongene nesimo sengqondo esithandanayo ngokubhekelana ngesondo, ngohlobo lwenkululeko yecalulo, kwaye okwesibini - kunye nokugula kwengqondo. Ngoko yintoni umehluko phakathi kokuphambana ngokwesini kunye nesimo esiqhelekileyo esinokuyifuniza ngoko? Ingaba kukho na? Kukho!
Ukuguquka akunakubizwa ngokuba ngumanga womntu othandekayo, ukuthatha inxaxheba ngokuzithandela kwi-sex group okanye ukubandakanyeka kwamadoda nabasetyhini abadala. Le mijelo eyongezelelweyo yokufumana ukwaneliseka ngokwesondo. Ukuguqulwa akunakubizwa ngokuba ngumntu olala ngesondo, isondo kwisigwebo okanye ngokusetyenziswa kweemali ezongezelelweyo - izidalwa, ubuhlalu obomvu, u-plethys njalonjalo. Ukuba kunika umdla kubo bobabini abalingani-kutheni? Ukusuka kwinqanaba leengcali, oku kusemgangathweni oqhelekileyo. Kodwa iingcali zichaza njani ukuguquka ngokwesondo? Nazi ezimbalwa zeentlobo zazo eziphambili:
- I-Agalmatophilia: kunye nokuphambuka, isistim sezesondo sisitopu esingenanto okanye umfanekiso obonisa umzimba ohambahambayo. Oko kukuthi, umntu unokuziva ukuvuswa ngokwesondo kuphela ngokujonga izinto ezinjalo.
- I-Asxiphophily: kunye nolonwabo lwesondo luvela ekungabikho komoya. Umntu ufumana i-orgasm, i-gasp, kodwa ingaphumeleli ngqalelo ngexesha elifanayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo abantu bazama ukuzibopha ngentambo okanye kwinqaba, befuna ukuzithobela kwi-orgasm. Ngamanye amaxesha uphela kwisiphumo esibulalayo.
- I-Voyeurism: ngelixa uzonwaba ngokwesini inikezela iliso kwabanye abantu ngaphandle kolwazi lwabo. Oko kukuthi, umntu ulindile abanye abantu, ngokubheka ngefestile, umzekelo, kwaye le yinto engummangaliso.
- Imiboniso: ngelixa ukuvuswa kwezesondo kufezekiswa kubantu ngokusebenzisa ukubonakaliswa kwezitho zabo zesini kwabanye. Abantu abanjalo (ngokuphindaphindiweyo amadoda) banokufumaneka ngamanye amaxesha kwiindawo zoluntu. Bakhawuleza bavule iimpahla zabo, babonise izitho zabo baze bafihle kwisihlwele.
- I-Erotonophonophilia: ngoxa ukwaneliseka ngokwesini kwenzeka ngexesha lokubulawa kwabalingani abangaboniyo.
- Kleptophilia: kunye nokwaneliseka ngokwesondo kufumaneka ngokuba izinto. Ukususela kwi-kleptomania kuyahluka kuphela kukuba xa i-kleptomania umntu evakalelwa kukuba u-adrenaline ugijime ngexesha lophanga, kodwa akafumani nantoni.
- I-Coprophagia: kunye nokwaneliseka ngokwesondo kufumaneke ngexesha lisempileni
- Ubume be-Masaso: le ntlonipho yesondo ivela ngenxa yezenzo zenyama ezibangelwa intlungu.
- I-Sadism: ngelixa ukwaneliseka ngokwesondo kufumaneka ngokubangela intlungu kumlingane.
- I-MIXOSCOPY: Kule meko, ukuvuswa kwesondo esomeleleyo kuphunyezwa ngokuqwalasela ezinye izenzo zesondo. Iingabonwakude okanye iintengiso kwi-Intanethi, kunokuthi kwenziwe izenzo ezivela kwiwindow okanye kwenye indawo ngaphandle kwekhaya.
- I-Naratophilia: kunye nokuvuswa kwezesondo kufumaneka ngamagama athile e-slang. Ngokuthethelekileyo, umntu ufumana i-orgasm ngethuba lothotho, ulwimi olubukhali lomlingane. Inokuthi ihambe kunye nesondo ngokuqhelekileyo, kwaye mhlawumbi hayi.
- I-Necrophilia: kunye nokuvuswa kwezesondo kufumaneka ngenxa yokuqhagamshelana nomzimba ofileyo.
- I-Pictograph: kunye nokuvuswa kwezesondo kufumaneka ngokujonga ezinye iimifanekiso / izinto ezibonakalayo zoqhagamshelwano.
- I-Scopophilia: ngelixa uzonwabelana ngesondo lubonelela ngokujonga ezinye izenzo zesondo. Ukungaboni nje, kodwa ukuxoxa, ukugqamisa iinkcukacha, ukuthelekisa nezinye izenzo, njl.
- I-Somnophilia okanye "Sleeping Beauty" syndrome: kule meko, ukuzonwabisa ngokwesini kufumaneka kwisimo esingashenxwanga ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo.
- I-Stigmatophilia: le ntlonipho yezocansi itholakala ngenxa yokufumana izinto eziphathekayo eziphathekayo - ngokuyinxibizo: iibhonce, iindandatho zedayim, njl njl.
- Urophilia: kulo mzekelo, ukuzonwabisa ngocansi kwenzeka xa udibanisa nomchamo. Kwaye, kungekhona ukuba ngumlingani wakhe womchamo. Kusenokuba ngumjelo wezilwanyana.
Emva kokuba ufunde zonke ezi ntlobo zesini, ukhangeleka ngokuhlukileyo kwizesondo eziqhelekileyo kunye nobunzima bawo. Kwaye ihlaya elingenasici libonakala liyi-handcuffs ezithambileyo kunye ne-vibrator phantsi komlambo. Yaye kunye nendlela yokwahlula phakathi kokuphambana ngokwesini kunye nesimilo esivamekileyo, akukho nkinga ngokwayo.