Uxinzelelo oluchaphazela isini

Mayelana neenzuzo zesini abhala kakhulu: ukwandisa umkhuhlane, ukhupha intlungu, ukukhathala, kunceda ukulwa noxinzelelo, kodwa ... kule mpi, isondo, i-alas, idla ngokuxhatshazwa.

Okokuqala, masichaze isigama-magama: kuthekani ngoxinzelelo? (Ngeliphi isondo, imibuzo, asithemba). Leli gama lokuxinwa ngesiNgesi lithetha "ukubetha, uxinzelelo, uxinzelelo." Iimeko zangaphandle okanye iingxaki zangaphakathi zixinzelelo ngomqondo wangempela-kwaye umzimba uphatha nazo zonke iintlobo zokukhubazeka kwengqondo nangokwenyama. Ukulala nokukhathazeka kwesondlo, okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, ukulala kunye nesifiso sokutya iibhokisi ze-candy, ukudabuka, ukuxhalabisa, ukunyanzeliswa, okanye ukuchithwa, ukuchasana-konke oku kuphendulela kwiimeko ezinzima. Yaye njengomthetho, phantsi kwengcinezelo yabantu abaninzi, ngelanga, musa ukulala ngesondo. Kodwa malunga ne-9% yabemi bazama ukusombulula iimeko ezixinzelelekileyo nje ngoncedo lwabo. Uphumelele kangakanani ukuthululwa komgcini-nkcukacha. Kungcono ukuvavanya ngamava.
Nangona kunjalo, kuyathakazelisa ukuba uxinzelelo "olungileyo" olubangelwa yimvakalelo ephazamisayo luyandisa kuphela inani le-hormone yesondo, ngoko ke, isondo sithinteka kakuhle. Okubi "kubangela iingxaki ezininzi kwiintlobano zesini, kodwa kumadoda nakwabasetyhini bazibonakalisa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Ngoko, unyango lwezesondo loxinzelelo.

Ukuba uxinzelelo lomntu

Yintoni eyenzekayo?
Amadoda amaninzi agcina iingxaki ngaphakathi. Abathethi iiyure kwifowuni malunga namava, musa ukuthululela ukuxhatshazwa kumakhohlisi, kwaye ulondoloze ngokwabo yonke imithwalo yeengxaki ezingaphendululwanga. Ngoko ke, xa umntu ejongene noxinzelelo, uvalelwe ngakumbi kuye. Nayiphi na imibuzo okanye ingqwalaselo engathandabuzekiyo iyamcasula. Ngokuphathelele isondo, kukho iindlela ezimbini zokuphucula imeko.

Ukuba uxinzelelo aluzinzi kwaye aluzinzulu kakhulu, lunokunyusa okwexeshana ukukhangela: ngokweengcali, ubulili besilisa buxhaswa ngokugqithisileyo, umnqweno wokuwina, ukuphumelela, ukusebenzisa amandla kunye negunya lawo. Kodwa ngelishwa, ukuphumla ngokwenyama akusoloko kuhambelana nokukhutshwa komzimba, kwaye ukuba imbangela yoxinzelelo ingaphantsi kunexinzelelo kunye nomsebenzi onzima kosuku emsebenzini, ayiyi kuququzelela isondo esifanelekileyo. Ngaphezu koko, iyakwazi ukunyuka kwaye ibangele ingxaki eyongezelelweyo.

Uhlobo lwesibini lokuphuhliswa kwimeko - ukungabandakanyeki kumlingane, ukudandatheka kweso sakhiwo kunye neengxaki zokumiswa. Kule meko, le ndoda igxininiswa ngakumbi kuye kwaye iqala ukukhusela umlingane, ukuze angabanjwa ekungcoleni, kubhekise ekukhathala nomsebenzi omkhulu.

Indlela yokuziphatha?
Ukulwa, okokuqala, yokuqala kunye neyona nto ibangela imbandezelo, kwaye kungekhona uphando. Ngokuphathelele isondlo ngokwaso, iqabane lifuna ukubonisa ubungqina kunye nomonde. Naluphi na uhlazo okanye, ngokugqithiseleyo, amahlaya, ukugculela, nangona mhlawumbi ulwimi lugqithisa ngokungenakubekwa, alufanelekanga. Emva koko, ufuna inkxaso kunye nokuqinisekiswa kokubaluleka kwakhe, kwaye kungekudala.

Ukuba umntu akabonakali isiluleko ebhedeni, iilwimi zobomvu ezintsha kunye ne-lace, amakhandlela kunye ne-striptease, inokwenzeka ukuba ayikho into. Lelo fowuni liza kubangela ukwesaba kwimeko okanye ukucaphukisa. Njengoko kukukhuthaza ukuba ukhethe ukukhetha okungeyona ndlela yokuzonwabisa - isidlo esiphundu kunye ne-aphrodisiacs, ukusilalisa. Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu: umntu ofanelekileyo kufuneka abe nomuvo wokuthi akaxabanga kuphela kwimiba yobudlelwane bebhedi.

Ukuba uxinzelelo lomfazi
Yintoni eyenzekayo?
Ngokungafani namadoda, abafazi basetyenziselwa ukuchitha amava abo ngaphandle. Kodwa malunga nokugqithiswa komnqweno wesondo ongaphandle kombuzo, ininzi yazo zonke kwiimeko ezixinzelelekileyo, abameli bezesondo abafanelekileyo bafuna ukuphumla, uxolo kunye novelwano. Ukuthintana noTactile - ukumbamba, ukunyamezela nokunyamekela ngamaxesha anjalo kubalulekile. Kodwa ukuba umntu uthatha isidingo sokunyamezela umnqweno wesondo ngokukhawuleza nangokukhawuleza, iingxaki kunye nezikhalazo ziyakwenzeka, kuba kulo mbuzo kukho ukungaqondi. Ngenxa yoko, umntu unokuziva enqatshelwe kwaye engafuneki, athathe i-akhawunti yakhe onke amava akhe (ngenxa yobutyebi bemvelo), avaliwe, akhubeke okanye atshise kuyo yonke into ekumangalelwa ngayo ukungabi nendawo yokubambisana kunye nokuqhelekileyo ... Kakade, konke oku akufakanga akukho ukuvumelana kwiintsebenziswano, okanye ukulwa neemeko ezixinzelelekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, umthandi onobubele kuxhomekeke kwimeko, okwenene, uyakwazi ukutshintsha ingqalelo iqabane kunye namava akhe ukuba athande.

Indlela yokuziphatha?
Ungaziphoqeleli ukuba ulale ngesondo, kuphela ukuba ungakhubekisi othandekayo, akuyi kuzisa uvuyo kuwe. Emva koko, umfazi uya kubonakala esetyenzisiweyo, umntu uya kuziva engathandeki naye, kuba uya kuziva ukuba akayikuvuyela umlingane. Ngako oko, kungcono ukuthetha ngokuthobeka: "Hayi, elinye ixesha", kunokuba ulale phantsi kwaye ucaphuke kwiqabane lakho ngokungahambisani nokungafaneleki. Ukuba kuphela into oyifunayo emva komhla onzima - uthathe ibhedi yokutshisa kwaye ulala, vumela ukuba uphumule uze uphumule. Into ephambili - zama ukuchazela intanda yakho ukuba ayikho kuye, kodwa kumava akho. Yaye qiniseka ukuba unikezela isikhokelo kwisenzo, esicacileyo kunye nekhonkrithi, ngaphandle kweengcebiso: "Ndifuna ukuba nje undibambe kwaye uphulaphule."

Ukuba imeko exinzelelekileyo iyaphumelela kwaye nayiphi na ingcinga ngesondo ngokukhawuleza ibangela ukukhishwa, kufuneka uzame ukutshintsha isimo sengqondo. Siyazi kwakhona ukuba iqabane eliphambili loxinzelelo luyikhathala. Zama ukuphumla uze ulale, kwaye mhlawumbi kungekudala ekamelweni lokulala awuyi kufuna kuphela ubuthongo obuhle.

Zama ukudala i-romantic atmosphere: ingcamango iza kunye nokutya, kwaye mhlawumbi ngokuthatha lokuqala iqhinga, wena ngokwakho ufuna ukuqhubeka.

Yaye ke, xa uxinzelelo lushiya emva kwaye yonke into ibuyele eqhelekileyo, ungayikhohlwa malunga nokuthintela uxinzelelo lokuthintela uxinzelelo. Emva koko, isondo, ukuba akunjalo ngaso sonke isikhathi kunokusebenza njengonyango olupheleleyo lwexinzelelo, ngoko nje ukuba isisombululo sokukhusela sisilumkile! Unika ukuphumla ngokwenyama kunye nokuphumla, kuphakamisa isimo sengqondo kunye nokuzithemba. Yenza njalo kangangoko kunokwenzeka, xa konke kulungile, kwaye ke uya kuphuma ngokukhawuleza uphumelele kuyo nayiphina imeko.