Inkcazo: umntwana omncinci uphupha ntoni
Ngokuqhelekileyo, lo ngumqondiso obonakalisa kakhulu, othembisa ukuvumelanisa okuphuphayo ebomini bentsapho kunye nentlalo-ntle. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba ujikelele kwiincwadi zokuphupha, akuyi kubuhlungu ukukhumbula zonke iinkcukacha zephupha: yintoni isini umntwana, ukubonakala kwakhe, ukuziphatha kunye neemvakalelo, yintoni ozive ngayo xa uyenza le nto.
Ziziphi iintsana ezithandayo, zifunde apha .
Ngoko, umzekelo, ukuba umntwana ocolileyo kwaye ozolile wayephupha, incwadi yokuphupha yamabhinqa aseMpuma kunye nomtoliki kaMiller ukutolika eli phupha njengomvuzo wokuqala wokuvalelwa kunye nokufudumala. Kungenzeka, ebomini bakho kuba ngumhlobo oyinyaniso okanye umngane ozinikeleyo wobomi.
Umntwana okhalayo uthi umphuphi unokujamelana neengxaki zempilo okanye ubunzima bezezimali. Gcina umntwana ezandleni zakhe kunye nexesha elifanayo ukuphulaphuka ukuhleka kwakhe okanye ukhangele nje ukummotheka kwakhe, uthi empilweni yangempela yonke into iya kusebenza kakuhle. Ezinye iinguqukizi zephupha ziyichaza lo mqondiso njengefezekiso elikhawulezayo lomnqweno okhulelwe.
Ukugcina umntwana olele ephupheni ubonisa imiphumo ephumelelayo yemicimbi yangoku kunye neziqalo. Ubomi bakho buya kuzaliswa uvuyo nokuvisisana. Yonke iya kuqhubeka ngokukhawuleza, ngaphandle kokutshatyalaliswa kunye namava ambi.
Ukuba umntwana wayeyintombazana, ke, qwa lasela iimeko ezintle ezinokubangela iingxaki. Inkwenkwe ekhuselekileyo iyinxalenye yebakala lokuba umsebenzi wakho uya kuvuzwa, mhlawumbi uya kuphakamisa okanye ukwakha indawo enenzuzo.
Uziva ntoni kule phupha
Iphupha, apho ubeka khona umntwana kwisandla sakho kwaye ngexesha elifanayo lafumana iimvakalelo ezingathandekiyo nezimbi, kubonisa ukuba uya kuba lixhoba lokukhohlisa okanye ukungcatsha. I-scandal inokwenzeka kumntu osondeleyo. Ezinye iincwadi eziphuphayo ziguqulela oku njengokuhlaselwa okubukhali kwimpilo.
Ukuba uzame ukuthatha umntwana owawubambelele, kuyisayinyikityhi ecacileyo yokuba ebomini bakho kukho umqhubi ofuna ukuthatha indawo yakho. Khangela ngakumbi koogxa bakho emsebenzini okanye kwimeko enyuliweyo (-s).
Ukubalekela engozini xa ubambe umntwana, uveza iziganeko ezixhalabileyo eziphuphayo, okuthe, mhlawumbi, ziya kutshintsha kakhulu ubomi.
Ukuhlabelela i-lullaby kumntwana kwaye ngexesha elifanayo ukufumana uvuyo nokunyaniseka kuthetha ukuba ekugqibeleni ufumene ukuvumelanisa nawe, okuya kuthi kukhokelela ekubhekeleni kwimpilo engcono kunye nolwalamano kunye nosapho nabanye. Ukuba ubone umntwana wakho kule phupha, mhlawumbi umntwana wakho uya kukukholisa ngokuziphatha kwakhe nothando.
Gcina umntwana ephupheni, njengoko sele uqondayo, kaninzi, ufuzisela utshintsho olulungileyo kwikamva. Kodwa ngaphezu koko, eli phupha liyakwazi ukunikela ubungqina kwiminqweno efihlakeleyo yokuzalisa intsapho yakhe ngenonwabo encinane.