Abazali abaninzi banenkxalabo yokuba ubusuku bobusuku buqala kubantwana. Ngokuqhelekileyo, oomama nabazali abanakuqonda kwaye bachane ngokufanelekileyo ukuba kutheni oku kwenzekayo. Ngenxa yokungaboni kakuhle le meko, bona ngokwabo baba nexhala xa ubusuku bokuqala obushushu buqala kubantwana. Yingakho abazali abaninzi befuna iimpendulo kwiifom kwaye bacele abahlobo babo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kufuneka uhlale uzama ukufumana ulwazi oluninzi njengoko kunokwenzeka, kodwa khumbula ukuba ngamnye umntwana unesizathu sokuhlambalaza.
Ngoko ke, ezo ndlela zifanelekile kwabanye abantwana, abanye bangenza ingozi enkulu. Ngaphambi kokuba usebenzise iziyobisi ezinokumisa utywala, qiniseka ukuba ubone ugqirha. Nguye kuphela onokukwazi ukuchonga ngokuchanekileyo oko kubangele le meko yomntwana kwaye kuthathwa unyango oluchanekileyo.
Izizathu ezinokwenzeka
Nangona kunjalo, ukuze abazali babe nolwazi olungakumbi, siya kukuxelela isizathu sokuba ubusuku buvame ukuqala. Okokuqala, umntwana angenza ubusuku bubuhlungu ngenxa yeemeko ezingathandekiyo kwintsapho. Kubantwana abancinci, uvakalelo oluphezulu kumandla ambi, aqokelela emakhaya apho wonke umntu engonwabileyo, udla ngokukhawuleza aze aqalekiswe. Enye imbangela yokuzihlaziya ingaba yinto engalunganga imihla ngemihla. Abazali abaninzi banamhlanje bakholelwa ukuba abantwana akufanele babeke isiseko esinzima. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba umntwana ulele ngaphambi kokuba adle ukudla, udlala kuze kube phakathi kobusuku bobabini, akayi kugcina nayiphi na irhulumente, adle, xa efuna kwaye engalali emini, inkqubo yakhe yeentlanzi ingasuswa, ekhokelela ekuhlambulukeni kwangokuhlwa. Ngokuqinisekileyo, imbangela yokungabikho kwempilo ingaba kunye neengxaki zempilo, kunye neemvakalelo ezahlukahlukeneyo zengane. Yingakho zonke iingcali zengqondo zicetyiswa ukuba zingabandakanyi iifilimu kunye nokusasazwa kwabantwana abancinci abonisa igazi kunye nogonyamelo. Emva kokubona okwaneleyo ngalolu suku, inkunzi yinkwenkwezi ixakekile, iyethusa, inqubo yakhe ye-nervous fragile iqala "kungenangqondo", ekhokelela ekukhohliseni.
Ukuziphatha kwabazali
Yintoni abazali abayenzayo xa umntwana eqala i-hysterical? Okokuqala, akufanele balahlekelwe ukuzithiba, kungenjalo, intsana iya kuyika ngakumbi. Ngokuqhelekileyo i-hysteria iqala emva kokuba umntwana evuka phakathi kobusuku. Ukuba umntwana wakho sele ekwazi ukuthetha, zama ukunyamezela kwaye ucele ngokuzenzekelayo malunga neliphuphayo. Xa unyana okanye intombi exelela ukuba wayenalophupha ngento ekhohlakeleyo, zama ukucacisa kumntwana ukuba konke oku akunjalo kwaye akukho mntu uya kumcaphukisa. Mgxeke, bange, uhlabelele i-lullaby okanye uqale ukuxelela ityala elihle. Ngokuqhelekileyo, qiniseka ukuba ibali lefilo ebusuku aliquki nababantu abanobukrakra, ongayiphupha kunye neloyiko umntwana. Ngokuqhelekileyo, amaqhinga avela nabantwana ukusuka kwiminyaka emithathu ukuya kwimibhozo. Khumbula ukuba kule minyaka iziganeko ezinjalo ziqhelekileyo. Isibandezelo sasebusuku akusikho isibonakaliso sokuba umntwana unengqondo engafanelekiyo. Ngokulula kule minyaka yobudala banokufumana ulwazi oluninzi kwaye ingqondo ayihlali ihlala nayo. Ngenxa yoko, imifanekiso kunye nemiqondo efunyenweyo ngosuku ingadideka, idale umfanekiso ongathandekiyo.
Ubushushu buvame ukuvela kubantwana abasebenza kakhulu. Inyaniso kukuba ubuchopho kufuneka buhlale ephupheni. Ukuba usebenza ngokuzimeleyo, ngoko kukho imifanekiso eyahlukileyo eyahlukeneyo, kukho imizwa yokwesaba, eyona nto ibangela imbandezelo. Yingakho qiniseka ukuba ubuncinane iiyure ezimbini ngaphambi kokulala umntwana uqala ukuzola. Mcetyise ukuba ubeke ezo zixhobo uze umenze ahlale ebukele uhlobo oluthile lwekhathuni okanye aphulaphule intsomi. Ukuba umntwana unelungelo lokumangalela, kulungile ukuba angashiyi kulo ubusuku ebumnyameni obumnyama. Thenga ukukhanya kobusuku kumntwana, ngoko ukukhanya kuya kuhlala kukwazi ukunqabisa umntwana kwaye akayi kucinga ngazo zonke iintlobo zokuphazamiseka. Kodwa ukuba ubona ukuba izibilini ziphinda ziphindaphindiwe, nangona kunjalo, kunjalo, qhagamshelana neengcali.