Ukuba uphupha malunga nolwandle, kwaye ufuna ukwazi oko kuthetha ntoni, sincoma ukuba siqale ngokukhumbula yonke into kwiinkcukacha ezincinci. Emva kwakho konke, iinkcukacha zibaluleke kakhulu ekuchazeni ngokucacileyo iphupha. Ngokubanzi, lo mfanekiso uthembisa ukutshintsha kwexesha elizayo kunye neziganeko ezingamangalisa, ukubaluleka kwazo kuxhomekeke kwisicwangciso sezinto ophuphayo. Olunye utshintsho lunokuzisa iingxaki kunye nentlungu kwixesha elizayo, kwaye abanye-banceda ukufumana ukuchuma, ukuvisisana kwintsapho kunye nezinye izihlandlo ezimnandi. Ngokuqhelekileyo, iphupha malunga nolwandle lugcinwa njengeencwadi zokuphupha kwisitishi esihle, kodwa ukuchazwa okuchanekileyo, funda iindidi eziphantsi.
Ulwandle luphupha ntoni
Ubuthongo bunixelela ntoni malunga nolwandle oluxakekileyo kwibali? Ngokuqhelekileyo kubonisa isimo sakho sengqondo. Unenkxalabo malunga naluphi na ukungathandabuzeki kunye nemixhala. Zama ukuzithoba uqonde izizathu zengxaki yakho yengqondo, mhlawumbi isisombululo kuwe. Kwakhona, iincwadi eziphuphayo zibonisa ukuba iphupha elo lingavumelani kulwalamano, ukuthotywa kunye nentukuthelo.
Ukuba ulwandle olunqabileyo luphupha ngentombazana encinci, ngoko mhlawumbi ukuxabana nomyeni wakhe kumlindele. Ukuba ulwalamano alupheli, kuyacaca ukuxelela ibali lamanje kwaye ngokugqibeleni ukukrazula "apho uphupha khona, apho kunye namanzi."
Ukuba isiqhwithi saselwandle siphupha ngomfazi otshatileyo, kuyafaneleka ukubeka ingqalelo kwihambo yomyeni wakho. Mhlawumbi akayivuyo ngesimo sakho sengqondo kuye kunye namagumbi okuthuka kunye nentlungu. Zama ukuqonda imiba enjalo yentsapho, kwaye ukuvisisana akuyi kukudlula.
Ukuzola okupheleleyo, kukuxelela ukuba lixesha lokutshintsha into ebomini bakho kwaye uhambe ukusuka kwizityalo ukuya kutshukumo kunye nemvakalelo. Unokuyibona le phupha njengento yokunyusa ukuba uphume kwindawo yoduduzo. Phambili apho ubomi bubetha khona!
Ukuba uphupha ulwandle olutywala nolungcolileyo, mhlawumbi ludaka kunye nodaka emanzini, uze ulungele ukuba yintloni yenkohliso yomntu othandekayo. Ngeli xesha, akufanele uqiniseke ngokuqinisekileyo abo bakufutshane nawe, nokuba ngabahlobo abathembekileyo. Uyabonisa ukuba unesongelo ngenxa yokungaphumeleli kwexesha kunye neengxaki zemali. Musa ukulibala ukuba ukuba iphupha lalinomphunga ekuseni, ngoko ayenayo into ebalulekileyo kubo.
Ulwandle olungenanto ngokucacileyo kunye namanzi a-azure kubonisa ukuba ebomini bakho kungekudala kuza kubakho iqela eliqaqambileyo, yonke into eqalisiwe iya kuthathwa ngempumelelo, kwaye kwintsapho, isangqa sohlobo kunye nomsebenzi ohlangeneyo kuya kuba lula ukuqonda nokuvuya.
Ukuba ulwandle lubonakala ngamanzi aluhlaza okanye amnyama, lukwazisa ukuba ebomini bakho kwakukho abantu abanomdla nababi. Ukuba unokuqikelela ukuba ungubani, iincwadi zephupha zincoma ukuba ugcine lo mntu ubuncinci, ekubeni amandla amabi enomona angaba yingozi kwishishini lakho.
Uphupha lolwandle ngantoni na?
Ulwandle olucocekileyo nolunqamlekileyo lubonisa umcimbi omkhulu ovuyayo, ukufumana okanye ukuphumelela okukhulu. Iingubo zeetoli ziyiguqulela njengolukhanyiso oluluhlaza kwizinto ezicetywe kudala, kodwa akazange alinge ukuyiqonda. Ukongezelela, amaphupha aseplanti ngaphambi kokuba kulungelelaniswe kunye nabantu abanomdla, ngoko uyavuya!
Ukuba unxweme aluhlanjululwanga, kwaye isanti ingcolile okanye igrey, ke lo ngumqondiso wokuqala ukuba umntu ufuna ukukhusela indlela yokwenza izicwangciso zakho zibe yinyani. Ukongezelela, oku kuwuphawu lokuba uyisisulu sokuhleba kunye neendlebe ezicolileyo.
Njengoko kwacaca - ukuchazwa kokulala kwiimeko ezininzi kuxhomekeke kwiinkcukacha. Zama ukukhumbula yonke into kwiinkcukacha ezincinci kwaye awuyi kuphosakela kwisisombululo.