Ukuwa othandweni, uziphosa ngaphakathi kolwandle lwamadlelo, ukhohlwa ngehlabathi elikujikelezayo kwaye ubone, ngubani kuphela onokuthanda ukuchitha lonke ixesha kunye neentsuku nobusuku. Kubonakala ngathi oku kuya kuba ngonaphakade kwaye rhoqo, ukuba nganye yesibini uza kuba nomhlobo wakho osondeleyo. Kwaye le ngcamango, intliziyo nomphefumlo zizaliswa ngovuyo novuyo.
Kodwa ininzi yethu inomzuzwana ebomini xa ubuhlobo bungafani noko babecala. Amaxesha omnwaba opheleleyo kunye nothando luqala ukufumana indlela yokuqhelekileyo. Loo mntu uqobo uqala ukuthatha. Uyeka ukuqonda othandayo, uqala ukulungisa. Kwakubonakala ngathi ixesha elidlulileyo, ukuthanda ngokugqithiseleyo kwaye ngokugqithiseleyo ezintliziyweni kuqala ukubola kwaye kubonakale njengentyantyambo engazange idibanise ixesha elide.
Ewe, uthando lunokuqhathaniswa ne-rose, eqaqambileyo, eneqholi elimnandi. Kodwa wonke umntu obambelele ezandleni zabo, uyazi malunga neepikhi. Ukuba le ntyatyambo ibanjwe ngokucophelela, ngaphandle kokuyifinya kwisiphambano ngezandla zakho, ngoko kuphela ukuzonwabisa okukuyo kuya kuhlala. Yaye ukuba uyayifaka, ameva ahlaba kakubi izandla zakho. Ngoko uthando alukwazi ukuxininiswa ngamandla, kungakhathaliseki ukuba lomelele kangakanani.
Ukwahlukana, ucinga ukuba oku kuhlala kunjalo.
Ukutshatyalaliswa ngokutshintshi utshintsho lwangaphakathi, uzama ukulibala umlingane wakho wangaphambili.
Kodwa ukuba kukho imvakalelo yangempela phakathi kwabantu ababini, ngoko uthando luya kuzivelela kwaye lubuye kwakhona. Ngokuqinisekileyo ingcamango yokuba ngokukhawuleza ukuba uya kuphinda uhlangane kungekhona ukuba uphume, ukuba intlungu emva kokubuyiselwa kolwalamano inokuthi ibe namandla ngakumbi kunokuba iyayikuphazamisa ngaphambili. Ukuvuselela uthando kwakhona, kholosa, wamkela umntu omthandayo njengoloyiko. Kodwa musa ukuba wedwa ukuba ungayiva nantoni na, kungekhona ukuba inkunzi yedwa yintlungu?
Ixesha liphilisa amanxeba, ixesha elibi liyakuthanda kodwa liphila kakhulu kangangokuthi lingahlawulela ngaphandle.
Ukuvuselela uthando kuthatha ngokungabonakaliyo. Emva koko i-photo engozini iya kuwa phantsi kweso, ize uyikhumbuze umthandayo. Uqala ukucinga kwakhona konke okwakusakuba ngaphambili, zonke iimpikiswano, amaxesha apho, ngaphandle komntu othandekayo, kwakungekho mfuneko kwanoma ubani. Ingcamango yakhe okanye ngaye ayiyekanga ukuphuma entloko yam. Sonke sinembopheleleko yobudlelwane bethu kwaye kulula ukuzilondoloza kunokuzigcina. Ngokusoloko siyesaba kuba asizithembi. Sifuna ukuziqhayisa kwaye sinemeko nayiphi na imiba. Sinqwenela ukubonisa ukuphakama kwethu kumlingane wethu. Kwaye kunzima ukuqonda ukuba awukwazi ukuba ngowokuqala othandweni, awukwazi ukuba ngaphezu kwesiqingatha sakho. Ngothando kufuneka uvuyiswe!
Kwaye ngomzuzwana omnye uqala ukucinga kwakhona kwaye uzibuze. Ngaba ucinga ngawe, into ayenzayo, into ayenzayo? Emva kwexesha, uqala ukubiza nokuthetha.
Ukuya emsebenzini kulunge ukuhlangabezana nomoya osandul 'ukufumana ukukhula kunye nokuvumba. Kodwa iphunga layo likhanya ngakumbi kwaye linamandla.
Uthando lokwenene lunye lwawo luyakuthintela ukuvuselela uthando lwabantu ababini. Kwaye ke, kungakhathaliseki ukuba lunamandla kangakanani uthando lothando, kungekhona ukuba alupheli. Musa ukuzama.
Ngokuqinisekileyo uzama ukutshintsha, utshintshe konke okusemandleni. Kodwa into ebaluleke kakhulu kukutshintsha wena. Yaye ukuba kuvela phi ixesha? Ngaba kufuneka uguqule wena?
Ngenxa yothando, kubalulekile ukuziva, ukhululekile kwaye ukhuselekileyo, ukuba awuyi kukhanyela nangona kukho ukungafani kohlobo, isimo sengqondo. Ukuba uyonke iyazalisana. Kakade, imvuselelo yothando lwabantu ababini kuxhomekeke kule mibini, kungekhona enye.
Imvuselelo yothando lwabantu ababini iyisigramente, kunye nemeko efunekayo yokuzaliseka kwayo kulandelelana. Ubunqunu kumthando, izenzo, izenzo. Ukuphindaphinda, intlonipho kunye nokufudumala.