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Ukuba kufuphi ...
Sijonge omnye nomnye, sibambe izandla, uphefumle ngokucacisa, ungacingi ukuba ukho ngaphandle komnye owenza intliziyo ibetha ngokukhawuleza ..Kodwa ... Kuthekani ukuba lo mvakalelo awunakwenzeka, ukuba ukuba uthando alukwazi ukuqhubeka? Ngokomzekelo, i-holiday romance ...
Kwenzeka ntoni ngokukhawuleza ukuphilisa olunye uthando, olungavumi ukuphila nokusebenza ngokuzinzile?
Ukuqala, kufuneka uhlalutye ngokucacileyo ubomi bakho, umgangatho wayo. Ungazifumani, kodwa unengqiqo, uzalise ubomi bakho bonke, imihla ngemizuzu yonke. Mhlawumbi - umdlalo omtsha wokuzonwabisa oza kuthatha umdla wakho kunye naso sonke ixesha sakho samahhala. Yenza ukuba ebomini bakho akukho ndawo yokukhupha! Vumela ebomini bakho kuza kuba nenjongo entsha (okanye uya kukhumbuza elidala elililiweyo, elinyanzelwanga). Ekugqibeleni, unokuzinikela ekuziqheleni, ukuzama ukufikelela kumgangatho ophezulu. Yenza uluhlu lweminqweno emincinci nemininzi, gxininisa ekuphunyezweni kwayo.
Unokukhawuleza ukuphatha olunye uluthando ngeendlela ezininzi.
Ngokomzekelo, jonga ngokukhawuleza into ekhangayo. Ukulinganisa zonke izinto ezixhamlayo kunye neengxaki. Zama ukubheka imeko kwiindawo ezihlukeneyo, ngokujonga okunzulu. Emva koko kufuneka ujonge kwiingxaki, qalisa ukuziqinisekisa ukuba lo mntu akafanelekanga amava akho. Kwaye nangona kunjalo, akufanelekile ukuba uphule ubomi bakho (okanye).
I-Essence - kufuneka uzalise ubomi bakho ngeentlobo ezintsha, iimvakalelo. Emva koko olunye uthando luya kudlula. Awunaso ixesha 'elomileyo' into yokukhanga.
Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba ihlabathi likhulu. Kwaye kuyisidenge ukunikela lonke ixesha lakho kunye nomnye umntu ongenakukufuna. Musa ukuzibandakanya ekukhohliseni kwaye uchithe ixesha lakho kwithemba kunye nethemba lokuba izinto ziza kuqala. Ulunge uzame ukucinga ukuba kwenzeke ntoni ukuba ubuye uhlala ndawonye. Nanku, usuku ludlulileyo, inyanga ... yonyaka ... Utshintsho luye lwadlulela, izihloko zengxoxo ziphelile, kwaye imigqa emitsha emininzi iyavulwa kwisithandwa sakho, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuqala ukucaphukisa nokucaphukisa. Kwaye ke imihla ngemihla. Izisa inzondo, akunjalo? Cinga malunga nokuba zikhona iimpawu kumntu ozimiselayo okwangoku, iimpawu oza kuthanda iminyaka emininzi, ngaba uya kukwazi ukuvuma into ethile kwixesha elizayo, ngaba iimbono zakho zihambelana nezinto ezibalulekileyo kwimpilo? Ingaba iphafu lakho elilandelayo lifanelekile kuwe? Ngaba yonke iminqweno ayanyamalala?
Enye indlela efanelekileyo yokuphilisa ngokukhawuleza uthando lwakho kukunciphisa amandla othando kunye nokuthe ngqo, umzekelo, ekudaleni izinto. Dweba, bhala, udale into, nokuba ucinga ukuba awunalo italente. Kodwa uya kuba nomsebenzi omtsha, ozayo ekutsaleni uthando lokwenene kuwe! Kwaye mhlawumbi, intshaba oyibhalayo, ichaza amava akho, iya kuba yintengiso entsha!
Abantu abaninzi bancedwa ngeengxoxo, mhlawumbi kunye nengcali yeengqondo, mhlawumbi kunye nonina, kunye nezinye zilula ukutyhila kumhlobo ongaqhelekanga. Ukuvakalisa imeko, ukuthetha ngobudlelwane bakho obusondeleyo ekuthandweni kwanamhlanje, ukuzithetha ngomlomo ukuya kwinqaba - yintoni enokukunceda!
Kodwa ungazami ukubaleka kwiingcinga ezibuhlungu, ukusuka kumava akho. Ukuxinezeleka kwiimeko ezinjalo ziqhelekileyo! Iinzame zokufihla kuphela ukwandisa imeko, zolulela ixesha elide imizwa yakho enzima, ngoko lusizi, lusizi ngokuphindaphindiweyo nangaphezulu. Ngenye imini uya kudinwa yiyo.