Okokuqala, kufuneka uvume ukuba emva kokuba uyavuya kunye kunye. Ukuhlambalaza kunye nentukuthelo kuya kubangela ukuba kungabi nantoni, masibulele omnye nomnye into ewake wayenawe. Gcina izikhumbuzo ezintle, kwaye emva kwesikhumbuzo somlingane uza kuhlala uhamba kakuhle. Kwakungekho ikusasa eliqhelekileyo-kakuhle, oko akuthethi ukuba omnye wenu ulungile.
Ngoko le ngqungquthela yamaphepha iphelile
Ngamanye amaxesha uMlingo uphela - lowo oziva naye njengendoda yamakhosikazi, emva kwexeshana yayingekho inkosana. Kodwa zonke izinto ezisetyenziswayo zivela phi? Impendulo ilula - yayisoloko ikhona, bahlala bengaqapheli ngexesha lokuwa ngothando.
Kwenzeka, kwaye ngokulandelelana - umntu akakatshintshi nhlobo, kodwa ubuhlobo abufani na ngaphambili. Kule meko, kubalulekile ukucinga ngokucokisekileyo malunga nezizathu ze-gap - emva kokuhlukana, izinto ezintle zikhunjulwa zingakhokelela ekuzisola okungenamsebenzi. Ewe, nabanye bahlala bekhawuleza ukuhlambalaza ngenxa yokuhlukana, kuba ukusuka kwicala lobudlelwane babonakala bebhetele kunokuba kunjalo. Ungazivumeli ukuhlambalaza, khumbula zonke iimigodi zobudlelwane bakho. Ufanelekile ngakumbi!
Amanyathelo okuthatha isigqibo
Indlela eyona nto eyona nto yokwahlukana kukuba wenze isigqibo esinzima malunga nesigqibo sakho. Ngaphezu koko, akufanele nanini ukuyeka ulwalamano ngokukhawuleza, ukungahoywa yonke imiyalezo kunye neefowuni. Nika iqabane lakho ithuba lokubonisa uluvo lwabo ngeengxaki. Mhlawumbi, kusekho uthando phakathi kwakho kunye nengxoxo enyanisekileyo kuya kunceda ukulungisa ubuhlobo bakho. Ukuba akunjalo, ingxoxo evulekileyo iya kunceda ukuphepha ukukhungatheka kwaye uhlale kunye nabahlobo bakho beqabane elizayo.
Musa ukuqalisa ingxoxo malunga nokuhlukanisa kwindawo kawonkewonke. Le nyathelo elibi elingenakufuneka lenziwe uluntu. Fumana ubudlelwane phakathi kwesihlwele sabantu abangaziwayo ngokungahloneliyo zombini kunye nezinto ezidibanisa nawe. Kuphela xa ukrokreka ukuba indoda ingasabela ngokungafanelekanga, kufuneka ukhethe indawo yokutyela efanelekileyo yokuthetha.
Ubungqina bobuqu
Akusiyo iphoso lakho lokuba ubudlelwane buphelile. Ngoko nangona, emva kokuchazela kwakho okucacileyo ngezizathu zesiphene, umntu uyacaphuka kwaye ubonisa indlela engafanelekanga ngayo, akufanele utyholele. Into kuphela emele ikukhathaze ikwahlula ipropati yakho yomnini-mveliso okanye, ngokungabikho kwayo, ukubuyisela zonke izinto zakho ezishiywe ngaphambili. Awunanto efanelekileyo kumlingane wakho, ngoko akufanele ushiye ii-akhawunti zakho okanye nayiphi na into ekhoyo.
Ubudlelwane ngabantu babini
Ukuba ungumqalisi wekhefu, kwaye isizathu salo ngenye indoda, akunakunceda ngokupheleleyo ukubetha umntu. Uncike kwingxoxo oyeke ulwalamano kungengenxa yomnye umntu, kodwa isizathu-iingxaki ebubudlelwaneni obukhoyo, ukuze ungabonakali iimvakalelo zeqabane. Musa ukutshabalalisa ubudlelwane nomntu onyanisekileyo noqondayo. Ukuba imeko ihluke ngokupheleleyo kwaye isizathu sokutshatyalaliswa ngokuchanekileyo kukungcatshiswa kwindoda yeso sidima, kuya kuba lukhulu. Kutheni uhlala nohlobo lomntu ongenakuhlonela?
Kwaye okubaluleke kakhulu, khumbula - akudingeki ukuba ucimezele iimvakalelo zakho. Ukuqhathaniswa kukubuhlungu, ngoko akumele uzinze. Ngaphandle kokunciphisa ukudabuka, uya kuhlangabezana namava ngokukhawuleza kwaye ngokukhawuleza uza kubona ukuba kwixesha elizayo uza kuvuyiswa kuphela.