Yintoni engalunganga ngokuthandana kwikhompyutha?
Unetyala kwiimanani ezibuhlungu zokuhlukana, ngokungaqhelekanga, kukukhetha okubanzi. Xa sikwazi ukutshekisha amaninzi okanye namakhulu emininzi yemibuzo ngemihla, oku kufana neemeko zokutyela apho, ngenxa yokungafani kwemenyu, isivakashi asinakukwazi ukugqiba oko akufunayo ngokwenene. Kubonakala ngathi kuthi kumgqatswa ngomhla umntu ongenamfanelanga, kufuneka athunyelwe kwi "basketball" nge-stroke elula ye "nqakraza", ukubuyela kumntu ongcono.
Ingxaki kukuba ukukhangela ngokukhawuleza kuya kuba yinto engathandekiyo. Siyalibala malunga nenjongo yangaphambili - ithatyathwa yinkqubo ngokwayo, leyo, ekuqwalaseleni amathuba e-intanethi kunye nabemi boMhlaba, inokuhlala ixesha elide uthanda.
Ngaphezu koko, ngokujonga ezininzi iimbuzo njengokuba kunokwenzeka, siba lukhulu kakhulu kwaye siqale ukugxeka ngokucacileyo malunga nomviwa. Asifuni ukubeka iinzame ezininzi kwiinkalo (kuninzi lwazo zichithe ukufuna!), Silindele kumntu ukuba uya kuba yinto efanelekileyo. Ukulindela okugqithiseleyo kukho ngakwelinye icala, oluyinkimbinkimbi yimeko kwaye luya kudana.
Ngaba ukuthetha okungekho ngomlomo kubaluleke ngaphezu kweembono eziqhelekileyo?
Enye ingozi enkulu yokuthandana kwi-intanethi kukuba sikhetha iqabane elizayo kwiimpawu ezisemthethweni (ukufunda iincwadi ezifanayo, ukubukela iifilimu ezifanayo, iikati zothando), kunye nokubonakala. Kodwa izazinzulu ziye zatshengisa ukuba izinto ezichaseneyo ziyakhangwa - inempilo yakho kwaye ibe nemveliso iya kuba ngumanyano wakho nomntu osisigxina sakhe sokuzivikela esiya kuhluke ngokupheleleyo kuwe. Kulo mfa nekiso, unokuthanda kakhulu, kodwa isandi sezwi okanye iphunga (kwakhona, ngokwemiqathango yophando, izinto ezibalulekileyo) ziyakucasula. Okanye, ngokuphambene nalokho, ukulungelelanisa kwakho (ngokuhambelana nokusebenza ngokomzimba) iqabane eliphosakeleyo kuphela ngenxa yesakhelo esingaphumeleli kwi "avatar".
Esi sicwangciso, ngokuqinisekileyo, ulwalamano lokwenene lunethuba eliphezulu kakhulu lokuqhubeka ngokuqhubekayo. Emva kwakho konke, xa sidibana, ngokukhawuleza sivavanya ukuba ingaba iqabane elifanelekileyo lifanelekile ngathi. Ukuba uyasinomdla - uze uxoxe ngeencwadi zakho ezizithandayo-ii-movie-ikati. Ukuba akunjalo - nokuba i-100% "hit" kwiminqweno ayiyi kunceda. Ngaphandle kokuba wenze abahlobo, oko akukho okubi.
Nangona kunjalo iziza zokuthandana zinengqiqo!
Akufanele sikhohlwe ukuba xa sifila kwi-intanethi, sonke sisebenza kwiingcamango-sibonisa ukuba siphezu kwamacala enu kwaye siyawaphulaphula. Ngaloo jolo unesiqiniseko sokuthi kwakukho umphefumlo wakho wecala ngaphesheya kweso saziso, kodwa namhlanje udibana kwaye uqonde ukuba ungowabantu abangaqhelekanga, abangenanto into efanayo ngaphandle komkhwa wokufihla owenene "mna".
Nangona kunjalo, kukho ubudlelwane be-intanethi kunye namacala amnandi. Ukunxibelelana ngethungelwano kunceda abantu abanokuzithemba abanakho ngaphandle kwekhompyutheni ababengeke babe nethuba nonke ngomhla wokuthandana. Ukuqhagamshelana nge-Intanethi kudibanisa abantu abangazange bahlangane ngobomi bokwenene. Kunokwenzeka ukuthetha ngokuzithemba ngokupheleleyo ukuba i-Intanethi idibanisa imiphefumlo enomdla ehlala kwizixeko ezahlukeneyo nakwamanye amazwe. Kodwa ungakulibali ukuba iwebhu ihlala isetyenzisiwe kuphela, ayiyikucombulula iingxaki zakho zengqondo, ayiphatheli iinkomfa, ayinakucacisa ukuphikisana kulwalamano. Ngoko ke, akunakulungele ukubethemba kakhulu ithemba lokuba ulindele ngqo kwinethiwekhi. Ngamanye amaxesha, ukufumana uthando, kwanele nje ukukhangela.