Amanyathelo olwalamano lwentsapho

Ukufikelela kwiminyaka ethile, abantu bathambekele ukutshata, qalisa intsapho. Kwaye oku kuchanekileyo. Umtshato kwihlabathi lanamhlanje alibophelelo, kungekhona ukuzidela, kungekhona isiqalekiso kungekhona ukuzaliseka kwamathemba omntu kunye nethemba. Luhlobo nje lolwalamano lwabantu. Kucingelwa nje ukuba abantu kwezobudlelwane kufuneka babe nolonwabo. Isibini sibini esitshatileyo sinamanyathelo afanayo kwiintlobano zabo:

1 isigaba. "Kemistry of Love"
Kwakhona kuthiwa isigaba se-marshmallow-chocolate. Ubungakanani beminyaka engaphantsi kweyure nesiqingatha. Ngeli thuba, zonke iintlanganiso zebhinqa elinomntu zifakwe eluhlaza, umzimba uvelisa ngokukhawuleza i-hormones yolonwabo.

Ngeli xesha elifutshane lezobudlelwane, yonke into ifanelana nabathandi. Ilizwi liyabonakala limangalisa kwaye lingenakuqhathaniswa, nokuba nantoni na isichukutha. Abantu baseburhulumenteni kunye noxolo, kodwa yonke into iyadlula. Eli xesha liya kugqitywa. Ngoko ke, izigqibo ezikhawulezayo akufanele zithathwe.

2 isigaba. "Isigaba satiation"
Ngeli xesha, iimvakalelo zakho ziyancipha, zizinzile. Emva koko umlutha oqhelekileyo kumntu ulandela. Ulwalamano oluthandanayo luba luqhelekileyo, lufikelele kwinani labo. Isigaba sokuzalisa siqala, kwaye emva koko uqala ukuxhamla. Kuza ukuzola phambi kwesiqhwithi, njengokungathi kwindalo. Ivumba leqhwithi sele livalekile emoyeni, kodwa lisazolawuleza, lihlaziye kwaye lizolile.

Isigaba 3. "Ukunyaniseka"
Esi sigaba silandela nayiphi na ubuhlobo besikhathi eside. Uqala ukuchasana ubudlelwane, kukho ukuxabana. Abantu abaqapheli ebuhlotsheni obuhle, babona kuphela iimpazamo zeqabane. Njani ukuba?

Ukwahlukana, ngokuqinisekileyo, yindlela elula yokuphuma kwezo zibudlelwane ezidibeneyo, kodwa neyona nto ingenangqiqo. Kubi ukuba uphinde ujoyine i-marshmallow chocolate, kodwa omnye umntu.

Abanye abantu bahlala bejikeleza kuphela kwezi zigaba ezintathu. Kuyathakazelisa ukuba iiHind ziqwalasela ezi zigaba ukuba zibe ngumgangatho ongafanelekanga kumntu wanamhlanje ophucukileyo. Emva kwakho konke, ubuhlobo bokwenene awungenanga.

Kwisigaba 4. "Umonde"
Eli lixesha elinzima kakhulu. Ibonakala ngeengxabano ezide. Kodwa abayingozi njengalowo wesigaba sangaphambili. Abalingani sele beyazi ukuba emva kokuxabana kuyakuba kukubuyiselwa kobudlelwane. Ukuba uzama ukwenza imizamo yokunyamezela, unokuziva uphuhliso lwengqondo. Lo ngumthetho oqinileyo wendalo. Ngoko, sikhumbula ukuba ngeli xesha sifumana ingqondo.

5 isigaba. "Umsebenzi kunye neNtlonipho"
Le nqanaba lokuqala lothando. Ngaphambi kwakhe, kwakungekho luthando. Abalingani baqala ukucinga ngento endikweleta yona, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo oko ndimele ndiyenzele omnye. Kwaye le nkxalabo kwiimbopheleleko zabo iqala ukuphuhlisa abantu.

Isigaba 6. "Ubuhlobo"
Ngeli xesha, ukulungiswa kwangempela kwothando kuqala. Isigaba sisekelwe kubuhlobo obudlulileyo. Abalingani kufuneka benze "ibhanki yethemba". Ngaphandle kwentlonelo, ubudlelwane abuyi kukhula.

Kwisigaba se-7. "Uthando"
Indlela elula kunzima kwaye idlulileyo idlulileyo. Isibini esilindele umvuzo ofanelekileyo-uthando lokwenene. Ungakhathazeki ukuba iya kumisa okanye iyancipha ngokuhamba kwexesha. Hayi, iya kwanda kwaye ibe namandla ngakumbi.

Kucinganiselwa ukuba abantu baya kukwazi ukuhamba kwezi nqanaba ezisixhenxe kwiminyaka eyi-12 okanye ngaphezulu.

Uthando aluyinto. Akunakwenzeka ukuthenga. Kufuneka ukuba unqwenele bonke ubomi. Uthando lufanele luqeqeshe ngeemeko zobomi ezahlukeneyo. Oku kufana nobuhlobo obude kunye obusondeleyo. Uthando aluwa phezu kweentloko zethu, thina ngokwethu siya kuzo, ngamehlo ethu, siyazikhulula ekuzingca.

Ngoko ke, izibini ezithatha isigqibo sokuqhawula umtshato, sifuna ukufundisisa kunye nokwenza abahlobo. Kwaye ke uthando olukhulu luya kuza. Kufuneka uzuze abo basoloko behlala nathi.

Ewe, le ndlela sisiphila ngayo, nangona isibini esitshatileyo sibona oku ngokungaqiniseki. Kwixesha le-chocolatshi le-marshmallow akunakwenzeka ukuqonda ukuba luthando lokwenene lithetha ntoni. Emva koko, unamaphunga ayisithandathu. Iyanamnandi kwaye iselityu, i-astringent and astringent, ibukhali kwaye ibuhlungu.

Ngoko awukwazi ukufuna into ethile kumlingane wakho, kodwa kufuneka uhlale uthembekile kwintando yakho. Ukuzinikela ngumgangatho ophezulu wokungafaki uthando. Ukuba ucinga ukuba uthando luphelile, luphelile, ngoko uyazi ukuba uthando lwakho alukaqalanga.