Impembelelo yothando kumntu omdala Akukho ncwadana enikezelweyo, akukho mbhali omnye ocinga ngalo kwesi sihloko. Iimpembelelo zothando zibandakanya konke. Oku kuthetha ukuba umntu omdala umntu ingatshintsha ngokuphawulekayo nje emehlweni abanye, ezi zinguqu zibonakala kuye. Uthando luvakalelo olunokubangela umntu ukuba achazwe ngamazwe ahlukeneyo. Inika amandla kwaye uyabasusa. Yenza umntu akhuphe emaphikweni enoyolo kunye nenobhiya. Uthando lunokubangela ubuhlungu buhlungu, uvelise umntu kwiimeko zovuyo.
Ngoko, yintoni umphumo wothando?
Umntu omdala uphila, kumaphupha akhe-uthando, ukuthanda kunye nemilingo. Umntu uphila ngobusuku bokuqhuma kwemvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo ezivuthayo. Usuku luyeza, kwaye utolo lwekhapiti lutshitshisa ngqo. Kwaye umntu eyangaphambili iyalala, idibanisa kwintlanzi yeemvakalelo eziphazamisekile. Abadala umntu ijika ibe ngumlambo ongapheliyo wokumomotheka, intlaba emehlweni. Impembelelo yothando kumntu omdala Unokuba namandla kangangokuba izinto eziqhelekileyo ezingazange zidale ukukhathala kunye nokucasuka kwangaphambili kuba ngumthwalo onzima ukuba ubaleke kude nenyaniso kwimaphiko enoyolo.
Umntu uqala ukwenza izinto ezixhomekeke kwingcaciso kuphela kwinqanaba lokujonga lakhe, ukuthanda, ukuqonda. Ngaphandle kwale ngcamango ayikho into. Ndiyabulela kwimpembelelo yothando kumntu omdala, kunye nokukhululeka ebomini nasezenzweni, uvakalelo lonwabo oluhlala luhlala njalo, ezinye iimpawu zingabonakalisa. Izithembiso ezenziwe ngumntu omdala ziyaziqonda ngakumbi. Umntu omdala ngononophelo olukhulu ukuzama ukuphunyezwa kwazo. Izenzo azibekiyo njengokuba zazikho ngaphambili, kodwa ngamabomu, iziphumo zabo zilinganiswa. Emva kwakho konke umntu ayisekho yedwa, kukho omnye umntu onoxanduva kuye. Umntu Umthandi uyakwazi ukudala ubuhlanya. Kunzima ukunqanda ukuphakama okukhulu kwamandla, amandla asebenzayo aqondisa umntu.
Impembelelo yothando yinto evuselela umntu, iphakamisa amandla akhe. Umntu ulungele ukulibala malunga neminqweno yakhe kunye neengcamango zomdla kunye nemibono yomnye umntu. Uthando lufana nomdaniso wabini. Ngaba kuya kuba kuhle ukuba abadlali bengenayo isivumelwano kwiminyathelo? Hayi! Ngaba umculo wakhe uya kuba mnandi xa umntu enomculo wakhe? Hayi! Umntu ovila Baya kuthi: "Kunzima ukudibanisa isigqi!" Yaye indoda ethandwayo iyaphendula: "Ewe, kodwa kungcono ukuhlala emva kweemeko zobomi kwaye ubukele abadansi ngokudabukisayo?"
Kodwa umlilo wothando olunothando unokulungisa nokutshabalalisa. Masikhumbule uthando olungathandabuzekiyo. Kodwa ingabe imiphumo yayo ingalunganga? Uthando, ngokubambisana okanye kungekho, luhlala luqhuba ngamandla. Ngosizo lwakhe, ndoda ufumanisa ngokwayo umgubo wokudala. Umntu omdala iba ngumdali wezinto ezintle, nokuba ngababugcisa, okanye kwimpilo yemihla ngemihla. Akunakwenzeka ukumelana nempembelelo yothando. Umntu uthinjelwe kwiimvakalelo ezinamandla kunye namava. Ukuzama ukugqithisa kwi-shackles, umntu omdala uhamba ngaphaya kwezemvelo, ufunda malunga nabo abangaziwa ngaphambili. Ukushiywa ngothando olungathandabuzekiyo, umntu ufuna ithuba lokuzibamba, kuba akafumananga oku kwintanda yakhe. Kwaye ke, ngenxa yempembelelo yothando kumntu omdala, utshintsho lwekhadiji luyakwenzeka ebomini bakhe. Ukusebenza kude kube ngoku njengomsebenzi olula, umntu ngokukhawuleza ufumana umculo, ufumane amandla okulwa nentlungu nokudumala. Uthando lwenza umntu asebenze ngokwabo kwaye atshintshe, aphakamise kwizinga elitsha, phezulu.
Uthando luhle kuyo yonke imbonakalo. Mntu, ungesabi yimiphumo yakhe! Kholelwa kuwe kunye namandla akho, kwaye uthanda uyakukholelwa kuwe!