Ngethuba le ntlawulelo yomtshakazi kufuneka ihlale ingadlulanga ngaphezu kwemizuzu engama-40, ngaphandle koko iya kuthatha ixesha elide, kwaye umyeni kunye nabahlobo bakhe baya kunzima ukuphendula imibuzo engapheliyo kunye nokuthatha inxaxheba kwimincintiswano. Ngoko ke, balale inkqubo ngokuchanekileyo, kuba phambi kwemitshato emitsha kunye nemidlo. Musa ukulibala ukuba i-video yentlawulelo yomtshakazi kufuneka imele ifake ifilimu yomtshato, ngoko qaphela ukuba ngubani oza kudubula lonke isenzo.
Imiba yokukhululwa komtshakazi
YesiNtu
Kule meko, yonke into ilula. Iintombi zidibana nomyeni kunye nabakhonzi bakhe ekungeneni kwendlu okanye esangweni, ukuba intlawulelo yenzeka endlwini yangasese. Bathi amagama amkelekileyo kwaye anikezele ukuphendula imibuzo emininzi, ebhaliweyo, umzekelo, kwimimandla yendlela ejikeleza indlela eya kumtshakazi. Imibuzo ingaba:
- Wadibana njani na?
- Mangaphi eminyaka kamamazala kamva?
- Yintoni umbala omthanda umtshakazi?
- Zingaphi iisentimitha ezinqeni zakhe okanye yintoni ubude bayo?
- Zingaki iintsuku owaziwayo?
- Ukhe waqala nini ukuvanga?
- Zingaphi iintsuku ezidlulileyo ukususela kuye?
Ngayo yonke impendulo engafanelekanga okanye engafanelekanga umyeni kufuneka akhokhe iintombi zeentombi.
Umncintiswano ogqithiseleyo kukuzaliswa kweziglasi ezintathu. Ubungqina bucela umyeni ukuba agcwalise iziglasi ezintathu ngendlela ethile. Ngowokuqala kufuneka iqhube, okwesibini ikhala ngokukhawuleza, kwaye kwisithathu-zazhurchat. Oko kukuthi, kufuneka ubeke iibhidi zamaphepha kwi-container yokuqala, ubeke iincinci zemali kwisibini, uze ugcwalise yesithathu nge-champagne.
Emva koko umyeni udla ngokukhawuleza ephepheni kwaye, ekuqhawuleni i-petal nganye, ubhala izicwangciso zakhe zintanda.
Ekugqibeleni, umyeni unokucelwa ukuba acinge ukuba luhlobo luni lomtsalane lomlomo. Kule nto, kwiphepha le-A4 ubukhulu, ukushicilelwa kweepiliti kushiywe kwi-lipstick ye-intombi nje kuphela, kodwa, ngokomzekelo, izalamane zomtshakazi. Iphutha kwakhona kufuneka lihlawule.
Zonyango
Okokuqala, emnyango wendlu kufuneka ubhale ngeencwadi ezinkulu: ukutywinjwa. Ngaloo ndlela, umyeni, ukuze angeniswe kumtshakazi, kuya kufuneka ahlole uvavanyo olubonakalayo oluvela kumantombazana agqoke ngeengubo ezimhlophe. Unokuqala ngogqirha-oculist, ngubani, ngokujonga umboniso wakhe, uya kuqala ukuthuthuza umyeni, oko kuthetha ukuba loo mihla okanye eminye imihla ekhunjulwayo kumncinci.
Ingcali kwiimeko zengqondo zibuza ukuba ingaba umfana uyaphila ngothando.
I-psychotherapist iya kunika ithuba lokuvavanywa kwengqondo. Omncinane kufuneka atyule umfanekiso wesithandwa sakhe njengemibala emnandi.
Kusuka kwiimfuno ze-intlawulelo yomtshakazi kuya kufuneka:
- iingubo ezimhlophe ngokubhekiselele kwinombolo ethatha inxaxheba kumnandi;
- iphepha A4 kunye neepeni, abamakishi bebala;
- I-phonendoscope engahlawulwa kuyo isethi yokudlala yezingane;
- izixhobo ezisuka kwisethi efanayo ukujonga umqala, isando kunye ne-thermometer.
Yinhle
Le meko ilungelelanise ukuthenga umtshakazi endlwini yangasese, kuba iindawo ezinkulu zifunwa. Ngendlela, ookhokho bethu bathandana nale nto, bahamba kunye neentetho zeenkondlo, ukwenzela ukuba intengo yomtshakazi onokuthiwa yintombi ingabizwa ngokuba ngumtshato wesiRashiya.
Ukuqhubela phambili endleleni, intombi zivela kunye nemingcipheko. Bathabatha iindophi, banikela umyeni ukuba bawubhabhise, kwaye xa bengenako, bahlawule, bamenze umkhwelo wakhe kunye nabahlobo bakhe ukuba basakaze imimoya emibi.
Umncintiswano wokuqala wohlawulelo lomtshakazi uya kuba kukunqoba umlambo ovuthayo emanyathelweni apho iminqweno yamantombazana ibhaliwe, ekusebenzeni kwabo abahlobo bomyeni ukuba bancede.
Enyanisweni, ukhuphiswano olungenagqirha luyakwazi ukuza nemali enkulu. Khangela ukuba uluhlobo luni lomfazi umthanda kakhulu, kwaye uhlakulele iskripthi ngokuthandayo. Kwiingubo zamantombazana kufuneka ukuba abe neenjongo ezintle: izithsaba, i-mermaid wigs, iimbane zemilingo, iingubo zengubo. Ukuba intlawulelo yomtshakazi iqhutyelwa ebusika, ngoko iinjongo zonyaka omtsha kunye neengubo zentsimbi kunye neenwele ze-Snow Maidens aziyi kubakho nzakalo.
Ukufuna
Kule meko, umtshakazi ufuna ividyo ukuhamba ngokuqinisekileyo. Okokuqala umyeni uthunyelwa ividiyo ngeendaba zokuthi intanda yakhe ithinjwa. Kwaye, ekhokelwa ngamacebo afihlakeleyo kwiindawo ezahlukahlukeneyo ezikhunjulwayo esi sibini, yena kunye nabahlobo bakhe kufuneka bafumane apho abaphangi babamba khona.
Kwinqumle: Ngendlela, intlawulelo yomtshakazi kwisitayela sombuzo awuyiyo into entsha. Ukuba ukhangelelwa kwizithethe zomtshato zehlabathi , unokwazi ukubhalwa kwincwadi yesiTaliyane, ngokutsho kwabo bathatyathwa ngaMaxesha aphakathi. Kwaye ama-grooms ayefuna ukucula ii-serenades kwaye ahlawule ukubuyela kwabo.
Inkundla
Iingcamango zentlawulelo lomtshakazi zingaba zihluke kakhulu. Yaye iseshoni yeenkundla zamajaji yindlela efanelekileyo yokubamba esi siganeko.
Iimfuneko zokukhululwa komtshakazi ngesimo senkundla ziya kuba yingubo yokwahlulela, isando kunye nezinto zokukhuphisana. Kuya kuba mnandi ukwenza i-wig emhlophe kumgwebi.
Iiposter for the bride of redemption
Ngokwemvelo, isiko lokuthenga umtshakazi akubhekiseli nje kuphela ukuba kukho ubhalo, kodwa luyilo olufanelekileyo. Ukuba intlawulelo iqhutywe endlwini yangasese, iiplanga ziyihobisa indawo kunye nocingo. Ukuba kwindlu ephakamileyo ephezulu, iindonga zomnyango. Iiposters zokukhululwa komtshakazi zithengiswa kwivenkile kunye neempawu zomtshato, kodwa zithathwe ngezandla okanye zenziwe kumhleli ocacileyo kwikhomputha, kwaye ziprintwe, ziza kubonakala zininzi zangaphambili. Kwimifanekiso yokubeka iifoto zabantwana abatsha, abazali, abahlobo, mhlawumbi imifanekiso ethandekayo ezintliziyweni zabathandi.
Kulo gumbi, intombazana enomdaka (amehlo anamehlo aluhlaza, i-eyes-blue) iyaphela.
Apha sithengisa umfazi,
Zibiza kakhulu!
Awufuni - njengoko ufuna!
Sisoloko sifumana umyeni!
Xa kungekho amagama anele othandweni, benza isipho!
Lindela, umyeni!
Ngaba ukhawuleza kumtshakazi?
Ndingaye ndihlekise nawe.
Thatha ikhefu kule ndawo
ndihlawule ihlawulelo elinikelayo.
Siyamxabisa umtshakazi!
Musa nje ukuyeka!
Ngomtshakazi musa ukugquma, imali ikhutshwe!
Kodwa awufuni, sebenza!
Uqikelele impendulo!
Ukulondoloza apha akukho ndawo,
khulula umyeni umyeni!
Hayi, mkhwenkwe, musa ukuthetha!
Umtshakazi kumtshakazi!
Kuze uve iindlebe ezintle,
Hamba nathi sijabule i-chastushki,
Kodwa awukwazi ukuhleka,
kuya kufuneka uhlawule imali.
Ngaba ufuna ukufumana umfazi?
Sitshele ingoma, ubuncinane!
Iziganeko zangaphambili zentengo yomtshakazi kunye nemveli yemveli iyadibanisa enye: yonke impazamo yomyeni ihambelana nokutshabalaliswa kwamapokethi kunye neengxowa zabahlobo. Ukongeza kwimali, ungasebenzisa amakhadi kunye nezithembiso, imihlobiso, iipesele kunye notywala.
Intlawulelo ye-Thematic yomtshakazi kufuneka ikhethwe kwiqela elithile. Ukuba abantu abaselula bayabalandeli bemidlalo yekhompyutheni, isisombululo esinomdla kukuthatha ibali lomnye wabo. Nokuba umnqweno wepalball ungabethwa kwimeko yokukhululwa komtshakazi. Injongo ephambili akuyikuqokelela imali ejikelezayo, kodwa ukuzonwabisa, ukukhumbula iintsuku ezikhunjulwayo zolutsha, ukuva ukuvuma. Emva koko baya emkhosini womtshato obonwabileyo novuyo, belibale ngokuxhalaba okuqhelekileyo kuhamba nanamhla.