U-Ivan Okhlobystin uthetha ngeenzuzo zokuthi "

Udokotela u-Ivan Okhlobystin unentsapho enkulu. Ekunye nomkakhe u-Oksana, baphakamisa abantwana abathandathu: iintombi ezine kunye noonyana ababini. Mhlawumbi, umntu uya kucinga: kutheni ungaba nabantwana, ukuba izinto zivumelekile. Nangona kunjalo, bonke abantwana kwintsapho ka-Ivan Okhlobystin kunye no-Oksana Arbuzova babonakala xa umdlali weqhawe wayengakhange aphuphe nemali eninzi. Imali ibonakala kuphela ngexesha lokudubula kwi-Interns, okwenza i-Ivan ihlawule amatyala akhe.

Ekubeni unamava amaninzi kakhulu, u-actor uqinisekile: uluvo oluqhelekileyo olwamkelekileyo lokuba abantwana abaninzi banokubaluleka kakhulu, bayaxakisa kakhulu:

... phakathi kobabini, abathathu, abantwana abane, akukho mmahluko kumxholo. Omnye umntwana ubiza. Ezimbini - ezingabizi ngaphezulu, kuba okwesibini izinto ezindala.

Kwintsapho efanelekileyo, ngokwemculi, kufuneka kubekho ubuncinane abantwana abathathu. Emva koko abantwana baya "ekuziphatheni": banceda omnye nomnye, abadala banakekele abancinci kunye ... "bhinqa."

Umdlali wecala uyavuma ukuba yena nomfazi bakhe bakhuthaza "ukuhlawula" kwisakhelo seentsapho zabo, kuba abantwana banikela abazali ulwazi oluyimfuneko ukuze abo baziyo zonke iindaba zakutsha banokuthintela imiphumo emibi yezenzo zezingane ezingakhange zixutywe ngexesha.

Ngexesha elinye phakathi kwabazalwana kunye noodade kukho umthetho ongabonakaliyo ngokuya kuthi bangabonakali kubazali zabo naziphi na iimfihlelo zabo:

Akunakwenzeka ukuba nayiphi na into yamantombazana iya kusihlambulula kakhulu kwaye u-Oksana ebomini bomntu boodade, ukuxelela iinkcukacha ezintle. Kwaye i-nonprofit yezoqoqosho, ngoko, ngoko, esinokuyifunda, iyabonakala. Ukulawulwa kwangempela.

Kwintsapho ye-Okhlobystiny ubudlelwane obusondeleyo - abazali baxubusha nabantwana ngokulinganayo. Bobabini u-Ivan no-Oksana bazama ukuba bathathaka nakwizinto ezincinci: abatshatileyo bacinga ukuba bayakuhlonela ukufunda kubantwana babo, umzekelo, iincwadi zabanye abafana kwiintanethi zentlalo.

U-Ivan Okhlobystin wayehlala ephupha intsapho enkulu

Kungatsho ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba ukunqoba ubunzima bezinto ezininzi zobomi, u-Ivan Okhlobystin wagcwalisa iphupha lakhe eliphambili - wadala intsapho enkulu enobubele. Ngokutsho komdlali, le meko yezinto ezithathwa ngokuba "ziqhelekileyo kunesiqhelo":

... ukuba abantu bavumele ukuba babe nabantwana, kulungile. Uthetha ubuncinci malunga nempilo kunye nethemba!

Umculi uyavuma ukuba uzama ukuqinisekisa ukuba oyintloko kwintsapho ngumfazi wakhe, kuba u-Oksana ugcina yonke into endlwini ye-Okhlobystins. Ngentlonelo u-Ivan utshela umfazi ukuba akayi kumtyathela ubuncinane ngenxa yokuba ngaloo ndlela uya kufuneka aqeshe abasebenzi bonke, ukusuka kootitshala ukuya kuhlambulula. U-Oksana Arbuzova, umdlali wee-actor uhlangene iminyaka engaphezu kwe-20. Ababukeli bayazi umfazi ka-Ivan njengomdlali we-actress, owathi ngo-1989 wadlala indima enkulu kwidrama "Ingozi - intombi yomphosa."