Enye yezinto ezithandekayo emtshatweni womtshato sele kube ngumhlawulelo womtshakazi. Nangona kunjalo, ngokuqhelekileyo umyeni ugxeka kakhulu ekuziphatheni kwakhe, ecacisa ezinye izizathu, enzima kakhulu kwimbono yakhe. Musa ukuphikisana kuze kube yinto ephilileyo, kungcono ukuhlala phantsi kwaye uxoxe ngokuzenzekelayo yonke into. Namhlanje kwinqaku lethu - "Imiba, ukuhlengwa komtshakazi emtshatweni."
Umyeni unokucinga ukuba intlawulelo yinto yokudlala komntwana, engekho ebantwini abanobukhulu kunye nabantu abadala. Kule meko, kufuneka kucaciswe ukuba umtshato usetyenziswa ezininzi iindlela zokusebenza, kwaye abancinci abalinganiswa. Intlawulelo inika ithuba lokukhohlisa kunye nokuphelisa uxinzelelo. Makuvumeleke ukuba umyeni angathathi yonke into embi, le nxalenye yomtshato iyinto eqhelekileyo. Fumana ukuba umyeni ukhetha nje into ethile kwimali okanye imisebenzi ethile. Nangona unqumle ukuba ayiyi kuba yintlawulelo, intlanganiso yomtshakazi nomyeni angabethwa ngendlela eyahlukileyo, into ephambili kunye nengcamango ukufikelela kule ngxaki.
Kwaye umyeni wayenokuhlengahlengiswa ngokupheleleyo, mlungiselele ngaphambili. Sitshele ukuba luhlobo luni lweeprogram oluya kufuneka ukuze umyeni kunye nabahlobo bakhe bangajongi ukuthenga.
Abafazi bafanele bacebise ukuba bangene kwimisebenzi engenakuyenza okanye isisiphukuphuku, ngokumzekelo, ukusela isitya samanzi okanye iglasi ye-vodka, ngoko kuya kuba nzima kuwe. Musa ukufuna isipho sezinto ezinkulu kwaye asiyimfuneko.
Emva kokuqulunqa imeko yentlawulelo, banike uluhlu lwezinto ezifunekayo kumyeni. Unokwenza okunye - ukulungiselela yonke into kunye nomzuzu wokugqibela ukudlulisela kumntu ofihlakeleyo kumyeni. Ukuba umyeni akanalo uluhlu, kufuneka anakekele izixhobo zakhe ngokwakhe. Kufuneka kufake phakathi: imali (imali engaphezulu), utywala, iilekese kunye neesekese. Mvumele umyeni akhumbule iimbongo kunye neengoma malunga nothando, mhlawumbi ne-chastushki. Kufuneka iphindwe yonke imihla ebalulekileyo yokwazisa kunye nobomi bomtshakazi, kwaye ukhumbule amagama amnandi kunye nomnene.
Ixesha elifanelekileyo lexabiso lomtshakazi livela kumzuzu ukuya kwe-40 ukuya kwimizuzu engama-40, kuba kufuneka ikhunjulwe kakuhle kubo bonke abantu, kodwa ingabi nantlungu yokukhupha. Abafazi bafanele babale ixesha labo kwangaphambili ukwenzela ukuba ngexesha lokuhlengwa lilungele ukuhamba.
Umyeni kufuneka axwayiswe kwangaphambili malunga nexesha elifanelekileyo lokufika kwintlawulelo. Amaziko awaziwayo, azama ukukopela, afika ngexesha lokuba ixesha lokuya kwi-ofisi yokubhalisa. Kodwa benza okungalunganga kwaye bacaphukisa intanda yabo, abalungiselele esi siganeko kwangaphambili. Ngaphambili, kwakhona, akufanele ifike, kodwa akunakulungele ukuba bonke balungele. Eyona ndlela ingcono ukuyibiza phambi kokuba ushiye kwaye uvumelane ngexesha.
Ukumhlawulela umtshakazi uye walungiswa, akwanele ukulandela le script. Kukho imigaqo emininzi, elandelayo apho yonke into iya kuhamba njengoko ufuna.
Ukuba uye wavelisa imeko echanekileyo (yinto efanelekileyo ukuba yintoni), landela ngokucacileyo. Abahlobo bomtshakazi bathatha indawo yabo kwaye bahamba ngokucwangciswa kwesikimu esicwangcisiweyo. Omnye akufanele azincishise ukwenza imisebenzi kunye nokubhala imibongo ngenkathi emi kwindawo enye, oku kukhokelela ekujonganeni kwamaqela kunye neenjongo ezingenanto.
Nciphisa inani labancedisi, banike ithuba lokuba benze umsebenzi wabo kwi-photographer kunye ne-videographer. Ukuchaneka kuqikelelwe, xa kumacala omabini abathathi-nxaxheba abangama-3-5, akuyi kudala isihlwele kwaye sidilize. Abahlobo abanamathuba amaninzi kufuneka bancede umtshakazi ukuba abe yintlawulelo, ngokukhethekileyo ngobuchule bokubugcisa.
Umyeni unako ukwenza umsebenzi wesikolo ukuze avele exhobile ngokupheleleyo. I-cribs ekhangayo ekhangelekayo ngamazwi avuyayo, imihla kunye noludweliso lwemisebenzi yasekhaya lubonakala lukhohlisayo. Ungabhala iposta: "Akukho mali. Kuya kuba ngomso. Faka isicelo! ยป. Ungabhala iingoma kunye nezibongo kwirekhodi. Njengoko "uhlaza" kufanelekile ukuthabatha iparsley, idill, iklabishi; luncedo kunye nelami.
Abahlobo bafanele bafunde ngentliziyo imeko yokuhlengwa, kuba ukufunda ngokuzimeleyo kwiphepha elibhalwe kubonakala libi kakhulu. Ukuba azinakulungele, kufuneka bathethe ngamazwi abo, into ephambili kukukhumbula isikripthi. Ukuba nje xa kukho iziphakamiso, ngoko ke, ubuncinane bayihlobise ngendlela yeentliziyo okanye iintyatyambo. Okanye kufuphi nendawo nganye egcinwe ukuvavanya, faka iphepha elihle, apho egameni lomtshakazi uya kunikwa imisebenzi.
Ukuba ngokukhawuleza intlawulelo ayizange ihambe ngokwemeko, ungayi kulahleka, uphucule ngokuhamba. Ukuba akukho xesha elaneleyo, iskripthi kufuneka sakhiwe kwakhona kwaye sancitshiswe kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Enye iphutha kukufuna umyeni ukuba yintoni engenawo.
Ukuba umyeni akafuni ukuba umtshakazi nentombi yakhe bacasulwe, umntu akafanele azame ukukhupha intlawulelo yomtshakazi. Kwakhona, ungazami ukuphinda udlale intombi zakho, ukuba zilungele kangangoko kunezihlobo zomyeni. Ngokusisendle kunye nokubi ukugqithisa. Hlonipha omnye nomnye!
Kuye kuwe: ukuba okanye ungayihlulwa. Ngoku kukho iziganeko ezininzi zokuqala, kodwa unokwenza kwakho. Into ephambili kukuvuma kunye kunye nokuqonda.