Into ephambili kukuphazamiseka kwaye ungacingi ngento eyenzeka kude uphumle. Abahlobo bam kunye nabahlobo banikezela ngeendlela ezivivinyweyo kunye nezindlela ezilula kunye nezindlela ezilula zokulibala ngexesha elifutshane kunokwenzeka - olunye usuku.
1. Ukungahlawulwanga akukho
Le ngxaki yakhe, ukuba akayikukuxabisa kwi-sub-state. Ngokukhawuleza, kufuneka uqale ukukhangela enye indoda enhle ukuba uphinde uthandane kwakhona.Sekela ngamandla, zilungiselele kwaye uqale ukuzingela kwindawo apho amadoda aqokelela khona, umzekelo, kwi-gym, kwiklabhu, kwibhola, kumdlalo webhola.
2. Ukuhamba nge-head vrabotu
Isigqibo esinjalo asifihli entloko ngqo ekuqaleni. Nangona kunjalo, ngokungaziwa kwenziwa ngabantu rhoqo. Ngokwemvelo, umsebenzi wokutshatyalaliswa ngosuku lwesibini emva kokuhlukana akunakwenzeka ukuba uphakamise umsebenzi wakho ngokukhawuleza, kodwa isicwangciso somsebenzi seveki esigqityiweyo ngexesha elifanelekileyo unokukukhulula ixesha elide.
Ukuhlalutya okudlulileyo
Ukuba, ngenxa yesizathu esithile, ungayeki ngokukhawuleza ukuba ufumane isikhulu esitsha, kufuneka uqale ukuhlalutya. Bhala phantsi zonke iimpazamo kunye nokulahleka komntu owayengumhlobo kwiqabunga, bhala yonke into eyayichukunyiswe kuye, ngokuqala ngokuthanda ubhiya kunye nokuphelisa ebusuku. Emva koko, ngeendlela ezichaseneyo, qalisa ukwenza uluhlu lweempawu ezintle umntu ophuphayo ngamaphupha akho. Cinga ngomsebenzi kuye, khangela kwaye umkhangele. Into eyona nto inkolelo yokuba i-ideal yakho ikukhangela kwenye indawo, njengawe.
4. Intanethi
Lungisa ezininzi zeesanti, gxuma kumenzi wekhofi kufuphi nekhompyutheni kwaye uya kubhukuda kwi-Intanethi. Unako ukuya kuwo onke amasayithi okanye ukukhangela abahlobo kwinethiwekhi yentlalo. amanethiwekhi okanye udlala kumnatha womdlalo. Kulo ndlela, kukho ukuphikisana okunye - akukho mzekelo ungahambi kwiphepha langaphambili kwaye ungamlobi i-imeyile.
5. Utshintsha umfanekiso wakho
Ewe, tshintsha umfanekiso wakho. Phula izinwele zakho ngombala oqaqambileyo ukuba intombi yakho yangaphambili ayinako ukuma, yenza ukwenziwa okwenkcenkcesha, ukukhwabanisa, ngamanye amazwi, zijonge ngendlela entsha uze ubonise ihlabathi elitsha. Ukuba zonke ezi ngasentla zibiza kakhulu, vele uhlambe. Ngokukhawuleza ukhululekile.
6. Hlela i-hen party
Bizela abahlobo bakho nabahlobo, usela ibhotile yewayini kunye nabo. Bavumele, ngokunyanisekileyo, bathethe oko bacinga ngaye. Ndikholelwe, unokufunda ezininzi izinto ezintsha. Ekupheleni kokuhlwa, uya kubala ukuba ikhefu lahlelwa ngumlindi wakho. Akakwazi ukunyamezela ukubandezeleka kwakho. Nanku kuyimfuneko ukuba uqaphele ukuba abahlobo bakho kuphela, kwaye abanakuhlala.
Le ndlela esuka "ekunxileni kwaye uyalibala" indlela ayinobungozi kwimpilo kunye nokufumana inkxaso evela kubahlobo. Yaye nangona akazange alahlekelwe, kuya kuba kuhle ukuthetha nabantu abathandekayo kuwe.
7. Ukunyamekela ummelwane
Esinye sezicombululo kwiziganeko sisigqibo sokufumana isilwanyana esincinci, apho kufuneka ukuhamba ngokusisigxina. Ngokunyamekela umhlobo wakho omncinci, uyalibala ngokupheleleyo into yokuba unengxaki kunye nomfana.
8. Yiya kwimidlalo
Into yokuqala oyenzayo, ngokukhawuleza xa umntu owake wangaphambili emnyango, faka i-gym. Indlela yokwenza imidlalo apha ayiyiyo yonke into. Umsebenzi wakho uya kuba ukushiya imvakalelo engalunganga kwindawo yokuzivocavoca kunye nenzala yakho. Uya kuza ekhaya udiniwe, kodwa uyavuya, uya kuqubuka, uze ukhale emhlabathini wothando olulahlekileyo awuyi kukwazi.
9. Ukukhala
Nangona kukho indlela eyahlukileyo, eyenziwa ngabanye abasebenzisayo kwengqondo. Uya kukunika ithuba lokusinda ekulahlekelweni kwe-bribe-frenda kwiiyure ezingama-24. Into ephambili apha i-splash epheleleyo yeemvakalelo, umzekelo, ukukhala ngokulungileyo. Ngomhla uya kuncwina konke okusemakhaya: iehokethi, italente, amakhethini, amaphepha, kodwa ke uya kuziva ungcono kwaye uya kuphelelwa ukuba ube nexesha elidlulileyo.
10. Qalisa ukucoca
Ekulweni nokulangazelela kunokunceda ukuqala ukucocwa kwehlabathi kwindlu yezinto ezindala ezingadingekile. I-Vmusoroprovod idinga ukuphosa ingcola kuphela, kodwa kunye namaphephancwadi, amaphephandaba kunye neefoto zakho zangaphambili, kufuneka ulahle yonke into: izinto ozilibeleyo, izipho zakhe nazo zonke izinto ezingamkhumbuza umntu wakhe.
11. Okubi kunomlilo
Uninzi ukuqikelela - oku kulungiswa. Ukuba intliziyo yakho imbi kakhulu, imbi kakhulu, unokukwazi ukujongana nezinto ezinjengokulungisa indlu yakho. Emva kokuba uqale ukuhlenga ubudlelwane nabasebenzi, kuza kuba nexesha lokucinga ngezinye iingxaki.
12. Ingxoxo
Kukho kwaye le ndlela yokuxazulula iingxaki - ufuna nje ukuthetha. Qalisa ukuthetha ngokucacileyo bonke abantu kwifowuni yakho yefowuni. Qalisa ngokufutshane okanye ngokugcwele, xelela okwenzekile kuwe. Ngomhla uya kuba ukhathele kwaye ufumane isilumkiso esinjalo seengcebiso kunye novelwano, amabali, ukuba wenzeni ntoni ngokulandelayo, ukuba akuyi kuphinda kubekho amandla.
13. Ukuthenga
Ukuqhekeza ibhanki ye-piggy, fumana imali yakho yokugcina imali ngaphandle kweentsikelelo, nokuba loo nto ubeka bucala kuyo into ebalulekileyo kwaye uhambe uhambo oluya kuma-boutiques kunye neevenkile. Zithengele into ebiza kakhulu neyamehlo. Isiqingatha sesibini somhla uya kubonakalisa apho ungayifaka khona, kwaye kwiintsuku ezalandelayo cinga malunga nendlela yokuphila ngayo yonke inyanga.
Ukuba akukho mali, okanye ukuba awufuni ukuyichitha, unokuzulazula iiyure ezimbalwa kwiivenkile ezincinci okanye kwiziko lokuthenga, uzame ngokwakho okokuqala.
14. Uhambo
Kufuneka uhambe kwindawo ethile! Kungaba yii-Canaries okanye indawo esondele ngakumbi. Ngokomzekelo, indawo yenkampu, apho kukho "umphefumlo wenkampani" engabangela abantu abafileyo. Iqela elihle lamahlaya alinakukuvumela ukuba unqume kwingcamango yexesha elidlulileyo. Emva kokuba le ndlela ayifumanekanga kwaye yokuqala yachaza!
Abantwana
Ukuba "unxantathu" ukuphosa umntwana osengxengxeni, utsho ukuba uphelelwe yinkwenkwe ingabonakali. Umntu omdala unokuphazamiseka ngumkhankaso odibeneyo kwi-zoo, kwi-cinema, kwi-theater. Ukususela kwimbono yabantwana, zonke iingxaki zethu ziyihlazo. Ngoko, khumbula. Ukuba ungenabantwana, thabatha kumhlobo, hambisana nomntakwabo okanye umntakwabo. Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka siqonde ukuba nangona umntwana sele sele ekhulile kwaye sele eqonda ngokubanzi, musa ukukhala kuye kwisitya sakhe.
Ukuqokelela
Kufuneka uhlale ucinga ngokuqinisekileyo. Ukuba isithandwa okanye isithandwa sifike kuwe, ngokokuqala ke unenhlanhla. Ukususela ngoku kukho ixesha elininzi ongayichitha kuwe, abahlobo okanye izinto ezinomdla.