Ngoko, ungayifumana njani indoda yamaphupha akho kwiminyaka eyi-13? Okokuqala, misela apho unokukhangela khona.
Impendulo ilula - kwi-intanethi. Kukho indawo eninzi yokuthandana, indawo yokuxoxa, ngokuqinisekileyo, "VKontakte", kunjalo. Ngoko ke, bhajista kwinani elikhulu leendawo kwaye yonke indawo ushiye ulwazi olunomdla malunga nawe. Ukongezelela, kufuneka kubekho imifanekiso emnandi. Buza ukukufothula kwenye yeentombi. Imifanekiso kufuneka ihluke: kwisitalato, ekhaya, kwiklabhu. Thatha imifanekiso kwimpahla eyahlukileyo, kwiimeko ezihlukeneyo. Ukuba akukho mntu unokukukhupha, ungakhathazeki. Iifoto ezigqwesileyo ziyafumaneka nangona uzitshilo. Ungasebenzisa ifowuni. Umbono ogqwesileyo ovela phezulu. Yileyo indlela amehlo akho aphumayo, kwaye abafana bayamthanda kakhulu intombazana enamehlo amakhulu. Kwakhona, zama ukuqiniseka ukuba imilomo yakho iyala. Iifoto zihle zilungiswe kwi-Photoshop, zongeza imiphumo emihle.
Emva kokuba imifanekiso ikulungele, thumela kuzo zonke iiblogi, kwingxoxo, edibaniswaneni. Ngokuphindaphindiweyo kunokwenzeka, hlaziywa ii-albhamu uze uzame ukungeza ubuncinane iifoto ezingamashumi amathathu ngexesha. Ngoko abafana baya kukuxabisa kwaye bayaqonda ukuba uyakuthanda ukufota. Kwaye kuhle kakhulu xa intombazana inomdla wokuzonwabisa. Ungalindeli ukuba umntu abhale kuwe. Khangela kwiiprofayili zabafana, khetha abo bakulungele kwaye ubhale ngokwakho. Xa ubhala ngaphezulu, ithuba elikhulu lokufumana umthandayo. Kwakhona, unokongeza abafana kumnxeba. Ngokuqinisekileyo, fumana abo bahlala kwisixeko sakho ukuze ube nethuba lokufumana. Musa ukunyamekela abo baya kulahla izicelo. Bakhawuleza, abantu abanomdla abangakwazi ukuziqhayisa ngokuthandwa kwamantombazana. Kwaye umfanekiso wes avatar, ubuninzi, awunjalo. Izicelo ziyanqandwa ngabaphengululi abavayo ukuba baqonde ukuba abanalo ithuba lokuhlangana nawe.
Qiniseka ukuba uhlale kwingxoxo. Kwaye kungcono ukuba ungabi yedwa - apho uhlala ufumana umntu wamaphupha akho. Zikhethele isidlaliso esinomusa nesinyameko, kuba abafana bathanda amantombazana amnandi, ama-kavainyh. Zibize igama lakho "li-sweet cutie," "ilanga elihle," "nyashnaya gore" okanye into enjalo. Ezi nicks ziza kutsala ingqalelo kubafana abafanelekileyo. Phendula yonke into ayibhalwa ngabafana. Kakade, ungakulibali ukuba kufuneka ukhangele iifoto zazo. Ufuna umntu omhle, kungenjalo, kunengqiqo ukudibana naye. Musa ukuchitha umgudu omkhulu kangangokuba loo nto intombi ayikwazi ukuyihlola ngeebhola ezilikhulu. Qiniseka ukuba ushiye ulwazi loqhagamshelwano nabahlobo abatsha ukuze bakwazi ukunxibelelana nawe. Ukuba unamafowuni amaninzi, bhala phantsi zonke iinombolo ukuze ungaphuthelwa umnxeba. Ukuba loo mntu ushiye inombolo yakhe, awukwazi ukulinda umnxeba wakhe, bhala uze uzibize. Abafana bayamthanda, kwaye uyavuya gqitha ukuba unomdla kwixesha lakhe. Qinisekisa ukuba uyavuma kuzo zonke iintlanganiso ezenziwa ngabantu abaselula. Ngoko uyakubona lo mfana ebomini bokwenene aze abone ukuba kukufanele yini. Unokuze ulungiselele iintlanganiso eziliqela ngosuku.
Khetha iindawo ezisekufuphi zisondelelana ukuze ungathathi ixesha elide lokuhamba. Ngendlela, kucetyiswa ukuba uqhelane nabafana abakhulu kunaminyaka emininzi. Banobuqili, abanamava, bayazi ukuba bafuna ntoni ebomini. Musa ukunyamekela abo abangenabo nayiphi na i-subculture, ingakumbi ukuba baneminyaka engaphezu kweshumi elinesibhozo ubudala. Kule minyaka, sele usufuna ukugqiba isigqibo malunga nendlela yokuphila, kwaye ukuba uyazijonga njengesiqhelo, kutheni ufuna le nto. Umntu ophuphayo kufuneka akwazi ukwenza into enokuziqhayisa ngabanye: i-skateboarding okanye ibhayisikili, ukudlala kwiqela, ukwenza i-parkour.
Kwakhona, kufuneka ukwazi ukuqhagamshelana nabafana. Wena ngokwenene uyazi, apho kwisixeko sakho abaninzi abanomdla kunye nabazimeleyo baqokelela. Ngoko hamba khona. Ukudibanisa nabafana oyithandayo, bathethe nabo, thabathe iifowuni uze uqiniseke ukuba ubiza. Ukuba uthe akukho xesha kwaye ucele umnxeba kamva, buyele kwakhona, kodwa kungabi ngaphezu kwehafu yesure. Enyanisweni, le ntombazana ayixakekile, ihlola nje ukuba unomdla okwaneleyo, okanye ulahlekelwa lula. Ungabiza ngisho nasebusuku, kuba kuhle ukuvuka kwizwi lentombi yakho.
Kakade, kufuneka uhambe kwiiklabhu. Yilapho unokuhlangana khona ngokuhlwa ngamanani amaninzi abantu. Ukuba ngaba abazali banqabela, musa ukuphelelwa lithemba. Unako ukufumana indlela yokuphuma kwimeko kwaye ungawavumeli ukuba aphule ubomi bakho. Ewe, ngelishwa, oomama nootata abaqondi kakuhle iingxaki zakho. Ngoko ke, kungcono kubo ukuba bangazi nantoni na. Yithi uhlale kunye nentombi, uvuselele umhlobo kunye nodadewabo omdala okanye umzalwana ukuba enze ngathi unina okanye uyise kwaye ahambe ngokukhuselekileyo kwiqela. Ugqoke ngeyona ndlela ingcono. Zama ukubheka ukuze wonke umntu athathe ingqalelo kuwe. Ngendlela, ungakulibali ukuba iqela likwazi ukuvela kuphela kwiingubo ezenziwe ngegama. Akukho mfana oqhelekileyo uya kubeka ingqalelo entombazana engazi ukuba agqoke njani ngesitayela. Kwiqela le nto ufanele uhambe wedwa, ukuze loo nto intombi azikhuphisane. Kodwa ukuba ukwesaba into enye, thabatha umntu ogqithise ngokucacileyo kuwe ngobuhle. Kwiqela, ngokubanzi kunokwenzeka, kuba kumgangatho wokudanisa okanye kufuphi ne-bar. Ukuba loo nto inika i-cocktail - ungayinqabeli. Abafana abathandi abantu abathobekileyo.
Hlala uqala kwaye uvuya. Cinga ngezihloko zentetho, uthetha kangangoko kunokwenzeka, nwabisa, uhleke. Ukuba uyamthanda lo mfana - yonke indlela ibonisa ukuba unomdla kakhulu kuwe. Nangona ungazi ukuba uthetha ntoni, uyavumelana nazo zonke amagama akhe. Ukuba usebenza kuzo zonke iinkalo, ngokukhawuleza uza kufumana umntu ongcono kunye nomhle kunabo bonke emhlabeni. Kwaye kwiminyaka eyi-13 unokufumana intanda yakho!