Kwifowuni.
Inkonzo emkhosini yinto ebalulekileyo ebomini yomntu, kwaye inkxaso yakho ibaluleke kakhulu. Yiyo nje indlela yokwenza ngayo, ukuba iincwadi ezikhethiweyo zikhethiweyo zikhethiwe? Musa ukuphelelwa yithemba: kwezinye iinqununu zempi kukho ukufikelela kwi-intanethi, kwaye ukuba indawo yenkonzo enokukufutshane nesixeko sakho, unokumtyelela. Imibuzo emide kubalawuli ayifuni ukubhala-fumana ukuba umfana ukhululekile, uze uze kwindawo yokukhangela - uya kuthiwa. Ukuba ungekhohlisi, kwaye ngaphambi kwenkxaso yempi kwinyanga, ungazange uve nge-intanethi, sebenzisa indlela evivinywayo kunye nokuvavanya - bhala iileta komnye nomnye, kwaye uthando luya kuqiniswa kuphela kude. Dweba imifanekiso emnandi, faka imvulophu yesithombe, thumela amanqaku amfutshane okanye iingoma ezipheleleyo ngothando. Ukuziphatha okunzima kuguqula isimo sengqondo ebomini ebomini, kwaye akusoloko kube ngcono. Ukuthintela oku kungenzeki, zama ukuzikhumbuza kaninzi ngangokunokwenzeka ukuze angabi yedwa kwaye uphile ngokuthanda kwakho.
Ulwazi.
Uyeka ukufundela kwenye idolophu okanye nakwilizwe. Akukuphela nje ukuba imfundo ibaluleke ngaphezu kwakhe, kwakukho ingozi yokuba wayeza kudibana nomntu onolwazi olufanayo oluqhelekileyo lwesiFrentshi, kwaye uthando luya kudlula kude. Ungabandakanyi umona ekude uze ungabi nongcikivo ngaphandle kwesizathu. Awufuni ukuba alahlekelwe yithuba elifanelekileyo ngenxa yengqumbo yakho? Inokwenzeka ukuba, umfana nje akavumi ukuhlukana, nje ngokuba uyazi ukuba ngaphandle kobomi bakhe bodwa kusekho umsebenzi kunye nokuphucula imfundo, amathuba amaninzi okuphumelela, kunye nothando ekude ulawula ngandlela-thile - uqinisekile nje. Ukuba uhamba, kusekho nzima nakakhulu. Kunzima kakhulu ukuba umntu aqonde ukuba unenkxalabo ngekamva lakho, kwaye akayi kukuzonwabisa yonke imini.
Ukuphumla.
Uyaqiniseka ukuba abahlobo / izihlobo / abazali bakhe bamenza ahambe phantse ngamandla, kodwa into yokuba baya kutshatyalaliswa elwandle elunxwemeni yenza igama "linyanzeliswe" kunokungathandabuzeki. Ukuphumla - akusoloko kulandelelana nencwadana yokubhuka, ngoko kukuthanda ekude ufanele uqhubeke ukholelwa. Inyaniso yokuba akayibizi ngemizuzu elineshumi elinesibini kwaye akayi kukhononda ukuba uyabulawa ngenxa yokuzikhukhumeza kwakhona kwimeko yezinto - uphumla, kwaye akayi kuphelelwa yinkangala! Ukuhlukana okunjalo kuya kuthintela ulwalamano, kuphela ukuba uya kuphazamisa indlela yakhe yokuhlambalaza kunye neentukuzelo, kwaye uthando luya kudlula.