Ubomi bezocansi banamhlanje bufikelele kwinqanaba apho umnqweno wokufumana kunye nokunandipha akugcini kuphela, kodwa ukhuthazwe, ngokuqinisekileyo, ngokunyanzelisa oogqirha kunye neengcamango ezincinci. Yingakho inyaniso yobomi bentlobano rhoqo ivulelwe kwiindinyana ezininzi. Ngokukodwa ininzi yamabali amanga ajoliswe kwizizathu zokuthintela ubuhlobo obusondeleyo.
Ngoko makhe sibone xa intombazana ingavunyelwe ukulala ngesondo, kwaye xa ungenza okungafaniyo.
Inkolelo yokuqala.
Ngaphambili, malunga nobudlelwane obusondeleyo ngexesha leentsuku eziphambili kunye nenkulumo ayikwazi ukuhamba. Yonke into ichazwa ngumzimba wesimo somzimba wesetyhini. Ngexesha lokuya esikhathini, umlomo wesibeleko uhamba kancane kwindawo evulekileyo, ngoko ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo, umngcipheko wezilwanyana ezincinci zingena kunye nokuphuhliswa kwezifo kwi-uterine cavity. Kwakhona, umzimba wesetyhini uncinci ukusuleleka kwiintsholongwane ngeli xesha, kwaye ngoko kwenzeka ukuba emva kokulala ngokwesondo kunokuhlaselwa kwizitho zangasese.
Oogqirha banamhlanje banesimo esinyanisekileyo sokuziphatha ngesondo ngexesha lokuya esikhathini. Le ntombazana inqatshelwe kuphela ukusebenzisa i-contraception, njengoko oku kuya kunciphisa umngcipheko wokufumana izifo, kunye nokukhusela ukukhulelwa okungafunekiyo.
Inkolelo yokuba ekuhambeni kwexesha ayikwazi ukukhulelwa yimbali. Kunokwenzeka ukuba ukhulelwe, kwaye oku ngenxa yokuba i-spermatozoa ewele esibelethweni igcina ukuhamba kwabo ngeveki.
Kwakhona kwezinye iimeko, ukuxhatshazwa ngesondo kwiintsuku ezibalulekileyo kunconywa, njengoko kunceda ekunciphiseni ubuhlungu, kwaye kunemiphumo ebalulekileyo kwimeko yengqondo yomfazi. Into eyona nto ingakuyeka uhlangothi lwe-esesthetic yombuzo, kodwa ukuba alukhathazi nabani na - ke wenze ngesibindi.
Inkolelo yesibini.
Kakade, oku akusiyo inkolelo nje, umgaqo nje onawo. Ngokuqhelekileyo iyachithwa ukuba ulale ngesondo, kwaye kungekhona kuphela kumantombazana ngexesha lokunyangwa kwezifo ezithathelwana ngesondo. Ezi ziquka: izifo ezifayo, i-chlamydia, i-mycoplasmosis, i-ureaplasmosis, i-gardnerellez kunye nabanye.
Ewe, kukho "kodwa". Njengoko bethetha, kwiimeko ezinje: «xa kungenakwenzeka, kodwa kakhulu kunokuba kuyinqweneleka - oko kuyimfuneko». Into ephambili ukwenza konke ngokuhlakanipha. Ukusetyenziswa kwekhondom kunyanzelekile, ngaphandle koko uza kuba negalelo lokutheleleka kwintsholongwane yakho. Ungakulibali ukuba ezo zifo zihanjiswe ngazo zonke iintlobo zesenzo sesondo, kubandakanywa ngesondo kunye nomlomo. Ngoko, xa ukhetha indlela yokwaneliseka, okokuqala cinga ngokukhuseleko.
Iingoma ezintathu.
Abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba isondo ngexesha lokukhulelwa livinjelwe. Mhlawumbi mhlawumbi kwakukho. Kodwa namhlanje kwiibhangqwana ezincinci, ukukhulelwa kuba yithuba lokuzama, nokubonisa iingcamango. Iimeko eziqhelekileyo zivela kubungozi ngexesha lokukhulelwa, kunye nokuthintela ugqirha, ngoko abathandi kufuneka bahlaziye umxhasi wabo kwaye bahlupheke.
Ngokufanayo, umonde uya kufuneka xa le ntombazana iqhutywe kwintlaka ye-pelvic, okanye izitho zokuzala zichaphazelekayo. Ixesha lokuziyeka lidlalwa ngoogqirha ngokwabo, kodwa ngokwemyinge iiveki ezi-4. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ungalindeli ukubuyela ngokukhawuleza kwimpilo yobundlobongela obushukumisayo, kuba ekuqaleni ekuqaleni intombazana inqatshelwe kwiimpawu ezihamba phambili ezithintela umsebenzi omzimba, ukungena ngokujulile, ukulala ngesondo ngokulinganisela kwaye ugxininise kwiimvakalelo zakho.
Icandelo elikhethekileyo longenelelo olunjalo njengokukhupha isisu. Emva kokukhipha isisu, isibeleko sisesimweni sokuqhaqhaqhaqhaqhaqha, okukuthi ngokwawo akubandakanyi ithuba lokulala ngesondo. Ingqondo yengqondo iya kudlala indima encinci.
Kodwa, emva kwexesha elithile, amaqabane abuyela kwisiqhelo sesiqhelo sobomi obusondeleyo kwaye akabi nantoni na.
Ngoko ke ungabandakanya isihloko sesini emva kokuzala. Ngokuqhelekileyo, emva kokuzalwa komntwana ngesondo, unokulibala ixesha eli-6 ubuncinane. Oku kuchazwa ngokulula ngethuba lokuba ngexesha lokuzalwa, ukuphazamiseka kwemvelo yentsholongwane kunye namanxiwa okuzalwa, kwaye inkqubo yokubuyisela ayifuni ixesha. Kukwafanelekile ukukhumbula ukusuleleka kosulelo.
Ekupheleni kweli xesha, uya kukwazi ukunandipha kwakhona, kodwa ungakulibala malunga nokukhulelwa komzimba, ngaphandle kokuba, ngokuqinisekileyo, abantwana bakho abafakiwe kwiiplani.
Ezahlukileyo.
Iindidi zemidlalo yezesondo, kunye nethuba lokukholisa omnye ngomnye nje ngendlela eqhelekileyo, yenza isondo lube lunomdla ngakumbi. Ulutsha lwanamhlanje luvuyisayo ukuzama, kwaye alugatyi isondo kunye nomntu wesini.
Xa usebenzisa i-caresses yomlomo yamantombazana, ukuchasana kungabakho ubuhlobo bodwa, nayiphi na intsholongwane yesondo, okanye ukungabi nantembelo kuyo. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, kungcono ukulinda de emva kwekhosi yonyango.
Ubundlobongela obusetyhini kwintombazana iba yinkxalabo ngaphezu kokuzonwabisa. Ngokwezibalo, kuphela inani elincinci labasetyhini liyakwazi ukuvalelwa kwimizimba emnandi, kwezinye iimeko, ezo zesini zithandwa kakhulu nemiphumo. Le yinyaniso yokuba indawo yomzimba wesetyhini, esetyenziselwa ukulala ngesondo, iyanelisekile ngethenda kwaye ixakeke ngokukhawuleza, kwaye ngokunjalo kukho ithuba lokufumana nokuphuhlisa intsholongwane, engayi kuba nemiphumo emihle kakhulu.
Ubundlobongela kuyo yonke imbonakalo yayo akuyona into engekho yesiqhelo, yinto enye ebomini bethu. Ukukhulula omnye nomnye kwaye uyifumane ifuna yonke into. Kule nyaniso kukuba simele sibulele ngokuzalwa kwethu. Kodwa ungakulibali ukuyiqonda nokukhusela impilo yakho, kwaye iziganeko ezingathandekiyo ziya kukhishwa ngaphandle.