Imithetho yokwenza oku ayikho. Ngaphandle koko, kuya kuba yintliziyo engathandabuzekiyo, kwaye uthando alufani naloo nto! Umntu ngamnye uyavuma ukuba uyedwa kwaye ufuna indlela ekhethekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, ufanele ukwazi iziphakamiso ezimbalwa eziqhelekileyo eziya kukunceda ukuba uqaphele ukuba ungumntu ongenakulibaleka.
Naluphi na ukuchazela kwakho, ukulinda ixesha elide okanye elingalindelekanga, okokuqala okanye ekuthini, ngokuvakalayo okanye ekuphumleni-kodwa kufanele kube yinto enothando. Nazi iindlela ezimbalwa zokwenza oku.
Indlela yenombolo 1. Isikolo esikolweni kwaye kungekhona nje kuphela.
Ngaphantsi kwexesha ndabona ukubhalwa kwirekski ezikolweni ngeendlela zeentliziyo kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, ngamazwi negama lomthandayo. Ukuqatshelwa kwayo kungakhiwa kumgaqo ofanayo. Ngenxa yoko, akufuneki ukuba ube nedeski kwaye ukhangele igama lomntu othandekayo kuyo. Kwanele ukubandakanya imbali kwaye usebenzise konke okusemandleni. Ngaba ulindela kwisitalato ebusika? Bhala kwibinzana elibalulekileyo lekhephu. Ngaba uthanda ukupheka kwaye uhlala uliphazamise izitya zangaphambili? Bhala "Ndiyakuthanda" kwikhekhe okanye isaladi. Ngaba ukhethiweyo wakho unothando? Beka la mazwi kwikhephu ngamakhandlela okanye ulandele umsebenzi wokuqhumisa umlilo, okuqhutyelwayo kuvelisa ubungqina obuxabisekileyo.
Indlela yenombolo 2. Njengamanveveli.
Kwimiqulu edumile kaDkt. Austin, bobabini nabasetyhini bavuma omnye nomnye kwimvakalelo eyimfihlo ngokubhaliweyo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, namhlanje kubonakala ngathi i-imeyile ibonakala ngathi, oku akusekho mfuneko. Kodwa kubonakala ngokubhaliweyo ngesandla, nangaphezulu, ukuba kwiphepha elihle kwaye liya kuba yintando. Iileta ezinjalo azifaneki zilahlwe. Ngaphezu koko, umntu unokubhala ukubvuma kwakho ngesimo seenkondlo. Ukuba ucinga ukuba awunaso isipho ukuzityhilela iingcamango zakho, unokufaka isicelo kwiarhente ezikhethekileyo. Intsikelelo kwi-intanethi kule akhawunti yinkcazelo eninzi.
Indlela yenombolo 3. Kwabo bathanda ukufotshwa.
Ngaba uthanda ukuthwebula isithombe? Emva koko iseshoni yesithunzi njengesixhobo sokuqaphela kukuba wena. Mema okhethiweyo kweso siganeko. Ifoto, uya kuba esondelelene ngokuthe ngqo. Xa ubambe umzuzu, tshela endlebeni yakho malunga neemvakalelo zakho. Kakade ke, kule meko ukuqaphela kuya kuba mfutshane, kodwa kunothando kunye nokuxhobisa.
Indlela yenombolo 4. Abahlobo bamandulo.
Ngaba uyazi kunye kwaye unezithombe zomntu othandekayo? Yimangalisa! Yenza i-collage yesithombe kunye nabini kuphela. Yibani kwindawo evelele kwaye ulindele ukuzonwabisa kunye nombuzo emehlweni othandayo. Le ndlela iyanceda ngokuphindaphindiweyo. Okokuqala, ngokukubonisa ndawonye, uya kubonisa ukuba uyayibona ikusasa lakho ngokufanelekileyo komnye nomnye. Okwesibini, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kubuza ngokunyaniseka kwinto enje. Le yilapho uthetha amagama axabisekileyo.
Indlela yenombolo 5. Classic.
Le ndlela yokuqonda ihlala ihlala, ihlala kwaye iya kuba yothando. Igama lakhe "lixesha lokutya." Kakade, wena ngokwakho sele uqikelele oko kufuneka uyenze. Yonke into ilula kakhulu. Uyakuthanda kwaye uyazi ukupheka - zilungiselele ukukhanya okuthile, umzekelo, ukutya inyama, inyama ephilileyo okanye isiqhamo. Ukususela kwiziphuzo ukhetha iwayini - isiselo kuphela ngenxa yama-romantics. Kwaye umzuzu xa uvula intliziyo yakho, khetha yona.
Indlela yenombolo 6. Ubugcisa.
Le ndlela ifana nokubhalwa kwileta, yimbi kakhulu kwaye idinga i talente. Ukuyisebenzisa, kucetyiswa ukudweba isithandwa sithandwa kunye nendlela yokubamba kwileta amagama okuqatshelwa kwinqwelo. Ukuba awunayo italente yomculi, akunandaba. Kwi sixeko ngasinye kukho abaculi abaqeqeshiweyo abaneleyo ukwenza lo msebenzi wohlobo. Ngoko ke ukuba ukhethiweyo wakho ungumcebisi wezobugcisa, loo nto iyavuma ukuthanda kwakhe.
Indlela ye-7. Picnic.
Olu hlobo lokwazisa ngothando ulindele wena kunye nomkhethiweyo wakho ukuba uhambe ngokuhamba. Ngaphandle kokuzonwabisa, akufanele uhambe. Unokuhamba naphi na njengoko uthanda. Unokukhwela ihashe uze ube nepiknikini encinane kwihlathi elithulileyo. Ebusika unokuhamba phakathi nobusika kunye nehlathi elincinci elingaphantsi kwelokusingatha kwaye nangona xesha lonyaka akukho mntu uvimbela ukwenza iipickiki kwiindawo ezisemaphandleni. Fry shish kebabs, usela iwayini. Njengoko kwinguqu yeklasi, umzuzu xa kukulungele ukuvula iimvakalelo zakho ukhululekile ukuzikhethela.
Indlela ye-8. NgesiFrentshi.
EFransi, ngekhulu le-19, i-tomato yayibizwa ngokuba yi "apple yothando" yaye kwakukholelwa ukuba ngokuyinika indoda, ngokuqinisekileyo, uyavuma ukuba uyayithanda. Ngoko kutheni ungazikhumbuli esi siko esihle esivela kwilizwe ebonisa umntu onomdla kakhulu kunye novakalelo? Mnike itamatato elula kwaye utshele (ukuba awazi) malunga nebali lakhe.
Nazi izi ndlela ezininzi zokuvuma uthando. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ukwamkelwa kwakho, zithembele kuwe kwaye ujonge ixesha elichithwe nomntu oyintanda.