Enyanisweni, ezi zifihlakeleyo. Amadoda avame ukuvakalisa iminqweno yabo, kuphela ngendlela yokubonisa izinto, ngamanye amaxesha ahluke kancinci kwabasetyhini, ukulawula ukukhetha izinto zabo ngendlela enzima kakhulu. Kubafazi, amaqhinga abantu ayingxaki. Enye into kukuba ngamanye amaxesha kulungele ngakumbi ukuhlala ungakwazi. Kwaye ke onke amandla esimo somntu awela kumaphepha e-Intanethi. Xa sijonge, sinokwenza izigqibo.
Izikhundla eziphezulu
Njengoko kuboniswa ngophando oluthile, amaninzi amadoda "aqala" iingubo zangaphantsi ze-latex, i-striptease, i-petting slowly kunye ne-women's ahi-groes ngexesha lesondo. Ngokuqhelekileyo isetyenziswe ngokuqhelekileyo kumntu oqhelekileyo, akukho nto eqhelekileyo-eqhelekileyo, eyinqabileyo okanye eyingozi. Kwaye okubaluleke kakhulu, ukhetho lwabo luhambelana ngokupheleleyo neminqweno yabasetyhini, mhlawumbi, ngaphandle kwexesha lokulinda.
Le "nto yokunethezeka" ikhona kwi-wardrobe engekho mfazi ngamnye. Kwaye akukho nto ukukhathazeka ngayo. I-pancy white lacy, ivela, ibuye "ihambe" kakuhle, ivumela izikhundla ezininzi ukukhanya kwexesha elide.
Ngokubhekiselele kwi-striptease - akukho nto ifunyenwe, kuyimfuneko kwinani elikhulu leebhola ezinqabileyo ezolula kwiindawo ezininzi ezivela ezweni lethu. Kwaye ekubeni abantu bathanda ukubukela indlela esiyikhathazayo ngayo, kutheni ungabaniki ithuba? Into ephambili kukuba ufunde ukwenza okulungileyo.
Ukutshatyalalisa amadoda kunye neengqungquthela zesiganeko sokuzingca kunye nokunyaniseka. Njengaye, into ebalulekileyo ukuzondla, kwaye, ngokukhawuleza kunokwenzeka. Akukho nto yohlobo! Amadoda, kuvela, banqwenela ukuzithokozisa ngethuba lokuqala lokwenza uthando kwaye balungele ukunika isigxina seyure kunye nokunye. Kulo xesha banqwenela ukuphazamisa umlingane wabo kumabhere kunye ne-caresses, ngokumncinci ngokumthobela.
Iifoto zokugonana ngokukhawuleza, njengoko kuvele, akunjalo - i-7% kuphela. Akucacile ukuba kutheni kukho izikhalazo ezininzi zamabhinqa, zikhohlakele kunye neentuthuko zesilisa "ekuphenduleni" kwazo.
Isalathisi esona sinobulili besini sabantu sithathwa njengokuba "ukugabisa inzondo". Amandla we-decibel, ngokombono wabo, ibonisa ukuba umntu uyasebenza. Kodwa "ubugqirha buqilima" ngexesha lesondo aluvunyelwanga. Ukuzikhukhumeza kwamadoda, kukukhetha ukuphulaphula zonke iintlobo zokungcola, kunokuba ubone ukuthula okupheleleyo komlingane. Ezinye iingcali zicinga ukuba ibhinqa ngalinye libonisa ukuphakanyiswa kwakhe ngendlela yakhe, akukho zimbini "zokudumala".
Isixhumanisi esiphakathi
Kwinqanaba elithi "taksyak" kwakukho ukubanga, iifilimu zezononografi, zibuza, xa ibhinqa liphezulu okanye libhekiselele kwaye liqwalasele! - ngokwesondo. Inyaniso yokuba amadoda akaniki ukubamba ukufanelwa ukunakwa, thina bafazi bayazi. Amadoda awanakho ukuqonda uthando lwethu kulolu hlobo lonwabo. Emva koko, kubafazi abaninzi, ukubanga kudla ngokubaluleke ngaphezu kokulala ngokwesondo, kwaye oku, ngokweengcamango zabantu, "akayi kungena nasiphi na isango." Ukuze sihloniphe uthando lwethu, bona, kuvela, abaphambukeli abathandekayo abanokukwazi ukumanga, kodwa bacelwa ukuba bangabandakanyi ukulala ngesondo.
Ngobuninzi bezikhundla zesondo, ngamnye umntu uyazikhethela. Kwaye ingqibelelo ye-puritical "yabafundisi bezithunywa zevangeli" ithatha kude nemida yangaphambili. Amadoda afana ne-pos if they are behind (30%). I-pose ye "umgibeli" ayikho ngasemva. Kwaye akuyona into embi kubantu, ukuba konke oku "kuhlazo" kuya kukhanyiswa ngokukhanya okukhawulezileyo kwamakhandlela okanye iimbanezelo zobusuku. Ubundlobongela ebumnyameni obumnyama, njengokukhanya okupheleleyo, alungelwanga.
67% xa kuthelekiswa no-33% bakhetha isenzo sokwabelana ngesondo ngenxa yecala lomlomo, kunye nemeko eyahlukileyo echaza ubungqina obubalulekileyo bokubakho komlomo.
Ngaphandle
Vala uluhlu lweefilimu ezithandanayo, ukuthetha ngeentlobano zesini, ukulala ngesondo kunye nomlingane oqaqambileyo.
Inyaniso yokuba ininzi amadoda ayinyamezelanga ibali elibuhlungu nelinomsoco, kuba ishishini elikhulu alikho imfihlo. Abafihleli ukuba i-caramel ibhala iindaba zeengongoma kunye ne dose encinci ye "strawberries" ejoliswe kubhinqa "basebenzise." Kubantu, kukho icandelo elikhethekileyo loonografi. Nangona kunjalo, olu hlobo lubadlali abaninzi kunye nabasetyhini.
Ikhono lomfazi lokuphazamisa "buzz" ngeengxoxo ezidityanisiweyo ngexesha le ncoko yothando lubangela ukuba abantu baqhube. Enyanisweni, kuphela umfazi onokuthi, ngexesha lokuphakanyiswa, ngokukhawuleza utshele iqabane lakhe ukuba umama wakhe (kunye naye uhlala naye) uxhambele kuye ngomso, okanye uthenge izicathulo ezintsha kwimali elondolozwe kwimoto. Ngokomgaqo, amadoda akhathaleli ukuva iindaba zethu kunye nokuqiqa, kodwa kuphela emva kwesondo.
I-sexologists ikholelwa ukuba ixesha elifanelekileyo "lobomi bentlobano" li-3-4 iiyure ngosuku. Nangona kunjalo, ukukhuthaza "isondo" ngeli xesha kunzima kubafazi kuphela, kodwa, njengoko kuvela, kubayeni. Izikhundla eziphezulu, kunye nomda omkhulu - 60%, ugcina isondo sangokuhlwa, ekuseni-30%, abazingeli ngentambama benze uthando oluncinane. Ngaphezu koko, uninzi lwabantu abaqhelekileyo ngeli xesha lisebenza emsebenzini, oluyinkimbinkimbi ngokugqithiseleyo ithuba lokuphumeza iziphakamiso zabalingani bezocansi.
Amadoda ayengacingi ukudibana neminqweno yabasetyhini, kodwa kufuneka ukuba yenziwe ukuba iqonde into esiyifunayo. Ukuqwalasela ukuthobeka kwabesifazane, bayavuma ukuba banelisekile ngamacebo, kwaye, akunzima. Ufuna nje ukuthatha isandla sakhe uyithumele "kwindawo elungileyo," kwaye uya kuqonda ukuba yenzeni. Ukutshatyalaliswa kwabasetyhini kunelisekile kuphela ngaba-3% abaphenduliweyo bakholelwa ukuba bayazi ngaphandle kweyongeziweyo indlela yokunikela ngayo intombikazi.
Ehlabathini lembono
Akunangqiqo ukufumanisa oko amadoda ethu ephuphayo, oko kuthethwa ngabo. Ewe malunga nesondo elinesithathu (64%)! Izinketho zihluka kuphela ngokumalunga nokuviwa komntu wesithathu. Abanye babona kule nxaxheba ngumhlobo womfazi wabo othandekayo, abanye - umdaniso ovela kwibha yomthi, kunye nabanye - ukungazi kakuhle. Ama-26% aphupha ubuncinane kanye ebomini babo bokuboshwa (ukukhishwa ngesandla) kunye nokushiywa kwintando yesingoma yesifazana. Abambalwa abancinci bangathanda ukubopha intombi yabo. Kwaye phantse bonke (85%) bafuna ukuva omnye komlomo wesifazane umnandi kwisiphakamiso sabo sokunyelisa ukulala ngesondo.