Wonke umfazi ohloniphayo unendlela engakumbi yokuyenga indoda. Kodwa ukukhwabanisa kwesondo esomeleleyo ngoncedo lwenkohlakalo kuyisixhobo esingenakunzima ngokupheleleyo. Ibhinqa elinesixhobo esinjalo sinokukhangela ingqalelo nayiphi na indoda.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, abasetyhini banqabile indima ebalulekileyo yevumba ebomini babo. Siyabulela kwimimoya, sifunde ukutshintsha isiphunga sethu, sidle indoda leyo ngoncedo lomoya. I-Perfume yowesifazane oyintlekele yongezwa kokugqibela kwindlu yangasese yabesifazane. Ininzi yempumelelo yowesifazane kwi-front front kuxhomekeke kwi-aura yengqungquthela ejikelezile. Ngoncedo lwale mveliso, unakho ukuphazamisa umntu, ukuvuselela umdla, ukunqwenela okanye umnqweno ovulekileyo wokuthintela.
Maxa wambi awuqondi into oyithandayo le ndoda. Kutheni intliziyo yakho yabetha ngokukhawuleza? INzululwazi ichaza oku njengento yeekhemikhali. Ngamanye amazwi, umzimba wethu usabele kwivumba. Ukuba unqwenela ukukhangela iphunga lomnye umntu, ngoko awuyikuphulaphula izinto ezinjalo njengobuntu, iimpawu zangaphandle kunye nobunzima.
Ukuba uye wazama ukuzama ukunikwa ingqalelo yindoda, kwaye zonke iinzame zakho azange ziphumelele, kuyafaneleka ukuzama amandla okuqhumisa. Ukumangalisa kunokudala ummangaliso. Into ephambili kukuba bakwazi ukusebenzisa.
Ngoko, into yokuqala ukuyenza kukuba ukhangele ingqalelo, ukumisa amehlo kuye. Ubomvu, iphunga elimnandi kunye neziqhamo ezintle kunye neenkcukacha ezinamacwecwe aziyi kushiya umntu ongenanto.
Kodwa ungamkhohlisa njani umntu ngevumba?
Ukuthunga ngenye yeengxenye zeememori. Ingqungquthela encinci yongcamango ekhethekileyo, inokuvula lula iimbulunga. Kutheni ungasebenzisi ithuba lokushiya uphawu kwimemori yakhe? Kodwa musa ukulibala: ukuvumba kwakho akufuneki ukumbamba umntu. Indoda ithanda xa ibhinqa linomshumo, likhanya, li-nenavyaschivym, kodwa lidibanisa kwaye alilibaleki.
Iingcali zicebisa: ukufumana "i-flavor" yakho ngabanye, zama ezimbalwa ezahlukeneyo. Hlalani kulowo uya kubeka khona ingqalelo.
I-Aromatherapy ubugcisa bokulawulwa kwemizwelo ngoncedo lweevumba. Namhlanje esi sihloko esithatha imfashini. Ukuze unikezele ngakumbi ukutshatyalaliswa kwimoya esondelene nayo, qhumisa "isiqhumiso sakho" ngeenaliti. Ukudibaniswa komculo wothando, ubumnyama obumnyama kunye neqholi elimnandi liyakunceda ulahlekise nantoni na. Kwaye, ke, musa ukuhlala kwenye into. Kubudlelwane phakathi kwendoda kunye nomfazi, ukuhlukahluka kubalulekile - ukulinga.
Enye into malunga nokuthunga. Amadoda amaninzi afana nevumba labasetyhini abaphuma nje kwisitya, oko kukuthi, inkohlakalo yabo yendalo inikezwe ngokwemvelo ngokwayo. Ukucoceka, xa kusetshenziswe ngokungaqhelekanga, kunokumonakalisa ukuvumba komzimba wakho. Ukuba unenkxalabo ngokungazijabulisi, ucinga ntoni, ukuvumba kwakho kwendalo, indlela efanelekileyo yokulahla la mava kukuxoxa ngale ngxaki nomthandi wakho. Xa ubuza umbuzo, kungcono ukubhekisela kumava malunga nemo yezempilo. Ngokomzekelo, kwindlela yokuxelela, batyhola ukuba ukuvumba kwimizimba yesifo somzimba kungakwazi ukufumanisa izifo. Mkholise ukuba impembelelo ebonakalayo ibaluleke kakhulu kuwe, ngexesha lokunyanga lesi sifo.
Khumbula, kulula ukuba indoda ikhohliswe ngephunga lomzimba wakhe, iphunga lezinto eziyimfihlo zentombi. Ziqukethe ii-pheromones, ezinomdla kakhulu ukuba zenzeke kumadoda. Ngako oko, ngaphambi komhla, umntu akufanele athathwe kakhulu kunye nabachasayo, kuphela musa ukuwunqanda, ukuvumba okuqinileyo kwesifungo akufakelisi kwintliziyo yokuthandana.