Uninzi lwabafazi baphupha ukuba baqhelane kwaye batshata nendoda yangaphandle. Namhlanje, umntu onjalo owaziwayo unokufezekiswa ngokulula ngeendawo ezahlukeneyo zokuthandana kunye nee-arhente zomtshato.
Umncedisi we-Intanethi ukuqhelana nabangaphandle
Ukuthandana kwamanye amazwe uze utshate nomfokazi-yinyani! Ngaba ufuna ukudibana nendoda yangaphandle kwaye udale intsapho kunye naye? I-intanethi inikeza ithuba elihle lokudibana kunye nokuhlangana nabantu basemzini, ukudala umtshato nomfokazi. Amawaka angamawaka angaphandle asebenzisa i-intanethi ukufumana umfazi kumazwe aseCIS.
I-Russian Russian, i-Ukraine kunye nezinye iintlanga amabhinqa namantombazana bafumana inkxaso kunye nokuqonda kule ngxaki kwiindawo ze-intanethi.
Ukuthandana nabantu bezinye iintlanga kubanjwe kwimibhikano eyahlukeneyo, imidlalo, ingxoxo, iifoto kunye neencwadi zokufunda.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, abafazi abangatshatanga okanye amantombazana baqhelana namadoda angaphandle. Abaninzi babo bazimisele ukuba nobuhlobo obude kunye obunzulu. Emva kokudibana, abafazi basenqwenela ukuhlala ixesha elithile ngobundlelwane obuhle kunye nendoda, ukuze baqhubeke phambili bahlolisise imeko kwaye bacinge malunga nobudlelwane obusondeleyo. Kukho amaxesha apho amabhinqa atshada umfokazi kuphela ngenxa yemali aze afumane ipropati ethile, ayishiya amadoda abo. Iimeko ezinjalo zinokuvela kwiimeko apho kukho umda omkhulu phakathi kwabatshatileyo (ukuba umfazi uncinci kunomyeni wakhe). Kodwa konke okufanayo, iimbini ezininzi zihlala ngokuvuya ngonaphakade.
Abantu bezinye iintlanga baxabisa ubuhle babasetyhini basuka kwamanye amazwe
Yintoni eheha abantu basemzini abasetyhini baseRussia? Zizona zintle kakhulu kwihlabathi, ezona zivulekileyo, zithembekileyo kwaye zithembekileyo! Abasetyhini bethu banako ukuthanda umntu kunye nokudala iintsapho ezinamandla.
Amantombazana aseUkraine, njengamaRussia, amnandi kakhulu kwaye anqabileyo, abamkelekileyo nabamkelekileyo abafazi.
Ezi zimpawu zixabiswa kakhulu ngabantu basemzini.
Ingozi yokuDlelana ngeNtanethi
Isiqu somdla sanamhlanje asihlali sinika ithuba lokuhlela ubomi bakho.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, amaninzi amabhinqa namadoda abavakalelwa ukunganakwa, ukuqonda kunye nothando. Namhlanje abantu bafuna iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokuziwayo, bazive beyimfuneko kwaye bengekho bodwa.
Ukuba kukho imfuno, kukho iziphakamiso! Kwaye kukho iingxaki zecala. Ziziphi iingozi zowesifazane ofuna ukuhlangabezana nesiqingatha sakhe ngaphandle kwelizwe lakhe? Ingxaki enkulu ngumntu wabathengi baseRashiya, eUkraine, emazweni aseBaltic. Ngoko ke, abafazi abaya emsebenzini okanye bafunda ngaphesheya kwaye baqhelana namadoda, kuyimfuneko ukufumana ubungcali kwangaphambili okuya kwenza ukuba ukwazi ukufumana imali ngaphandle kwelinye ilizwe kwaye kuya kuba yinto enokwethenjelwa yokuhlala kwilizwe langaphandle.
Nangona zonke izigulana, nayiphi na intombazana eyathumela iifoto zayo kwisiza sokuthandana, amaphupha omtshato ophumelelayo kunye nomntu ovela kwelinye ilizwe.
Amadoda angaphandle angabonakali kwaye anomusa, eneempawu ezininzi ezintle. Kodwa emva kwexesha, amacala omabini angakholelwa ekukhohlisweni kwaye angafumani oko afunayo kunye noko babelindele. Kukho iingxabano, ukungaqondani, ukukhula kwiingxaki ezinkulu kunye nemiphumo.
Umnqweno wokutshata umntu osisityebi wesinye isizwe ongekho ngokupheleleyo kwaye akufuneki ukusebenzisa umtshato kule njongo. Nangona abaninzi abafazi benza oku.
Uvavanyo lweengqondo
Enye ingozi, ekubonweni kokuqala kubonakala ingcikivo kwabanye abantu, luvavanyo lwezengqondo. Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ulwalamano olusondeleyo, fumana ukuba uhambelana njani kunye nokuba ulungile omnye komnye.
Ubume bendalo budalwe ngendlela yokuba abantu bafune omnye nomnye ukuba baphile kunye kunye nokwakha ikhaya lentsapho.