Ngaphambi kokuba wenze ukhetho malunga nokokunika unyoko, kufuneka ucinge malunga noko akuthandayo, okanye oko akuthandayo, mhlawumbi ufuna into yokuthenga. Ewe, kwiimeko ezimbi kakhulu, zibuze yena ukuba angathanda ukufumana isipho okanye ukumangaliswa, nangona unina abaninzi, kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo abantu abayithandi imimangaliso. Umama kuphela othanda ukumangaliswa nokungaqiniseki angayithanda isipho ngendlela emangalisiweyo. Kodwa, nangona kunjalo, amaninzi amanina ayinayo imingcipheko. Ngoko kungcono ngaphambi kweeholide, nokuba ingaba Kuzalwa, uNyaka omtsha okanye ngoMatshi 8, mbuze into enokuthanda ukuyifumana njengesipho. Kwaye umama uya kuvuya ukuba uluvo lwakhe lubalulekile kuwe, kwaye awusayi kubakho ngokungabalulekanga kwaye akukho nto.
Ngoko, ufunde ngokubanzi umnqweno womama wakho, yintoni ethanda ukuyifumana njengesipho, kwaye ngoku siqala ukwenza! Mhlawumbi usengumntwana okanye usemtsha, ngoko ke, akukho sipho esingcono kunyoko kunyoko esenziwe ngezandla zakho. Unokunika, umzekelo, isongo esikhonkxwe kwi-bead, yenza i-herbarium, uyihlobise indlu kunye neibhaluni kunye neefowers ngokuvuyisana kunye namazwi "atshisayo" kumama wakho, ngoma ingoma, yenza ikhadi ngezandla zakho. Ngokuqhelekileyo, kukho iindlela ezininzi, kuxhomekeka kukucinga kwakho. Kodwa, ukuba ungumntu ozimele ozimeleyo ngokwezimali, unika umama into eyigugu kwaye ixabiseke, uzalisekise iphupha lakhe, azinako ukufumana. Nantsi, umzekelo, unike imoto, uhambo oluya elwandle, okanye uthenge into encedo kwaye isebenzise endlwini: isitofu esitsha, umatshini wokuhlamba, umqhubi. Okanye kuya kuba mnandi ukumnika umxheshana wokuzonwabisa: ujonge ithikithi yekhonsathi yomculi wakhe oyintandokazi, ithikithi kwintlalontle okanye ukuya epakini yokuzonwabisa ndawonye.
Ukukhetha isipho sikamama wakho, kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba unyoko ngowona mfazi okhangayo, othakazelisayo nomhle, omele ahlale ekulungele ukulungelelanisa, ukuze wenze izipho ezilandelayo:
1. Ukuhamba kunye nonyoko kwisitoreji kwaye uthenge isikhwama sakhe esitsha sefashini, ingubo entsha okanye izicathulo, okanye, bhetele, ingubo yoboya okanye iingubo zeegusha.
2. Unokungathenga i-perfume yamathandayo, izimonyo, iimveliso zokunakekelwa kwesikhumba. Ewe, ukuba uyintombi, kuya kuba nzima ukuba uthenge konke oku, ukulungele umama wakho, ngokuqwalasela iimpawu zesikhumba sakhe kunye nengcamango. Kodwa ukuba uyindodana, kungcono ukuba uye esitolo kunye naye, ukuze ungenzi iphutha ngokuthenga kwakho okanye nje unikeze umama wakho imali ukuze azithenge yonke into ayifunayo.
3. Ngokuqinisekileyo, isipho esiyamnandi sokuba umama uya kuba zizinto zegolide, isilivere, iplatinum ngamatye anqabileyo okanye axabisekileyo. Emva koko, amaninzi amabhinqa nawuphi na ubudala njengolu hlobo lwesipho.
4. Unokwenza isipho ngendlela yobhaliso lwama-annow for aerobics, impilo; isitifiketi sesipho kwi-SPA-salon okanye uthenge umzulisi wezemidlalo. Emva kwakho konke, abafazi bahlala belandela ukuma nokubonakala kwabo, kwaye ukuba unyoko usemncinci, usebenza kwaye uhlakaniphile, ke lesi sipho simele.
5. Kodwa ukuba unyoko awuncinci yaye yena, njengabesifazane abaninzi abaphakathi okanye abahlala umhlalaphantsi, banandipha ukubukela iTV okanye ukufunda iimagazini zamabhinqa ngokuzonwabisa, ngoko unako ukunika ividiyo kunye namafilimu ayenayo ama-Soviet kunye nama-melodramas okanye iingoma uthanda. Unokunika unyaka wokubhaliselwa kumagazini wakhe ozithandayo.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukubonisa umama isipho esifanelekileyo nesifanelekileyo akunzima kunzima, kufuneke ukuba uqaphele, uyanyamekele kwaye uyazi iimpawu zikamama, ukhetho kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, ucinge ngoluvo lwakhe. Kwakhona, ungakulibali ukuba unyoko ngowona mfazi ontle kakhulu, othanda iintlobo ezahlukeneyo, ezifana neentyantyambo, iipesele kunye nesimo sengqondo esifudumeleyo.