Indlela indoda inika ngayo ingqalelo imiqondiso

Ukudlala ngothando kunye nokuncoma kubandakanya inxalenye ekhethekileyo yobomi bethu, kwaye ngokufanelekileyo ihamba ngendlela yokuzithemba ngayo, kunye nolwalamano oluhlukileyo kunye nolunye uhlobo. Ngokuqhelekileyo kukholwa ukuba abafazi bathanda ngeendlebe, kunye namadoda anamehlo.

Yingakho kukholwa ukuba, ukuze kuphazamise umfazi, kwaye ukufumana ukuthanda kwakhe, ukuphambuka okukhulu kufuneka kunikezelwe kwintetho yokubonga, ukuncoma rhoqo, ngakumbi ukuba baya kwidilesi yeenkcukacha ezingabonakaliyo. Kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo lo mzekelo ungabonwa ngokucacileyo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, umntu uguqulela iimpawu zengqwalasela, njengobonakaliso benceba yakhe, kunye nomnqweno wokuqalisa uhlobo oluthile lolwalamano, okanye ubuncinci umhla. Ngakolunye uhlangothi - ngamanye amaxesha ukubonakalisa okunjalo kumfazi kunokwenziwa, ngaphandle komdla kumntu wakhe, kodwa nje ngokuhlonipha okanye umnqweno "wokugcoba". Ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka ukuba ukubethekisa kubonakalisa imvelaphi yendawo yokusebenza kwintlangano apho umfazi esebenza khona, ingakumbi ukuba akahlali kwindawo yokugqibela. Ngoko kwenzeka ukuba ophantsi unxulumene nomphathi, kufana nokusebenza kweeyure ezongezelelweyo zomsebenzi, ukwandisa umvuzo.

Kodwa kukho iindlela eziliqela zokugqiba iinjongo malunga nendlela umntu ajika ngayo iimpawu zokuqwalasela, kwaye ukuba oko kukugcina igama lakhe lokusebenza.

Ukuziphatha kwakho.

Abasetyhini abakucingi, ukuzithobela abantu, nokuba ngaba ngabaqeshwa, bengenalo umahluko, batshata okanye bangatshatanga. Kodwa ukuziphatha okunjalo akuthwali umnqweno wokuhambisa izinto ngokukhawuleza kunokuthetha nje. Kodwa abantu banokuqonda yonke into. Kwaye kuba ngumqondiso kwisenzo.

Isigaba sokuqala sokunikezela amanqaku omntu sigxininise ukutshatyalaliswa okungahambiyo. Ubambe umnyango ngokumomotheka, ngokuphindaphindiweyo unomdla kwindlela izinto ezikunye nawe, ezichaphazelekayo kwizihloko zomsebenzi, ziqala ukuvelana, zicebise, zama ukuza uhambe nomsebenzi osondeleyo nawe, ngokuqhelekileyo uhambela emnyango wangaphambili weofisi, ukumisa okanye imoto.

Ungathembeli kwinto yokuba iya kuhlala ingavunyelwe. Kwaye isantya sokunyuka kweentengo siya kuxhomekeka ngokupheleleyo ekuziphatheni nasekuphenduleni. Nangona uhleka, qhubeka uzama ukugcina umgama, ubuncinci kwi-radius yomsebenzi wakho.

Okulandelayo, amadoda athambekele ekuboniseni uxinzelelo olungakumbi, abuye asebenze kakuhle, kodwa uqhubeka uqaphela ukubonwa kwakho, isimemo sokuphuza umsi, isidlo sokutya, i-tea / ikhofi. Kwaye kufuneka nje unike i-spark, njengoko ilangabi liphuma ngokukhawuleza.

Ukuba le ndoda ayinomdla - makayiqonde oku, okanye athi ngqo. Ngaloo ndlela, ngokuqinisekileyo, akayi kukhawuleza, kodwa ngexesha elifanelekileyo bonke baya kuba njengaphambili. Indoda iya kucatshukiswa kakhulu kuwe, ukuba umvumele ukuba awele umgca wobuhlobo, kwaye afune ukuqhubeka.

Ngokuqinisekileyo, ingqalelo yindoda enhle, kodwa ayenzekanga, kwaye kuyafaneleka ukuqonda ukuba zonke izenzo zineziphumo zayo.

Ukuziphatha kwakhe.

Ngokuqhelekileyo, ngokubhekiselele kwingqwalasela yomntu, ixesha elibalulekileyo kakhulu lixesha lokuqala lobudlelwane, xa esele efuna ukunqoba umfazi. Emva koko i-ardor yabo iyancipha, kwaye yonke into iyabaleka kwaye iqhelekileyo. Ukuba wakho osebenza naye okanye ophantsi, ngokukhawuleza waqala ukuphefumula umntu ongenamdla - qaphela. Ngokuxhomekeka kubume babo, amadoda ngokuqhelekileyo abonisa intshiseko yabo ngokukhawuleza nangokufutshane, okanye ngokukhawuleza, kodwa ixesha elide. Indoda eqala ukukhankanya ibhinqa ejoliswe ngokucacileyo injongo, ngokuqhelekileyo nakweyiphi na imeko, izama ukwenza ngokukhawuleza, ukuze ingabi nciphisa ixesha. Ngoko ke, umntu unokuthetha ngokukhuselekileyo ukuba ukunyaniseka nguye udade onomdla. Ukuba uziva uxinzelelo, ukusuka kwicala lomnye osebenza naye - akunakwenzeka ukuba umhlobo uye wavuselela iimvakalelo zakhe ezingenangqondo kuwe, ngakumbi ukuba sele usebenza kunye okokuqala. Indoda, ngokukodwa ekusebenzeni nawe ixesha elide, iya kufuna indlela efihlakeleyo.

Ngokufanayo, umntu akufanele aphendule "ekugqibeleni", kwicandelo labasemagunyeni. Iinjongo ezinjalo ziza kuba nefuthe elibi kwigama lakho, kwaye zinokukhokelela ekuxothweni. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuba u-boss "ubeke iliso" kuwe, uya kuthatha indawo ethembekileyo kuwe. Kunokwenzeka kwaye kuyahluke, kodwa utshintsho kwisimo sengqondo ngomsebenzi wakho siqinisekisiwe. Unako ukubizwa ngokuba ngumphepheli ukuze ubeke izimvo okanye udumise umsebenzi owenziweyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo konke kuqala ngeendumiso eziqhelekileyo, kwaye emva koko kulandela, "kodwa ukhangeleka njani ukuxoxa ngekamva lakho?" Ingqwalasela enjalo eyenziwa yindoda kufuneka inganyanzelwanga, okanye igcine imida engqongqo yendlela yokusebenza kwisimo sengqondo emsebenzini.

Khumbula ukuba umntu ovakalelwa ngokwenene ngawe uya kuhlonipha igama lakho njengomsebenzi kwaye ngumfazi kuphela, akuyi kukukunceda ukuba ungene kwiimeko ezintle, kwaye uyakukuvumela ukuba udlulise uphuhliso lwentsebenziswano ngaphaya kweofisi. Eyona ndlela ingcono kukuba iindaba malunga neveli yakho, ziza kuba ziindaba malunga nomtshato wakho ozayo okanye isigqibo malunga nokuhlalisana. Kodwa oku kunzima ukufezekisa, kuba ngokuqhelekileyo inhlebo ihamba phambi kwesi siganeko.

Isiphelo.

Njengoko umntu udla ngokubonisa imiqondiso, sazama ukujonga imizekelo. Kodwa wonke umntu unomntu, okwazi ukwenza izinto ezahlukeneyo kunye nokuxhaphaza. Ngoko ke, sinokulindela ngokukhuselekileyo imeko ezingalindelekanga. Kwakhona, sikhumbula ukuba ukubonisa ingqalelo indoda ayikwazi nje kuphela ebomini bakhe, kodwa nangomsebenzi wobomi. Ngaphandle kwalokhu, akukho iqela elilodwa elinokuyenza. Ukugcina unxibelelwano ngaphandle kokuya ngaphaya kwexesha, kwaye ukuba ungaboni isizathu sokuthatha isenzo, okokuqala, qwa lasele, kwaye ingqwalasela yakho iboniswe njani. Kufuneka ulungele ukuziphatha okanye uqhubeke nobudlelwane, kuxhomekeke kwiminqweno yakho, kodwa kungekhona phambi kwabasebenzi bakho. Ngendlela indoda ibonisa iimpawu zengqwalasela, umntu unokufunda okuninzi ngaye, kwaye aqonde ukuba ubuhlobo buya kuphuhliswa njani kwixesha elizayo, nokuba ingaba nemiphumo emibi ingenzeka. Qaphela kwaye uqaphele, uthembele kwi-intuition yakho, kwaye uya kuphumelela.