Indlela yokwenza umntu azikhathalele

Nantoni na into oyithethayo, kwaye ngamnye wethu uya kuba mnandi kakhulu ukuthetha ngokucocekileyo kwaye akwazi ukubukela umntu kunokuba yi-slob. Ukudala umfanekiso ococekileyo, akuyimfuneko ukutyelela i-salon yobuhle imihla ngemihla (okanye amaxesha amaninzi ngeveki) kwaye ulandele iimveli zendlela yokufashisa, ekugqibeleni uchithe iishefu ze-boutique fashion. Kulo shishini elincinci, ucocekile ngokwaneleyo kunye neengubo ezicokisekileyo, i-e-polished-polished, ihlanjwe nge-shampoo ecocekileyo yentloko, i-manicure ehle kwaye ihlelwe kakuhle kunye nephunga elimnandi elingu-perfume.

Yiyo kuphela isondo esilungileyo ukukhunjulwa ngale nto kunamadoda, ngoko umbuzo wendlela yokufumana indoda ukuba ulandele kwaye ufundise ukuthanda ukucoceka kubaluleke ngakumbi kunanini ngaphambili.

Ngokuqinisekileyo, akukho mntu uza kuthetha ukuba kwihlabathi lanamhlanje kukho abo babameli besondo esinamandla abazinyamekela ixesha elininzi kunye namandla. Njengomthetho, olu luhlu lubandakanya abantu abaphumelelayo, ngenxa yemigudu yabo, bathande impumelelo kumntu wabo ngokupheleleyo into. Bakwazi ukuziphoqa ngokukhawuleza ukuba benze iinkqubo ezininzi zokuphucula ukubonakala kwazo, ukuzithatha kalula. Kodwa indlela yokwenza umntu azikhathalele, ukuba akafuni yini? Ngelishwa, kwiimeko ezininzi kwenzeka ukuba umfana okanye umyeni akafuni ukubeka iliso ukubonakala kwakhe (kwaye kungekhona kuphela), ukucinga ukuba "budenge" kunye nokuchitha ixesha. Ngelo xesha, kuyimfuneko ukuthatha inyathelo ezandleni zakho kwaye uqhubele phambili kwizenzo ezikhawulezayo. Khumbula ukuba ikhondo "lokuqeqesha" umntu ekuhlambulukeni kwakhe kufuneka lenzeke ngokuthe ngcembe, inyathelo ngesinyathelo isenza ukuba abe nenjongo yokuphila kakuhle.

Siphatha ngokukrakra

Abafazi banokufumana indlela yokuphuma kuyo nayiphi na imeko, ixhalabisa le ngxaki. I-Arsenal yelo bhinqa ngokwayo iquka ezininzi iindlela, usebenzisa oko unokukwenza ukuba abathembekileyo benze into ayifuniyo. Ngoko kutheni ungathumeli la maqhinga amabhinqa kunye namaqhinga ngendlela elungileyo kuthi?

Okokuqala, bonke abameli besondo esomeleleyo banokuzithobela ngokukhawuleza kwisenzo sokwesaba. Kwaye akuxhomekeke kwindlela umntu enamandla ngayo, kuba umntu, njengomthetho, uyamoyika ingcamango yezifo ezingafunekiyo kwaye nangona kunjalo uhambo oluya kudokotela (sesivele sithule ngesibhedlele ngokwawo). Ukuqhubela phambili kule nto, ibhinqa linalo lonke ithuba lokusongela lakhe elincinci. Kuba oko kwanele ukuxelela umntu ngezifo ezinokubonakala ngathi ngenxa yokuba akazibukeli. Qiniseka ukuba ngentsasa elandelayo isithandwa siya kuxhoba ngebhola lezinyo kunye nerazo.

Ukudumisa yilungiso elihle

Ungakulibala ukunika loo mntu isizathu sokuba umnqweno wokuzigcina ehlambulukile. Ukudumisa nokukhuthazwa kukubalulekileyo ekuphumeleleni. Enye ibinzana yesicwangciso: "Uvumba kakhulu!", Yintoni emele iphonswe njengengozi, inokwenza imimangaliso. Emva kwayo, uya kudinwa ngokubala inani lemihla ngemihla yokutyelela umphefumlo wakho othandekayo.

Iimpawu ezithobekileyo

Ngaba ufuna ukwenza ukuba umthandane wakho ashintshe rhoqo iingubo zangaphantsi? Akukho nkathazo, kuya kukwanela xa uzibeka ngokuzimeleyo iimpahla ezihlambulukileyo nezingubo ezihlambalayo. Ngethuba lokuqala ngokuqinisekileyo uya kutyhawula le nyathelo indoda, kodwa emva kwexesha elithile uya kulusebenzisa kwaye uyayithatha.

Ukucoca izicathulo - isitshixo ekuphumeleleni

Ngomthandi oqhelekileyo ukunyamekela izicathulo, azikho iingxaki nhlobo. Ngokungaqhelekanga amakhulu wabameli bezesondo ezifanelekileyo sele sele ibone ukuphumelela kunye nesiphumo esihle sale ndlela. Musa ukuba novila ukuzisa imihla ngemihla ngokulandelelana ngokugcwele kwesinye sezibhotshi zendoda yakhe. Nangona ngexesha apho umntu uya kukhawuleza ukuba asebenze, akasoze alinda ukuya apho, atshele iinqaba eziziwayo. Ukuyinqwenela okanye kungenjalo, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuhlambulula isicathulo sesibili, enike ukubonakala kakuhle. Ngokusebenzisa rhoqo le nkqubo, indoda iya kufuneka ifunde ukubeka iliso zakhe.

Kwaye ekugqibeleni, amaqhinga amabhinqa asebenze ngakumbi kunokuba amazwana onke ngamadoda.