Ewe, ukuba ndifuna ukuyeka, ndiyayeka. Kodwa ndiya kuyenza kuphela mna.
Kodwa ukuba uluntu luyakhathazela kakhulu abantu ababhemayo, ngoko amantombazana anesigarethi ezandleni zawo angahlaziswa. Intombazana, intombazana kunye nomfazi, kuqala okokuqala, umntu kunye nomama, oza kubeletha umntwana ngokuzayo. Kubonakala ukuba kuninzi ukuhlambalalisa okuvela kulolu hlobo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, awukwazi ukumthiya umntu kuxhomekeke ekubeni uyabhema okanye akakho. Kwiimeko ezininzi, intombazana yokutshaya ayibangele ukuba abafana bangayihloneli okanye bayayihlonela. Kodwa intombazana ekhulelwe yokutshaya umsila okanye iglasi yesiselo esinxilisayo ikhangeleka kakhulu kwaye ingathandeki. Ukusetyenziswa kakubi kotywala notywala kunokuchaphazela ikamva lomntwana. Ukuba umama ozayo akasakhathazeki ngomntwana wakhe, unokuthi ntoni ngabanye?
Nangona kwakukho ixesha apho intombazana yokubhema ibonakala ijabulise kwaye inhle. Ngaphandle koko, ezinye iintlondi zongezwa ukutshaya, umzekelo, utywala okanye iziyobisi.
Ndiyazibuza ukuba abafana baphatha njani amantombazana okutshaya? Kwaye akubonanga ukuba bonke abantu babone kakubi intombazana yokutshaya. Ngokutsho kwamanye abantu, akusiyo yonke intombazana yokutshaya iyabetha kakubi, kwaye akayikukhupha umsi wesigaretha obizayo ebusweni bomhlobo wakhe. Umfazi oyinyaniso uhlambulukile, kwaye kuye kuphuma isiphunga se-shampoo, i-gel kunye neqhumiso, nangona utshaya emgangathweni wepakethi imihla ngemihla.
Abanye abafana bacinga ukuba abantombazana abanobugqwetha bashunqisa, abangenandaba nekamva, kodwa bahlala kuphela kwikhoyo. Kakade ke, akukho nto ihlawuliswayo kwibhunga ukutshaya okanye ukutshaya. Ekugqibeleni, zonke iintombazana zigqiba ukuba zenze ntoni. Intombazana enokwenza imfashini kunye nentle-mveliso ayiyi kuqhuba iigayibethi ngaphandle kwesihlunu okanye umlenze webhokhwe. Ukulandela imodeli, loo ntokazi nayo ifuna ukuzonwabisa. Ngoko ke, amantombazana anamhlanje aqala ukubandakanya ukubhema i-cigar ephezulu ephezulu. Ezi iiguba zilungile, njengesiNgesi gin, esinxiliswe kancinci ngenyameko.
Ngokungafani namadoda, amantombazana amaninzi abhema ukukhwela i-cigarette. Ngamanye amaxesha kwiindawo zokuthengisa unokufumana i-cigarettes yabasetyhini. Umfazi utshaya i-cigarettes kunye ne-cigare, ngaphezu kwe-cigarettes. Namhlanje unokuhlangabezana namantombazana kunye nombhobho, apho ebhala iteksi ngqo esuka e-Amsterdam. Ngokungafani namantombazana, amantombazana anika ingqwalasela ngakumbi kwiinkozo kunye nevumba le-cigarettes.
Kukhona omnye umbandela walo mbandela. Abafana babhekisela kumantombazana abhema ukungafani, de kube yinto enye ibe yintombi yabo. Njengoko abantu bathi, akukho mntu kufuneka alawulwe isenzo samantombazana. Kwaye amantombazana akamele akwenze nantoni na, kodwa abafuni ukubona intombazana yabo iguba. Abafana bafuna ukuvumba umzimba wesibhobho, kungekhona umsi wecuba, ukuba ngaba yiyona nto inokubakho icuba eninzi kakhulu kwihlabathi. Ngokwale mabhinqa, ukusuka kumfazi otshaya uvelisa umoya wokukhululwa, ozoyikrakra. Kunoko, baya kubona ukuba intombazana yokutshaya isithandwa sayo, kungekhona umthandi. Ngentombazana etshaya intombazana, ufuna ukusela umgudu webhiya okanye ukuya kumdlalo webhola.
Ngoku amadoda azama ukukholisa indlela yokuphila enempilo, adle ngokufanelekileyo, adlale imidlalo kwaye angaba ngumlutha wotywala okanye ugwayi. Abashunyi, abavumba icuba. Yile meko kubo nakwabanye abayifunayo kubahlobo babo. Ngokutsho kwabo, imiphunga yentombazana yokutshaya ifana nomfanekiso owaziwayo ukusuka kwipowusta ecetyiswayo ngeengozi zokutshaya, kwaye kule ngcamango ayibabi kakhulu kubo. Ngoko ke, banomdla kakhulu kumantombazana abhema. Ukutshaya amantombazana abonwabileyo, bacinga ukuba abafana abagulayo abaneziphene zempilo. Kwaye bafaka imiphunga yabo ngokwabo. Kunzima kakhulu ukutshintsha uluvo lwabantu abanjalo, akunakwenzeka ukuba ulungele ukuba intombazana yedwa "yenkampani" okanye iyakuthanda ugwayi ogqithiseleyo kakhulu nge-menthol flavour.
Intombazana nganye yokubhema ibonisa ukuthanda kwakhe ukutshaya ngokuzonwabisa. Ngokombono wabo, abafana bacinga ukuba intombazana enesigarethi inomdla kakhulu kwaye ikhangayo. Ukongezelela, intombazana yanamhlanje, kungakhathaliseki ukuba itshayayo okanye ayikho, ngumntu. Le nto ibhizinisi lakhe - ukutshaya okanye ukutshaya. Ukuba abafana abathandi ukutshaya amantombazana, mayeke ukuba batshintshe abo bangabhemi. Okwangoku, imigaqo yokulingana kuzo zonke iintlalo zentlalo zikhula kuluntu. Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukugweba intombazana yokutshaya ngexesha elinjalo? !!
Kungekudala, kwiivenkile, iivenkile nakwezinye iindawo zoluntu unako ukudibana kunye namantombazana okutshaya. Ezi ntombazana zigwetywa ngenxa yembono yoluntu yoluntu. Kodwa ukuba ukhangelelene, jonga kumaphephancwadi acwecwe okanye ukhangele iimveliso zethelevishini, unokuqonda intando ephakamileyo yamantombazana ekutshaya. Intombazana yokutshaya yintlahlela yokuthengiswa kwangoku, kwakunye nomphumo wesifiso esonakele samantombazana amantombazana. Nokuba nembono yoluntu iyatshintsha kancane. Hayi, yaba ngumfashane wokutshaya. Amantombazana okutshaya amashishini onke, kunye nabangabhemi bajika baba "njengabantu abamhlophe". Baziva bengakhululeki phakathi kwamantombazana abhinqa. Phakathi kolutsha, iimbono zikwaziswa ukuba ukutshaya kunceda ngokupheleleyo ukuphumla, ukuzivalela ukuzimela, njl.
Kakade ke, abafana baphatha amantombazana atshaya ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Kodwa, ukuba umntu uyayithanda intombazana, kufuneka abe ngedugom etshaya intombi yakhe okanye ayikho. Kungenxa yokuba, ukuba umthandi wakhe akanandaba nomfana, yena ngokwakhe unokuyeka ukutshaya xa ecinga ukuba umkhwa omubi ubeka uphuhliso lwentsebenziswano.