Indlela yokulungiselela umtshato womtshakazi? Akukona nje ngeengubo zokutshata ze-chic. Funda ngaphezulu kwinqaku lethu lanamhlanje.
Ukulungiselela umtshato kukulungele ukuqala ixesha elide ngaphambi kwalo suku oluhle lobomi bakho, kuba kukho inkalo eninzi ezayo, ukulungisa isisombululo oza kuyidinga amandla amaninzi kunye nezobuchule kunye nezobuchule. Ngoko, kufuneka uyenze ntoni ukulungiselela umtshato?
1. Misela umhla womtshato.
Xa ukhetha umhla, kufuneka kuthathelwe ingqalelo ukuba ngalo mhla ngokunyusa kwimikhosi yomtshato, kuya kubakho isidlo. Kubalulekile ukubonelela loo mhla okhethiweyo awuyi kukwazi ukuyisebenzisa okanye indawo apho ufuna ukugubha umtshato uya kuba khona. Ukuba ufuna ukubamba umtshato womtshato, ngoko yonke imihla yeveki kuphela ngoLwesihlanu kunye neSonto lifanelekileyo. Unokufaka isicelo kwiofisi yokubhalisa phakathi ezimbini neenyanga enye ngaphambi komtshato. Kwaye, ke, khumbula ukuba uMgqibelo ngumhla owuthandayo wemitshato.
2.Reshem onokumema emtshatweni.
Lo mbuzo umbuzo onzima kakhulu kwaye uyimfuneko onokuyicombulula. Inani leendwendwe lixhomekeke kwindlela omele uchithe ngayo. Ukususela kubayiphi abantu abaya kubakho emtshatweni, kuxhomekeke ekukhetheni kwenkqubo yokuzonwabisa kunye neminye imiba. Unokwenza ezimbini uluhlu lweendwendwe. Uluhlu lokuqala luya kubandakanya kuphela abo ufuna ngokwenene ukumema. Kwaye uluhlu lwesibini lujoliswe kulabo abanqwenelekayo ukumema. Siyamema uluhlu lokuqala kuqala, kwaye xa umntu enqaba, simema umntu kwisoluhlu lwesibini endaweni yoko.
3. Ndifuna umtshato ofanelekileyo.
Ngamnye kuthi kuthi umele ulolu suku oluhle ngendlela yethu. Ngaba uthanda ukuchitha ixesha kwiinkampani ezimnandi? Ngaba uhlala uye kwiinkampani zobusuku? Mhlawumbi, ukuthanda nje kuphela ngaphandle kokukhala kweentsapho "ezibuhlungu!"? Naluphi na umtshato ongekho, kufanele kube yinto enjalo ukuba iya kuba mnandi kuwe nangesiqingatha sakho. Yintoni eya kukunceda wenze isigqibo? Cinga ngezinto ozithandayo, into oyithandayo, into onomdla kuyo. Mhlawumbi uthanda enye yokutyela, ehlala uhlala kuyo? Ngaba uyayithanda i nkcubeko, umzekelo, eJapane? Ngaba uhambelane nesimboli somculo? Okanye ngaba kukho ifilimu oye wahlola iihlandlo ezili-12 kwaye ngoko ufuna ukuba kuyo? Ukuthumela isitayela sokubhiyozela kungabani na ukucinga kwakho.
4. Kukuphi ukuchitha umtshato ogqibeleleyo?
Umthendeleko kwindawo yokutyela. Ukuxhoma kwi-cafe. Hamba kwi-tram yomlambo. Ukuzonwabisa kwiqela. Ukuhamba ukuya kwimeko emva kwesiphunga se-favorite shish kebab. Nomaphi apho umtshato uphathwe khona, kufuneka ube nococeko kuwe kunye nesiqingatha sakho.
5. Yaye ixabisa kangakanani?
Qinisekisa ukuba ungayisebenzisa kangakanani ukubhiyozela. Khumbula ukuba kufuneka uhlale kwi-honeymoon. Ngaba ufuna umtshato ukuba ube nomona kwabanye okanye umthendeleko othobekileyo kuphela wena owamthandayo kwisangqa esiseduze? Kodwa kukho iindleko, ngaphandle kokungekho ndlela yokubamba umtshato.
6. Yiyiphi indlela yokubonakala emtshatweni?
Akungabazeki ukuba umtshakazi-u-Queen of the Wedding, ukuzikhwaza ngokwakhe zonke iimbono, zonke iinkcukacha zomfanekiso wakhe kufuneka zingenasiphelo, kunye nomtshakazi ngokwakhe-ukubonakalisa ukufezeka. Ngaba sele umele umfanekiso wakho ocolileyo? Ingubo yomtshato, ongayi kuyifumana into efanelekileyo kwihlabathi lonke? Isimbali esihle. Iimpepha ezintle. Yaye umyeni, ukuze bonke abahlobo bafe ngenxa yomona. Kodwa musa ukulibala ukuba umyeni makafanele akhangele ngokuvisisana nomtshakazi. Ukuba kukho ukungathandabuzeki ekukhetheni umfanekiso, ke ixesha lokuvula ikhathalogu yomtshato kwaye ukhethe oko uthandayo. Uyakwazi ukubonisana nomgcini we-stylist.
7. Emva kokucinga ngazo zonke ezibhalwe apha ngentla, zivandlakome amandla akho, ngaba uya kuba nezakhono zokwenza umbutho. Ukongeza kwinto yokuba umtshato udinga ukulungiswa, ulungelelaniswe, kusadingeka ukuba ubanjwe. Umtshakazi nomyeni kufuneka banandiphe umthendeleko, kwaye ningakhathazeki malunga nokuba umtshato ulungele ukufika. Mhlawumbi ndingamema umphathi womtshato?
Ngentliziyo yethu sonke sinqwenela ukuba ubhekane nayo yonke into evuyisayo! Ngoku ke bonke oomatshato belizwe lethu bayazi indlela yokulungiselela umtshato!