Okokuqala, sigqibo malunga nefomati yomtshato, ekubeni kuvela kule nto ukuba ezinye izigqibo ziya kuxhomekeka.
Ukuba awufuni ukuhamba kude nomkhosi weklasi kwaye ufuna ukushiya isidlo, umphathi wesigqeba kunye nokunye, ngoko ke kufuneka ubeke ingqalelo kwindawo yokubhiyozela. Iingcamango ezinomdla zomtshato zingafumaneka ngexesha lomkhosi wokuphuma. Ngokuqhelekileyo kuwo wonke umzi ungayifumana, ukuba awuyiyo ibhanki yomlambo, i-gazebo enobuhle okanye ipaki apho unokukwazi ukubeka khona i-arch abantu abasandul 'ukutshata, izihlalo zeendwendwe kunye netafile. Kule nguqulelo, uya kukhunjulwa yiindwendwe, njengabantu abatsha abaqhelekileyo abangaqhelekanga kwimikhwa yaseYurophu, kodwa yonke into iya kwenza ngaphandle kweenkcukacha ezothusayo.
Ngomtshato onjalo, imincintiswano ye-banal iya kuba yinto engafanelekanga, kodwa yimisebenzi yokuqala kunye neprogram yokubonisa. Myalelo indawo yesikhokelo seKVN ehamba phambili, ubuncinane kuya kuba mnandi ngakumbi kunomdlali oqhelekileyo we-toastmaster. Yena, ngendlela unokukhokelela umcimbi, ngokuba ukubhaliswa komtshato ngokusemthethweni kuyo nayiphi na imeko kuya kubanjelwa kwi-ofisi yeRejista.
Yakha indawo yomcimbi kwiitoni ezithile, ukuba ufuna, cinga nge-dress code yeendwendwe. Umyalelo uphila umculo kwaye uzive njenge heroine yefilimu yangaphandle. Ukuphela kusihlwa akusiyo imilenze evamile, kodwa umboniso womlilo! Emva kokuchitha imali efanayo, wena kunye neendwendwe zakho ziya kufumana izinto ezininzi. Ukuba umthendeleko ulibazisekile, kwaye sele usufuna ukushiya isidlo, yenza okokuthutha okungavamile: ukuthutha, ukuba usemhlabeni, kwaye xa uselunxwemeni, uThixo ngokwakhe wayala ukuba uhambe ngomkhumbi kwi-yacht, kamva wharfing kwenye yehotele ethile.
Ukuba umthendeleko wakho usenzeka kwimiqathango yemihla ngemihla, qaphela kwangaphambili malunga neendawo ezithandekayo zezithombe kunye nokudutshulwa kwevidiyo. Xoxa nomfaki-zithombe malunga nomzila wakho, thabatha nawe izinto ezininzi ezahlukeneyo: i-ambulera, iibhotile, i-lollipops, ibhaskithi yeziqhamo, amathoyizi. Hlela ukudubula kwi-karting, bowling, kwisikhephe okanye nayiphi na indawo yokutyela okanye iqela elingaphakathi. Zama ukugxininisa imo yomtshato womhla, ukuze ujabulele imifanekiso xa ubonwa kwiminyaka embalwa.
Umtshato wokuqala oya kuwufumana, ukuba uyakwenza kwisitayela esithile. Akuyinto engacacanga kakhulu ngoku umtshato wesitayela. Okanye imibhiyozo yama-80. Kule meko, kufuneka ucinge ngazo zonke iinkcukacha. Akunjalo nje kwabasanda kutshata. Ngomnye umzekelo, yonke into esuka kwenzelwe ukuya kwindawo yokudla, i-cortege kunye nomculo kufuneka zigcinwe. Ukuba ulungele ukusebenza ngexesha lokulungiselela nokukhusela iingcamango zakho phambi kwesizukulwana esibi - yiya kuyo! Jonga amabhayisikobho, umboniso walezo zihlandlo, xubusha nomculi wakho wokuzenzela, umcebisi wakho umfanekiso. Ukuba awunakulungele ukwenza amanyathelo athathekayo, thola iingubo ezimfutshane, kungekhona imbala eqaqambileyo. Ngoku i-salon yomtshato inikezela ezininzi iindlela onokuzenza ngaphandle kweenkonzo zokugcoba.
Unesibindi sinikeza imibono yangaphambili yokubamba imitshato. Nasi iqalo lokuqala linokusebenza njengezinto ezithandwayo. Mhlawumbi uhamba ngeebhayisikili okanye unqwenela ukuphinda uphinde uvuselele iikhenketho zamagqabi. Ngokuqinisekileyo wena kunye nabahlobo besangqa esinye sinokukunceda ekuhleleni ubungqina obungavamile. Kule meko, kuya kuba kubalulekile kuwe ukuba uqaphele kuzo zonke iinkcukacha, ukuze umtshato uqhathanise nesihloko esinikeziwe. Oko kukuthi, khangela iitshikhi, abaqeqeshi okanye i-vice versa, iibhatyi zesikhumba kunye nento yonke kuloo moya. Ungakulibala ukuxelela abazali bakho ngeenjongo zakho, yenza iimemo, ezicacisa ifomathi yomtshato wakho.
Kwabo bathanda imbali yelizwe elithile, kodwa imali ayikuvumeli ukuba ugubha umtshato apho, ngoko kukho iingcamango ezimbalwa. Ngoku akukho nto ingxaki yokufumana i-saris kubathandi beIndiya okanye izambatho zesizwe zaseSpain, eArgentina, eMzantsi Afrika. Konke kuxhomekeke ekukulungeleni kwakho iimvavanyo. Kwaye mhlawumbi ufuna ukudlala umtshato, ngokwezithethe zelizwe lethu, ngoko yonke into iya kuba lula. Kwaye ama-assembles okukhethayo kunye neholo angabonakala afanelekileyo kwaye iindwendwe zokugqoka zonke aziyi kuba yingxaki.
Ngezantsi, siza kunika iingcamango zangaphambili kulabo abakulungele ukuqhuba umtshato kuphela komnye nomnye. Ngoko ke, okokuqala, masixelele ukuba umtshato ogqityiweyo phesheya awuyi kuba namandla kumthetho kwilizwe lakho, ngoko ke kufuneka ubeke izitampu apha, kwaye ke apho umphefumlo ufuna ukubhabha.
Ukuba uthanda i-exotics, ngoko uyindlela ehambileyo, okanye kunokuba isiteji sezindiza, ukuya kwi-Maldives, Bali, Thailand, kwaye ngoko uluhlu. Ngaphambi kwexesha, fundela malunga nokubamba umcimbi womtshato, malunga nobukho beefotshane (ngaphandle kokuba uthathe isigqibo sokuzithatha, uqinisekiswe) kunye nethuba lokuzilungiselela wena kunye nomthandayo wakho ngokubhiyozela. KwiRiphabhlikhi yaseCzech naseJamani, unokuya kwiholide elungiselelwe ngaphambili kwabasandul 'ukutshata. Ungakhohlwa ukuba kukho amaKatolika amaninzi kunamaOthodox.
Musa ukulibala ukuba xa usenza isigqibo ngolu hlobo lomtshato, unokuhlangabezana nokungaqondakali kunye nokugwetywa kwezihlobo eziye zaphupha ukudanisa edilini lakho. Kule meko, kubalulekile ukuma kwedwa, kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu, ukuba lo mnqweno wawunobunye kwaye awuzange ube nokuxabana neqabane lakho elizayo malunga nalo. Yaye ukuba yonke into iphendukile apha, yikhuseleke ngokukhuselekileyo eluhambeni ukuze uhlangabezane namaphupha akho kunye nemitshato ngaphandle.
Musa ukuzikhanyela ukuvuyela umtshato ngendlela ofunayo. Emva koko, lo mbhiyozo kwenzeka kanye kanye ngexesha lobomi (ngokuqinisekileyo, kunjalo)! Sithemba ukuba iingcamango zethu zangaphambili zomtshato zenza ukuba ucinge ngomxholo wovuyo lwakho nosuku. Iholide ekulungele ukulungelelanisa iza kukunika iimvakalelo ezintle.