Ngoko, izinto ezi-3 ezifunekayo umntu wokwenene. Ngaphambili, indoda yayidinga ukwakha indlu. Kuthetha ntoni oku? Enyanisweni, indlu, yakuba yithuba lokuzikhusela kubanda kunye nokuhlaselwa kweentshaba. Emva koko, indlu ingabizwa ngokuba yinqaba, iqinisekiswe kwaye ikhuselwe kuzo zonke iintshaba zangaphandle. Enyanisweni, indlu eqinile nefanelekileyo ngaphambili, yayivuyiswa kakhulu, kuba, eyona ethembekileyo indlu yayingabantu, abaninzi abantu bakwazi ukuzisindisa kwiintlekele zeemeko ezahlukeneyo kunye nokuzikhusela kwiinqwelo ezimbi. Ukongezelela, akuyena wonke umntu onokukwazi ukwakha indlu yokuhlala yangempela, kwaye ayikho inqanawa eya kuvela kumoya omncinci womoya. Yingakho, amadoda ahlala ezama ukuzakhela indlu yangempela ukuze athole umtshakazi omhle. Emva koko, ngamaxesha onke, abazali bazama ukutshata nentombi yabo kwindoda ethembekileyo. Indlu enamandla yayingububungqina bokuqala bokuthembeka kwayo. Oku kwakuthetha ukuba le ndoda yakwazi ukuzimela ngokuzimeleyo imali kunye nokwakha ngokwakho ikhaya, eliye labonisa ukuba namandla akhe.
Yiyiphi indlu enamandla neyomeleleyo ekuthethwa ngayo kwihlabathi lanamhlanje. Ewe, mhlawumbi, ukuba le ndoda inamathuba emali okuyifumana okanye yokuqesha abasebenzi ngokwakhiwa. Ngoku bambalwa abantu baya kwakha indlu ngezandla zabo. Kwaye, ukuba oko kwenzeka, kusenokwenzeka ukuba umntu akanakho imali eyaneleyo yokuhlawula umqeqeshi wezakhono zabakhi. Ukulungiswa kwendlu ngesandla sakhe kuya kuthatha ngaphezu konyaka omnye, ngoko ke, kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, indoda ayifanelekanga ukwakha indlu, kodwa uthenge ikhaya elibonakalayo. Oku, akunjalo, kufuneka ibe yindlu okanye indlu. Kwakhona, njenge "ikhaya" ingaba yindlu ehlekileyo kwindawo efanelekileyo yeso sixeko. Mhlawumbi, ingcamango yendlu, enyanisweni, ayengatshintshi kakhulu kwixesha elidlulileyo. Abazali bomtshakazi basalokhu baxhala malunga nendawo yokuhlala yomyeni kamva. Kuphela ngoku abanenkxalabo ngeengxowankulu zentsholongwane kunye nobusika obubandayo, kodwa amathuba okuhlala kwelinye igumbi kunye nabantu abaselula, okuqinisekileyo, akunakwenzeka, okanye ukuba kungenzeka ukurenta indlu engayi kuba yindleko kakhulu, eya kuba nefuthe kwikamva-mali yeentsapho zabo kwintombi . Ngoko, sinokugqiba ukuba into yokuqala umntu okwangoku kufuneka enze ngayo indawo yokuhlala. Kwaye makube sisipho, ilifa okanye indlu ezuzwe ngokunyanisekileyo, into eyona nto kukuba umfana wayenendawo yokuhlala nomfazi wakhe wesikhathi esizayo.
Okwesibini ukutyala umthi. Yintoni eyayithetha ngalo ngethuba elinye? Inkuni, oku, okokuqala, kuzala. Kwaye ukuba kukho isivuno, ngokobusika intsapho ayiyi kulamba. Emva koko, phantsi kokutsalwa komthi, bathetha ukuba le nsizwa inomhlaba onokuyenza kwaye inokukhula isonka, imifuno neziqhamo. Akukho mfihlelo yokuba ezolimo ngaphambili kwakungenye yezithuba eziphambili. Ukuba umntu wayengumlimi olungileyo, wayenokutya endlwini, ngaphandle koko, iimveliso ezininzi zithengiswa. Imali loo mntu wayenayo ithuba lokuthenga iimpahla, izitsha zendlu kunye nemithi yokubusika, ukuze kungabi kubanda kwindawo ebandayo.
Emva koko kuvela ukuba umntu wanamhlanje, ukutyala umthi kuthetha ukufumana umsebenzi omhle. Ngoku, xa ungathenga phantse yonke into, imali eyona nto yayingeyona isonka, kodwa imali. Kwaye iimfuno zabantu banamhlanje zingumyalelo ophezulu kunabo bookhokho babo. Ngako oko, ukuze uphile kakuhle kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, kubalulekile ukuba ube nemali eyaneleyo, eyaziwayo, izisa umsebenzi ohlawula phezulu. Yingakho, namhlanje abafana akufanele bafunde indlela yokuphatha umhlaba wabo kakuhle. Kufuneka babe neengqondo eziphezulu kwaye bafumane imfundo ephakamileyo kwiyunivesithi, apho unokufumana umsebenzi ofanelekileyo. Kwakhona, ukwenzela ukuba ube nemali ephezulu. Kubalulekile ukuba ube nesibindi kwaye ube nesibindi, ukwazi ukufumana izisombululo ezingaqhelekanga uze ungayeki. Ngoko, ngandlela-thile, amadoda anamhlanje athola nzima kunzima ukuzalisekisa umgaqo wesibili.
Kwaye okwesithathu kukuvelisa unyana. Mhlawumbi, le nto yodwa engayi kuze itshintshe. Wonke umntu ufuna ukuqhuba intsapho yakhe, ukuba abone abantwana bakhe iimpawu ezibalaseleyo azibeka kuzo ukususela ebusaneni. Ngokuqinisekileyo, amaxesha atshintsho, kwaye iindlela zokukhulisana nazo ziyahlukahlukileyo, kodwa, nangona kunjalo, kukho enye into eseleyo-ukukhula ilungu elifanelekileyo kuluntu kumntwana. Yiloo nto yonke indoda yangempela izama ukwenza. Akasoze ayeka inzala yakhe kwaye akayi kuzama ukuphuma kwimimiselo. Indoda yokwenene kunye noyise oyinyani baya kufundisa umntwana kwaye angalokothi athi akanalo ixesha. Amadoda anjalo ahlala akwazi ukwakha izindlu kwaye akhule imithi, kodwa, ngelo xesha, abantwana babo abazange bahlale bengekho semfundo yabantu. Imfundo yala madoda iyanqinela kwaye iyabulungisa, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo bayayithanda kakhulu abantwana babo. Ngenxa yomntwana, laba bafana bakha ikhaya elifudumele kwaye lihle kwaye liphakamisa umthi omude kakhulu. Benza konke abakwaziyo baze bazame ukwenza okungekho nto.
Ngoko, izinto ezi-3 ukuba umntu okwenene kwihlabathi lanamhlanje kufuneka ayenze ukufumana indawo efanelekileyo yokuhlala, abe nomsebenzi ohlawulelwayo kwaye enze konke ukuze abantwana bakhe bangadingi uthando, ukunakekelwa kunye nokukhuliswa kakuhle. Ukuba umntu uyakwazi ukufezekisa oku, unokuziqonda ngokupheleleyo ebomini. Kodwa, enyanisweni, akulula ukuzalisekisa le mithetho emithathu. Kuthatha umzamo omkhulu. Ngoko, akumangalisi ukuba bonke abantu bafezekisile iziphumo ezinjalo, kwaye ngenxa yoko, ukuziqonda. Kodwa ukuba iqabane lakho likhaya elihle okanye igumbi, umsebenzi ongamniki nje imali engenayo kuphela kodwa uyayivuyisa, kwaye ngaphandle koko, uyabathanda abantwana kwaye ulungele ukutshala imali kuwo wonke umphefumlo kunye nazo zonke iimali - indoda efanelwe nguwe.