1) Ifowuni.
Ifowuni, fowunela uze ubize kwakhona! Amadoda ngesizathu esithile aziboni ukuba kuyimfuneko ukuzikhumbuza ngokwabo kwikhezu phakathi kwemihla, kwaye akukho nto. Ngokuqinisekileyo, akufanele ubize amantombazana ukususela ekuseni kuze kube sebusuku uze umqhekeze emsebenzini, kodwa ubuncinane kanye ngemini unokufumana ixesha lokubuza malunga nokuphila kwakhe. Uze ungalibali ngeesms! Abasetyhini banokuzithemba ngakumbi ngemilayezo yothando, ngoko banokungena ngokukhawuleza.
2) Ukwabelana ngesondo.
Kule nto, kunika ilungelo lokukhetha intombazana. Abaninzi bayesaba imihla yokuqala, kuba kungekhona onke amantombazana ayathanda ukuthandana ngokukhawuleza, kodwa kungekhona wonke umntu onokuyinqaba ngokukhawuleza. Ngoko ungayifaki intombazana kwisimo esihlazo kumhla wokuqala, makakhe akhethe ixesha apho ubuhlobo obusondeleyo buya kulungile.
3) Imali.
Kubalulekile ukuphepha ukugqithisa. Usoloso olufanayo lubonakala luyindoda egubungela yonke ipenki, kunye nalabo abangacingi imali. Ngoko ke, mema intombi yentliziyo kwi-cinema, kwindawo yokutyela, ukuya kwimiboniso okanye kwiikonkethi, unike iintyatyambo, iipekese kunye ncinane, kungekhona, kodwa ezintle izinto ezintle. Kubaluleke kakhulu-ukunika izipho ezinokuthi zenze ukuba intombazana iziva ibophekile. Ukuba uqala ukubala intliziyo yowesifazane ekubaleni uza kuqala ukucela into ebhinqa izinto ezixabisekileyo, ngoko, mhlawumbi, uya kufumana ukukhanyela ngokukhawuleza okanye uya kufumana intombazana engayithandi nto kodwa izipho kuwe.
4) Ingxoxo.
Abafazi bathanda ngeendlebe zabo-bathetha njalo. Amadoda amaninzi ayinakuyinyamekela eli binzana, kodwa alahlekelwe kakhulu. Abasetyhini zibalulekile iingxoxo ezingenangqiqo, le yindlela esheshayo yokubeka indlela entliziyweni yowesifazane. Kodwa apha kukho ezinye iziqheno. Kwiintetho, musa ukutyhila umfazi lowo, ungamxeleli ezo nkomazo ezicacileyo. Gxi ninisa kwizinto ezifanelekileyo. Xa uzama ukufezekisa ukuzithemba okungenamthetho, ungabi ngongqongqo kwaye uthethe. Xelela inyaniso malunga nawe kwaye uxelele izinto ezininzi, kodwa ungazibongi ngezinto ezinokubonakala ngathi ziintsizana. Ukongezelela, musa ukuthuthuzela intombazana enemibuzo engambeka kwindawo engathandekiyo. Kuze kubekho ukushiya isihloko sabantu abasakuba ngabafana kunye nezihloko ezifanayo. Ezi ngxoxo azikho umhla wokuqala.
5) Abahlobo.
Ukwazi abahlobo bomnye nomnye kubalulekileyo kwisigaba. Bobabini abesilisa nabesifazane bahlala bexhalabile, bafuna ukuthanda ummandla wabo othandekayo, kodwa banenkxalabo yokuba into iya kuhamba. Ngoko musa ukukhawuleza. Qinisekisa ukuba udinga omnye nomnye ngaphambi kokuba unqume ukukholisa abanye. Abahlobo baya kuhlolisisa wena kunye nolwalamano lwakho, ngoko ke ukuba akukho nto ebalulekileyo phakathi kwakho, ngoko akufanele ujwayelane nabahlobo bomnye nomnye.
6) Izihlobo.
Amantombazana ephupha ngokumazi abazali babo - kokubili kuye nakubonkcenkcesha. Kodwa abaphupha kuphela xa beqinisekile zabo kunye neemvakalelo zakho. Ngoko ke, ungagxininisi ekudibaneni nabazali kwiintlanganiso zokuqala. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba udibana nexesha elide kwaye uthembele komnye nomnye, musa ukulibala ukumazi nabazali bakhe uze uvelise intombazana kwintsapho yakho.
Umntu ngamnye ufuna uthando olukhulu, kodwa kukho iimbali ezininzi ezinxulumene nolwalamano oluye lwafumana amadoda ukuba adideke kwiindibano kunye nemithetho engabhaliweyo yokunxibelelana namantombazana. Mhlawumbi umgaqo obalulekileyo kunye nokuphumelela ukuphumelela kukuba ube ngowakho kwaye ube nokunyaniseka kwimvakalelo yakho. Esi siqinisekiso sokuthi emva kwakho kuza kuba yintombazana enokusenza ujabule.