Ukuziphatha okufanelekileyo kunye nokuziphatha ngokufanelekileyo kuluntu kukubonakaliswa okuphambili kwindlela okhulisayo ngayo, imfundo kunye nesimo sangaphakathi. Ukujonga indlela oziphatha ngayo, ukwazi ukuziphatha, ngokuzithoba ukuqhuba nokubonisa ngokufanelekileyo, nayiphi na umntu uya kuba nomoya oncomekayo kuwe. Kodwa, ngelishwa, abaninzi abazi ukuba benze ntoni kuluntu kwaye bahlala belahlekile kwiintetho okanye ngakumbi, baqale ukwenza ngokungafanelekanga ngexesha elifanayo. Ukuthintela ezo mpazamo kwixesha elizayo, kufuneka ukwazi kwaye unamathele kwimigaqo ebalulekileyo ye-etiquette.
Into yokuqala engayi kuba yingozi ukuba ifunde, ingakumbi abantu baseRashiya - kukunyamekela ngokucophelela abantu abazungezile kwaye baqwalaselwe le ngcamango, ngaphandle koko uya kufaka inhlazo yonke, kwaye okokuqala uziphendulele. Ukuba uthetha yonke into efika engqondweni yakho - uya kukhwela umntu ongeyingozi, umntu ongeyimbi kwaye awuyi kuyeka. Kulo lonke uluntu kufuneka uhlale ukhululekile, kwaye oku kufuneka ube nophuhliso olubanzi (ukwenzela ukuba ube nophuhliso olufanayo, kufuneka uxoxe ngokubanzi, ufunde, u tyelele iiferensi, ubukele iifilimu ezinokwenziwa kwengqondo, njl.) Kuya kukunceda uhlale uphezulu kunoma yimuphi umzekelo, umzekelo, fumana umdla nesihloko kwintetho, ncedisa incoko kwaye uphendule ngokufanelekileyo nayiphi na imibuzo.
Abantu abaninzi banomkhuba wokukhumbula iimpazamo zabanye okanye ukuqalekisa abo abanesizathu esithile (ngokuphindaphindiweyo imbangela yesono esiqhelekileyo) akubi. Kwaye kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba iingxoxo ezinjalo naluphi na uhlobo alukwazi ukuxhaswa, nokuba ngaba isihloko oxoxa ngazo sinjalo neravitsya. Naluphi na incoko yakho kunye nokuhleba kungathatyathwa ngokukhawuleza kumntu wesithathu ngumntu, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kwindlela ephosakeleyo nangomqondo ohlukileyo. Kodwa akwanele ukuyeka ukuqalekiswa ngenxa yokwesaba ukuba onke amahemuhemu aya kufumana umntu oxoxwe ngawo. Kubalulekile ukuqonda kwaye uqaphele ukuba ukuhleba kukuthetha. Yaye ungayi kulelo nqanaba.
Kuyo nayiphi na indawo abayithandayo abantu "abakukhanya" nabonwabileyo, ngoko ke, ukuba nithanda ukuhlekisa, zama ukukwenza ngendlela enjalo ukuze ungaziqhenyisi ngokuzithemba kunye neemvakalelo (ungahleki usulu abantu abaqingqiweyo okanye abacebileyo, musa ukugculela amagama, amagama egama, njl).
Kwintetho, ungalokothi uphazamise umnxibelelwano, okokuqala mvumele uqedele ingcamango yakhe, phulaphula ilizwi lakhe kuze kube sekupheleni uze ucele imibuzo okanye into ekuphenduleni. Kodwa ukuba kwenzeka ukuba bakuphazamise ngenxa yesizathu esilungileyo, musa ukukhawuleza ukumemeza nokuphendula, uphulaphule ngokwaneleyo nangokuzithoba ukugxeka kunye nokuchasa, ukwazi ukuba uhamba nencoko kunye nomntu onobomi. Kwakhona, xa uzama ukuthetha, zama ukubiza abo abangenanto "yena" okanye "yena", babize ngamagama abo. Ukunxibelelana kuseloko kuthatha ingqalelo kwixesha, isikhundla, iminqweno, imigaqo yokuphila kunye nomlinganiso womnxibelelwano. Kuwo nawuphi na umntu, kufuneka ahlale ephathwa ngokuhlonipha nokuqwalaselwa.
Umntu onobubele akanakuze alibale ukuba ngowokuqala ukuthetha, ukuhambela nayiphi na isicelo ngegama elithi "nceda", "yiba mnandi", njl njl., Mbulela ngenkonzo okanye uxolo ngenxa yokuphazamiseka komntu.
I-tactical (ingqiqo yenani) iyingqungquthela kumntu oqeqeshwe, ofundisiweyo nofundisweyo. Ukukwazi ukufumana ifom yokunxibelelana phakathi kwabantu bomhlaba, ukuziva iimvakalelo zabo kunye nokubalinganisa nabo, ngokuqwalasela iimpawu zabalinganiswa babo.
Ikhono lokuziphatha kungekuphela kwenkampani, kodwa kwiindawo zikawonkewonke alikho uphawu olubalulekiyo lwenqanaba lakho lokukhulisa, ukuphuhlisa kunye nenkcubeko.
Ukuba unqwenela ukuya kwidlaterha, kufuneka ufunde imigaqo embalwa yendlela yokuziphatha. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukubonakala: abafazi banconywa ukuba banxibe ingubo yokuhlwa (kuba amadoda - i-tailcoat okanye i-tuxedo), kunye neengubo ezingenanto okanye eziqhelekileyo kulo mdlalo ziza kudlala kunye nawe (oku kukuphawu lokutya okubi). Ebusika, kucetyiswa ukuba eze nezicathulo ezithatha indawo. Izicathulo zokutshintsha zifakwe kwi-wardrobe kunye neengubo zangaphandle. Intloko ikhutshwe ngonaphakade, kunye neenwele zentloko kunye neqhumiso elithozamisayo. Kuyinto yokungahloneli ukuba kufike emva kokusebenza. Umntu wokuqala ukungena ehholo uhlala ekhona indoda, ebonisa ithikithi. UWade waya kwindawo yakhe kufuneka ahlangane nokuhlala ecaleni komgca. Ukuba uhleli phantsi, ke ume uze unike ummelwane ngokulandelana. Kule midlalo, awukwazi ukuba nomsindo kwaye kufuneka ucime zonke iifowuni zefowuni. Ukuthetha, yenza isandi, i-rustle, idle ngethuba lokusebenza ayikho into enokwenzeka (kuba kukho le-buffet kunye nokungena). Kuqhelekileyo ukubonisa ukunqabisa (ngaphandle kokumema umkhwelo nokulinda) kwixesha elithile, ngokuqhelekileyo emva kokuphela kwesenzo ngasinye (okanye ekupheleni kweempawu eziyimpumelelo) kwaye ekupheleni komdlalo wonke.
Ukuba uhamba ngesitalato okanye uhamba kwindawo ethile kwi-shishini, gcina imithetho yeendlela zokuhamba, kuba oku akukona nje uphawu lobeko, kodwa luyimfuneko. Endleleni, kuqhelekileyo ukuba uhambe ngakwesokudla, ngaphandle kokugxotha indlela (ukuba akukho ndlela yendlela, kufuneka uhambe uye kwindlela). Ukuwela isitalato, ukuqaphela umntu osekhulile okanye ongavumelekanga, mnike uncedo lwakhe. Akulungile ukuvuthela impumlo ngokukhawuleza kwisitrato, sneeze, ukhethe ekhaleni lakho, i-yawn. Ungalokothi ulahle udoti endleleni okanye ematyekeni, kuba oku kukho urns ekhethekileyo.
Ngaphambi kokuba ungene kwikhemisi okanye kwisitoreji, kuqala udlule kulo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukukwazi oku kubantu belizwe lethu, kuba lo mgaqo uphulwa imihla ngemihla. Ukuba uyaphawula ukuba emva komntu osekhulile, umfazi okhulelweyo okanye umntu okhubazekile, yehla phambili. Ukuthabatha izilwanyana nabo akucebisi. I-cigarette okanye i-frozen egciniweyo ayifakanga.
Ukuba usebenzisa izithuthi zikawonkewonke, zama ukulandela imithetho elandelayo yokuziphatha. Kwangena emnyango webhasi (i-metro, i-trolley, i-tram, njl. Njl.) Ekuphenduleni kokuqala, unike ithuba lokushiya abanye abagibeli. Awukwazi ukuhlala emnyango (kuyacetyiswa ukuba uye kwi-salon). Ngamaxesha onke kufuneka ukunikezela kubantu abadala, abafazi abakhulelweyo, omama abancinci kunye nabantu abakhubazekileyo. Impawu yemikhwa emibi kunye nokungahloneli kakuhle kukuthetha kunye nokuhleka kwezithuthi zikawonkewonke.
Ukuba uyamenywa ukutyelela, akukhuthazwa ukuba ufikelele. Ukuba kusenako ukufika ngexesha, qiniseka ukuba unumkise abanini malunga nalo. Akulungele ukuqwalasela ngokucophelela ifenitshala yefenitshala kunye nezinye iimpawu zengaphakathi, kunye nokubuza imibuzo malunga nexabiso labo, ngaphandle koko, uya kubonisa ukungazi kwakho.