Ukufundisa ukuhanjiswa kwamadoda

Ekugqibeleni iphupha lizaliseke! Udibana nendoda yamaphupha akho! Uye waba kunye ixesha elide, udlula ixesha le-bouquet-candy, wafunda ngakumbi ngcono, wachitha ezininzi iintsuku kunye neentsuku ezingazilibaleki kunye kunye, kwaye ekugqibeleni, wanquma ukuhlala kunye! Indoda yavela endlwini yakho. Yintoni enokuyenza ngayo ngoku, indlela yokusingatha, indlela yokutya kunye nendlela yokufundisa umntu omdala kunye nendoda esele yenzeke? Indlela yokudala ubudlelwane obudibeneyo nobumnandi?

Kungenzeka ukuba ekuqaleni uza kuziva utyhafile, uxhalaba, ukudideka. Ngokukodwa ukuba eli lizwi lakho lokuqala. Musa ukwesaba. Akayi kuba nexhala xa uya emsebenzini okanye unqume ukudibana nentombazana, uye kumama wakho okanye u tyelele i-salon enobuhle. Udla okufanayo nawe, kuphela kabini kwimiba emibini kwaye yonke into kufuneka ifakwe ngokugqithiseleyo nge-mayonnaise. Kodwa ukufundisa nokuqeqesha umhlali omtsha wekhaya lakho kulungele, ngaphandle koko, ubeka ingozi ekulahlekeni kwakho kwindlu, kwaye indlu yakho iya kuba ngumfokazi.

Kwimfundo yendoda kukho ubuqili obuninzi, okubalulekileyo ukuba kukwenze ukuze okhethiweyo wakho angabikho ebomini bakhe uye wacinga ukuba uqeqeshiwe. Eminye imicimbi yetheknoloji, elowo uya kulwa ngokuqinisekileyo!

Ekuqaleni, xa umntu ehambele kuwe, kukufanelekile ukumnakekela kwaye ukhathalele ukwenza ukuba azive ekhaya, ukuba ukhululekile apha, ukuba uhlala emkelekile, uhlala emkelekile. Banike iishalafu kwimeko, indawo yeencwadi zayo, iidiski, indawo kwindawo yokuhlambela kwiinkonzo zayo. Mbonise ukuba ngoku umnikazi ogcweleyo weli gumbi, njengawe. Phakamisa isidlo sakhe esidliwayo, uthethe ukunyamekela, ungenzi i-scandals kunye neengqungquthela, indoda ingesaba kwaye ibaleke. Into ephambili kukuba, ekuqaleni uvumele ukuba isikhulu samaphupha akho siqonde ukuba uhlonipha indawo yakhe, unendawo yakhe ekhululekile kwaye efanelekileyo yokufunda, ukusebenzela kwikhompyutha, ukubukela iTV. Ndivumele ukuba ndizise abahlobo, kunye nemeko yokuba indoda yakho iya kucoca yonke into kwaye iholele indlu ukuba ibukeka ngayo yangaphambili ngaphambi kokufika kwakhe kokuhlekisa okanye kungekhona nabahlobo.

Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka uxoxe ngokukhawuleza ngalezo zihlandlo onokuthanda ukuziphepha. Umzekelo, awuyithandi xa utshaya egumbini nasekliniki, vumela othandayo ukuba aphume kwi-balcony okanye kwizitepsi, okanye aze alahle le nkunkuma. Ukuba awuyithandi indlela ayicacisa ngayo unobumba kwi-tube okanye i-gel ephuma kwibhotile kwi-gel yehafile, fumana iikopi ezimbini. Omnye ngowakho, omnye kuye. Ngoko unako ukuphepha iingxabano kunye nokucaphukisa kusasa xa ubona ityhubhu engabhalwanga. Fundisa umntu ukuba abeke iimpahla zokuhlamba ezingcolileyo kwindawo yokuhlamba impahla, eyokuhlambela. Awunayo ukucinga yonke indawo yeesokisi zakhe, amabhulukwe kunye nee-T-shirts ezingcolileyo. Vumelani ukuba ukuba uhleli elaleni lokulala, uya kuthatha iziqhekeza, iintambo zebhiya kunye neengxowa ezingenanto ezivela phantsi kweepips. Mamela ngokucophelela kunye neemfuno zakhe ngendlela ohlala ngayo. Ingxoxo kaFrank ncokolayo ekuqaleni kokubomi kunye iya kuphepha iingxaki ezininzi kwixesha elizayo, ukungaqondani kunye neentlanzi.

Ukuba umntu wakho uza kuzisa abahlobo bakhe okanye abaziyo kwihostela yakho, vumelana naye ukuba uya kukuxelela ukuze ungayifumani imeko ephosakeleyo okanye ehlekisayo xa ubuyela ekhaya uze ubeke unyawo lwakho emnyango ukuze uhende umthandi wakho , kwaye kulo mzuzwana ngaphesheya komnyango kwinqanawa lakho elingenalutho ukhangelelanisa amabini amabini anamehlo angamadoda. Inzondelelo kubahlobo kumntu wakho, ngokuqinisekileyo, uyaqinisekiswa, kodwa kungekhona into yokuba uya kuthanda ukuba umfazi wakhe ubhekelwe ngabanye, ingakumbi, kumcaphukisa. Amadoda ngobubele banomona kakhulu kwaye abawunyamezeli ukudlala ngothando namanye amadoda, ngakumbi nabahlobo babo.

Ukuba ulwalamano oluhle kunye nabamelwane okanye egcekeni inkampani ethile iyenzile, "inja-abazalisi" ohlangana nabo ubusuku bonke kwaye uhamba kunye nesilwanyana sakho, qi niseka ukuba ungenisa indoda kunye nabaqhelana nabo endlwini kunye nokuzilibazisa ukuzalisa inja. Okokuqala, indoda iya kuvuyisa ukuba uyaziqhayisa ngaye kwaye uyayiqhelana nabo bonke abahlobo bakho. Okwesibini, ukuhamba ngesilwanyana kwedwa kuyimarha, umthandayo uya kuba mnandi ukwenza oko kwinkampani yabantu esele baqhelene naye. Into yodwa, cingisisa ngaphambi kokumisa umhlobo wakho kumntu wonke. Khumbula, umntu unokukucaphukisa kwaye akuxelele "ibali elincinci" kwixesha lakho elidlulileyo, elingayi kukukholisa elikhethiweyo.