Ingxoxo malunga nekhredithi
Ekuqaleni kobudlelwane, xa iindleko kunye nokuhlala uhlala ngokwahlukileyo, ukuxubusha imiba yabo yemali nentliziyo yintombi kwindoda ayifani. Ukuba sele sele esoloko engena kwiingxoxo kwiingxoxo zeemali, ngoko, kuya kwenzeka ntoni emva koko? Kodwa nangona iingxoxo ezinjalo zingakhathazeki, ezinye iintetho kufuneka zithathwe ngokulumkisa.
Iibhakoni eziyingozi:
- "Bandihlawula kangako. Ndifuna ukukhangela umsebenzi omtsha, kuba andinakukwazi ukufumana nantoni na! "Akusikho isicelo esikhulu" sokukhalaza "njengesicatshulwa esithi:" Andikwazi kwanelisekisa izicelo zam, kwanakho-nangaphezulu. "
- "Ngonyaka odlulileyo ndazuza ... ndihlala kuphela ..., kwaye ndiya kudla kuphela ...". Imbonakalo enjalo yemali ayikho imeko efana ne-snobbery. Ngoko ke, ukunyuka okulandelayo kuya kuba: "Ewe, kunye nentombazana yam kufuneka ifumane ..., gqoka kwi ... ukudibanisa nam!"
- "Eneneni, ndicinga ukuba iintyatyambo ziyinkcitho yemali, kodwa ukuba ufuna ..." Hamba, ungenalo ilungelo lokubuyela! Naluphi na umnqweno owenene uya kubhalwa phantsi kwikholam "ngelixa eliqhelekileyo" kwaye, ngokufanelekileyo, alihoywa.
"Umhlolokazi unqakraza" okanye i-crusts ezintathu zesonka?
Isifundo esahlukileyo somdla osondeleyo wesayensi ngumntu owamemele kwivenkile yokutyela. Okokuqala, phantsi kwegama elithi "yokutya" unokuqonda amaziko ahluke ngokupheleleyo. Njengoko amava adabukisayo abonisa, ngamanye amaxesha eli gama liyazibiza ngokuba nguMcdonald's, kunye ne-smoky eatery ngaphambili. Okwesibini, kubonakala ukuba uyayiphatha njani imenyu kwaye ilawula umyalelo wakho kwaye, ngokufanelekileyo, iindleko zakho.
Iibhakoni eziyingozi:
- "Ngaba uthanda i-ayisikrimu okanye i-strudel?" Kunjalo - awuzange ube nexesha lokuyiqwalasela ngokufanelekileyo, kwaye sele ubeka imida kunye nemida. Isiphetho: nokuba yi-double egoism (akaze acinge ukuba iminqweno yakho ingahluka kwiiplani zakhe), okanye ukunyanzeliswa okuvulekileyo (kwaye ngokukhawuleza uyala i-three-course dinner kunye nokudala umonakalo ongenakulinganiswa kwisikhwama sakhe?).
- "Ndiya kwenza umyalelo!" Nangona ufuna ukuphazamisa ngokuyalela i-foie gras okanye i-shrimp yaseThailand, kusenokuba nethemba: unokungahambisani nokungahambisani nomnye umkhiqizo.
- "Ngaba wonke umntu uyazihlawula?" Asisayi eYurophu, kwaye wabiza kwindawo yokutyela. Ukumema imali yomnye umntu kukufanelekile.
Bala nge-purse
Into eninzi "yemali" kwanoma yimuphi umntu, ngokuqinisekileyo, yakhe isikhwama. Ngaba uya kukwazi ukuthetha ngemikhwa yemali yekhethiweyo? Imali igcinwa kwiipokethi zeebhulukwe, iikhati, iebhatyi. Akunjalo kuba i-wallet yalahleka, kodwa isuka kumgaqo. Qaphela: umoya ophezu kwendoda enjalo uhamba ngaphantsi kweepokotshi zakhe. Udelela imali kwaye uyayisebenzisa ngokulula. Emva koko uhlala ngokukhawuleza kunye netyala. Into ethile kwibango. Umnini wayo uyazi ngokucacileyo i-akhawunti yakhe yemali kwaye ukhetha ukujongana nezikhumbuzo, kwaye kungekhona ngemali. Into enye: iindleko ezenziwe ngamakhadi kunzima ukulawula. Mhlawumbi akayi kuqaphela ukuthengwa kwe-mink coat entsha? Isiqhekeza esivamile esiphambili ngumlingane ozithandayo wabantu abancinci. Kukho phantse i-homo sapiens nganye ephucukileyo. Hayi, akukho nto ekhethekileyo malunga nayo ayikwazi ukucaciswa: isikhwama sinomkhuba ongaphezu komqondiso. Incediso eyintandokazi yamadoda afaneleke kakhulu. "Ndithwala zonke izixhobo zam kwaye ndibabuze ukuba bangaboni apho," kutsho i-borset. Kwaye inkosi yakhe sele iwele phantsi kwefestile kwaye ngokucacileyo ayiyiqondi iingubo zoboya. Okanye imali ayiyikuyikhupha, okanye iyazama ngokuqinisekileyo ukuyiqinisekisa. Ihashe elimnyama. Kungcono uhlale kude.
Ndaza kuni ndibulisa
Ukutyelela kwakhe kukuvavanya ukunyanzela kunye ... nobubele. Khangela kokubili! Ukuziphatha komntu kwintsimi yangaphandle kungaphezulu kokubonisa. Ukungazimeleli kunye nokukwazi ukuziphatha njengendlu ekhaya akubonakali kakuhle nawuphi na umvakalisi. Kodwa ukukhathalela, ukuqonda kunye nokungabikho kwezandla ezingenanto ezingenalutho kunye kunye "kwishishini lakho" lokhethiweyo.
Iibhakoni eziyingozi:
- "Kwasilethela iCoca-Cola ..." Kungakhathaliseki ukuba uvelwano lwakho ngeziphuzo ze-carbonate, imigaqo yentle ngqiqo iyaziwa ngokubanzi: ukuza kusihlwa, kuyafaneleka ukuthatha ubuncinane i-bouquet, kwaye ngendlela efanelekileyo - kunye nebhotile yewayini okanye i-champagne. Kuyathakazelisa, akayizi izinto ezisemgangathweni zokuziphatha okanye ngokuzikhethela kwaye azibonakalisi ngendlela engabonakaliyo? "Kuphela itiye nama-biscuits?" Nditya-ndivela emsebenzini? "Ukuba awuzange umemele ngokukhethekileyo isidlo sakusihlwa, ngoko kufuneka azinake isisu sakhe kwangaphambili kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo angakwenzi amabango kuwe.
- "Hayi, kodwa akukho nto!" Ukhona kuwe? Zingaphi iimitha? "Ungalibali, into yam, ukuba ubuze malunga nezitshixo ezikhuselekileyo, apho imali ikhona ...
Qoqosho lo qoqosho
Akusoloko umnqweno wokusindisa uthi ukuhaha okanye isimo sengqondo esibi. Ukuba umntu akafuni ukuchitha imali yakhe kwiwayini ebiza kakhulu okanye ushizi (nangona unesiqiniseko sokuthi unokukwazi ukuyithenga), oku akusikho umqondiso we-skopidomstva. Mhlawumbi unenkcitho ebalulekileyo?
Iibhakoni eziyingozi:
- "Ndiyithobekile ekudleni, yikho ndiza kuneliseka ngamadaka." Hayi, abayikukufanisa kunye nesistim sokutya. Siyathemba ukuba akaphikisi ukuba "iingxaki zakho"?
- "Umama ukholelwa ukuba kulungile ukuthenga isepha entsha kunexesha le-10 lokuya kuphumla kweli Jiputa eliyinyabi." Kuhle ukuba unina angakwazi ukubala. Kodwa kuya kuba bhetele kulwalamano lwakho, akazange abale.
- "Ngaba uthenge izibhobho ezintsha? Andiyi kuqonda nina bafazi! Unayo loo grey! "Kukho ama-grays, kodwa akukho mnyama! Kwaye ngokubanzi, usichithele eli qela ixesha lakho kwaye ungumvuzo wakho ngokupheleleyo.
Ngamanye amaxesha isimo sengqondo sabangaphandle sithintela imali, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha-kungena kwiimeko ze-catharsis ezixhasayo. Ziziphi izinto ezithandekayo zamasiko amadoda angaphandle angenawo?