Makhe sizame ukubona ukuba ngaba ubuncinane ababhinqa banokuhlala ndawonye iminyaka emibini ngapha nangapha, ngaphandle kokudala ezinye iingxaki, ngaba ngokwenene banako ulwalamano olunyanisekileyo lwabafazi kunye nenkxaso.
Umanyano wexeshana.
Kwenzeka ukuba kukho ababini ababhinqa abachasene ngqo. I-brunette enye, i-second blonde, enye ihlakaniphile, inesibini enhle, inomthandi ophakamileyo, enye isityebi njalonjalo. Akunanto into efanayo, kwaye kunzima ukuba kukho izihloko zengxoxo nakwixesha lokungabikho kwento yokunxibelelana, akuzona iintshaba, zihluke ngokupheleleyo. Kwaye ngokukhawuleza aba bafazi bebahlobo oluhle kakhulu olumangalisayo kubo bonke.
Utshintsho olunjalo ngokukhawuleza lunesizathu esichaza yonke into. Ingxenye yesithathu engabonakaliyo ibonakala ebomini balaba bafazi. Kwaye okwesithathu kubangela iingxaki ezifanayo kwala mabhinqa ahlukeneyo ahlukeneyo - ziphazamisa emisebenzini, zibandakanya ngamadoda azo, zizama ukuthatha indawo yazo phakathi kwabantu abaqhelekileyo. Ukuthetha ngokuthe ngqo, kukho umbambano onokutshatyalaliswa ngokulinganayo okulinganayo okugcinwe, ngenxa yohlukwano lwabahlobo abathandekayo.
Le nyunyana ihlala iphikisana nomntu, iyasebenza kwaye ihlala njalo, nje ngokuba kukho into ecasulayo - umlingani. Ngokukhawuleza xa umchasi ephela, isidingo sokugcina sisondele siphinde sidlule.
Inzuzo.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, abafazi bangumhlobo iminyaka kuphela ngenxa yenzuzo. Nangona ukwenziwa komsebenzi kuthathwa njengento ebesilisa, eqinisweni, abafazi abayithinteli lo mgangatho, bavele bachaze ngokuhlukile.
Kwiimeko ezinjalo, omnye umfazi uhlala kwindawo ekhokelela ekukholeni, kwaye okwesibini kubanjwe kuyo. Omnye ufezekisa impumelelo kumsebenzi wakhe, ebomini bakhe, okwesibini uzama ukufumana umsebenzi omhle ngenxa yokudibanisa nomhlobo wakhe ophumeleleyo, okanye umyeni omhle, ngokubambisana nokuxhamla okufanayo kunye nesangqa esichukumisayo soqhagamshelwano lokuqala.
Ulwaphulo olunjalo lunokuthi lukho ngokufana nomonde womhlobo-inkokheli-iyanelisekile. Ngokuhamba kwexesha, ngesiseko se "msila" ongenakunyakaziswa kukho iingxabano, umona ongenakunqandwa kunye namacwecwe amancinci amancinci, yeso sizathu sokuba ulwalamano olunjalo lwabafazi luhlukana.
Ukuqinisekisa.
Amadoda akhathala ngenxa yokuzibuza: kutheni amantombazana amnandi ahlala efana neentombi ezimbi kangaka? Kulula! Ngokubhekiselele kwimvelaphi ye-simplone ekhangeleka ngokucacileyo kulula ukubonakala ngathi ubuhle be-stylish. Oku kwahlukileyo kusebenza kunye nento yonke endiyithandayo yomibini.
Umfazi omhle ufumana ingqalelo kumadoda, kwaye umhlobo wakhe uyabathuthuzela abo abaqeshwe ngumoya. Ngaphandle kweso sithandwa esithandekayo, intombi eyingozi yayingayi kubakhokelwa ingqalelo yindoda, kwaye intombi enhle yayiza kuyancintisana nabantu abanamandla.
Ubuhlobo obunjalo buphela xa umfazi omhle ekugqibeleni efumene isikhulu aze ahlasele umtshato. Intombi yakhe ayinanto yokubamba, kwaye iyingxenye.
Okanye umfazi omdala ngokukhawuleza uyaqhakaza aze afune ukutsala ngakumbi kunokuba umhlobo wakhe ayenqwenela.
Olu buhlobo luqala ngokususela ebuntwaneni kwaye luhlala luphele ixesha elide ngaphambi kokuba enye yeentombi zibuyele kwi-25.
Ngokuya kwimithetho yehlathi.
Kuye kwaziwa ixesha elide ukuba amabhinqa ayenobuqili kunye nezidalwa ezikhohlakeleyo. Nawuphi na umntu othobekileyo unokufihla iimpawu zesidalwa sangempela, ohlala kuyo kwaye ulindele ithuba lokubonakala kuyo yonke inkazimulo.
Ngokudlukisayo, abafazi bahlala bebiza intombi engakwazi ukuma. Kubonakala ngathi, kutheni kulo mzekelo kuba ngabahlobo?
Abafazi baqonda ngokucacileyo umgaqo-ukugcina iintshaba zisondele kunokuba ngabahlobo. Umlingane wam uzame ukuthatha indawo yakho? Umntu omdala owaziwa naye wayedlala nomyeni wakhe? Ummelwane ozama ukubonakala engcono nakancinane? Ngokuqhelekileyo, zezi zizathu zeso sihlobo sobubele besifazane. Injongo yolwalamano olunjalo lunye - inxalenye eyalimalayo iyaqonda amaphulo abuthathaka kunye nomzuzu ofanelekileyo, ekuhambeni kwesinye, iyakumkhukula kumendo wayo.
Ngamanye amaxesha akulula ukuqonda ubuqhetseba obunjalo kwiintombi zamantombazana abonakala enyanisekileyo. Yilobuhlobo obanika ukutya ukuthetha malunga nokuba abafazi abakwazi ukuba ngabahlobo nhlobo.
Iqela lezinto ezinomdla.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba abantu bathini, abesifazana abanqwenela ukwenza into efanayo. Amadoda asoloko eqonda iinjongo. Ngokuqhelekileyo amabhinqa amabini afumana ukufana kwiimbono, imikhwa, ukuthanda omnye nomnye kwaye kwesi sizathu sobudlelwane obude. Kuyinto enhle xa umntu eqonda wena kwaye akwazi ukuvuma ukuba ukukhwela kunomdla ngakumbi kunokuba ubukele imiboniso yeTV.
Olu hlobo lobuhlobo besetyhini luyinto ekhethekileyo kumamazana amancinci okanye asele aphethwe ngamantombazana. Abafani nendawo phantsi kwelanga, kodwa banandipha nje ubudlelwane, kuba bajonge imifanekiso yomnye nomnye, nakuba bengaphandle.
Enyanisweni, kwenzeka ukuba ukufana okunjalo kubangela ukubonakala kwento enye yenzondelelo, kwaye u-3 ukuya ku-2, njengoko uyaziwa, akahlulwa.
Ngako oko, kwaye i-idyll ayikhuseli kwiimvunguvungu.
Kodwa ngelo xesha kunamabhinqa amaninzi amaninzi akwazi ukugcina ubudlelwane obushushu obufudumele ukusuka ebusheni kunye neenwele ezimpunga. Bazenza njani?
Ngaphezu kobuhlobo, kunye nangaphezulu nawuphi na ulwalamano, kubalulekile ukusebenza. Omnye kufuneka akwazi ukunyaniseka, kodwa ngelo xesha ugcine ubulumko. Udinga ukuthembela, kodwa uqonde oko kunokusetyenziswa ngokuchasene nawe ngexesha lokungqubana. Kubalulekile ukuba ungakwazi ukunqumla indlela yomhlobo kwaye ungabi nomona ngempumelelo. Ekugqibeleni, akudingeki uthathe amadoda omnye.
Akukho namnye kuthi u-inshurensi ngokuchasene nokulahlekelwa, kwaye ukulahlekelwa ngumhlobo akusizibuhlungu kunokuba ulahlekelwe ngumthandayo. Iminqweno eqhelekileyo, ukuthembela, ukuqonda, ukuqonda, ukukwazi ukuxolela nokungafihli izikhalazo - sisiseko sokwakha ubudlelwane obuhle. Emva koko uya kuba negalelo elithembekileyo kwiimeko ezinzima kwaye zivuyo ebomini.