Ungakulibala njani umthandi kunye nokuphula yonke intsebenziswano naye? Hayi, andinako, andinako. Amantombazana amaninzi acinga, ngubani ovakalelwa kukuba unesiqingatha sesibini.
Uyamthanda, kodwa kufuneka uyibale. Izizathu zingahluka. Ngokomzekelo, iimvakalelo zakhe ngawe zaphela. Okanye mhlawumbi uyaqonda ukuba akayena iqhawe leveli yakho ngesizathu. Okanye utshatile, kwaye unqume ukuphula le ngqungquthela enesicatshulwa, kwaye ukuba uchaneke ngakumbi, unxantathu. Kwaye mhlawumbi awukwazi ukuba kunye ngenxa yesizathu esithile sokungasebenzi. Inyaniso isala ukuba kufuneka uyilahle ngaphandle kobomi bakho naphandle kwentloko kwaye uhlale kuyo.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba yayibuhlungu kangakanani, kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba ubomi abupheli apho, kwaye ukukhanya akuzange kuhlangane kunye nomda. Abaninzi badlula ngokuhlukana okubuhlungu. Njengoko bathi, ixesha lokuphilisa. Ngexesha leentlungu, kubonakala ngathi awuyi kumlibala, kwaye akukho nto inokunciphisa uxinzelelo lwakho. Kodwa oku akunjalo.
Kakade, akukho iresiphi enokuthi ikwazi ukukusindisa ngokukhawuleza ekuhluphekeni kwengqondo, kodwa kukho iindlela zokunciphisa eli xesha elinzima.
Okokuqala, ukuba lowo owayesakuba nguyena owayengumceli wekhefu, zama ukuxolela ngaphakathi kwaye umvumele ahambe, kungakhathaliseki ukuba kunzima kangakanani. Kuya kunceda umphefumlo wakho. Zama ukubonisa ulwaphulo kunye nokuthuka kwiphepha-bhala incwadi, kodwa ungayithumeli. Kule leta, mgxeka, xelele ngeentlungu zakho, bhala malunga nantoni na embi ebuhlotsheni bakho nakuyo.
Hlanganisa kunye nokwahlukana. Ukuba ufuna ukulibala okokuqala, musa ukukhumbula engqondweni ukuba uya kubuya kwaye yonke into iya kuba njengaphambili. Unako ukuzwakalisa iimvakalelo kunye nokukhala, kodwa kungekhona ixesha elide - ungavumeli ukudakumba nokudakumba kukugubungele ngentloko yakho.
Ukuqhekeka kunye neyokuqala. Ukuba usenemiba engaphendululwanga, zixazulula ngokukhawuleza. Emva koko, unokuyeka ukuthetha naye. Ubuncinane de lakho isilonda esisifo siphelile. Ungabizi okanye ubhale kuye. Ukuba kunzima ukuba unxamise le silingo, susa oonxibelelwano. "Hlalani nihlobo" aluyi kusebenza, ubuncinane engekafiki.
Lahla yonke into engamkhumbuza ngayo: izipho, iifoto, iincwadi kunye nezinto. Ukuba awukwazi ukuyilahla, uze upake yonke into ebhokisini uze uyifihle ukuze zonke ezi zinto ezincinci zingaboni iso lakho kwaye ungathathi isilonda sakho.
Musa ukugqoka izinto awazithandayo, kwaye ukukhumbuza oko. Zama ukuphepha indawo ozithandayo. Zama ukuthetha kunye nexeshana nabantu abadibanisa nawe okanye bakhumbuze ngaye.
Akunjalo na ukuba ungalalani nesondo kunye nalowo owayengaphambili, zama ukuphepha ukudibana naye, ushiye ingcamango yokuphindezela kwaye ungenzi nantoni na. Ingaba nemiphumo emibi kuwe.
Mthabatha ehostlwini, yenza umonakalo, uphonsa konke okungafaniyo. Ukukhulula indawo yakho kwindlu yakho nakubomi bakho. Ukuba uziva ungalunganga, ungaqala ukulungiswa.
Shayela abahlobo bakho kwaye ulungiselele iintlanganiso zakho zokomoya. Geza amatye ngamadoda. Vumela abahlobo bakho bakuthethe ngokucacileyo oko bacinga malunga neyokuqala. Musa nje ukudimazeka. Unako ukusela ibhotile yewayini, kodwa unganxila, kuba umgomo oyintloko wale nkampani yenkukhu ukufumana uxhaso oluxhamlekileyo kwaye ujabule.
Musa ukuhlala ekhaya, hamba, uthetha kunye nabahlobo, uye kwiifilimu, uye kwi-cafe, uye kwi-skating rink, ukuya kwiklabhu, njl. Cinga ngento yokuzonwabisa. Ekhaya musa ukuthukuthela, kwaye wenze izinto ozithandayo, ufunde iincwadi ezilungileyo, ubukele ii-comedies, udlale imidlalo yekhompyutha, kunye nezinto ezifana.
Shintsha umfanekiso. Yenza inwele entsha okanye utshintshe umbala wakho weenwele. Hlela ukuthenga, zithengele into entsha kwiingubo kunye neziqhumiso. Yenza imidlalo, ngokukhethekileyo kwindawo yokuzivocavoca, kungekhona ekhaya, tk. Ukusetyenziswa kweqela kusebenza ngakumbi ekukhuliseni isimo sengqondo. Uhlobo lwezemidlalo alubalulekanga, kubalulekile ukuba kunye nawe ushiye umbi, kwaye ukhathele kwaye ujabule. Gxininisa kumsebenzi okanye ukufunda. Kuya kunceda ukuphazamisa, kwaye inokuba yinkxalabo yokukhula komsebenzi wakho.
Ukudibana nabantu abatsha, ukunxibelelana, ukuthandana ngothando, abathokozeli. Akunabo bonke abantu abafanayo. Kodwa musa ukuthelekisa wonke umntu onawo. Uyinqanaba elidlulileyo, kwaye kwenye indawo phambi kwakho unengqondo yangempela, into ephambili ayiyikulikhumbula.
Unokuya kwindawo ethile yokuphumla. Khetha into ngokuhambelana neminqweno yakho kunye nezinto eziphathekayo. Ukutshintsha imeko kuya kuba yonyango olufanelekileyo.
Ukuba unomntwana, hlawula ixesha elide kwaye unakekele kulo. Yiya kwi-cinema, kwi-zoo, kweseksi, epakini yokuzonwabisa, njl njl., Ukuphazamisa kwaye ujabule.
Fumana into efanelekileyo ekuhlukaneni kwakho, okunjalo, ngokuqinisekileyo, kukho.
Zidibanisa ngeendlela ezininzi. Thatha ibhulophu ephumayo kunye ne-foam kunye neoli efunekayo, iya kuhlambalaza, ubuhle be-salon, njl. Yenzani nantoni na ekholisayo, ziphazamise iingcinga ezibuhlungu.
Uku landela ezi ngcebiso, uza kuphila ngokulula kokuhlukana kwaye ubale ngokukhawuleza uthando lwangaphambili.
Kwaye kufuneka wenze ntoni, ukuba lo ngumthwalo kuwe? Indlela yokuwaphula? Wena, mhlawumbi, ufuna yonke into ihambe kakuhle, ihlaziye kwaye iphucule, kodwa kungekhona into yokuba iya kuba njalo. Kuxhomekeka kwindlela ophendula ngayo iqabane lakho.
Kukho iindlela ezibalulekileyo zokwahlula.
Indlela yokuqala kukumisa ubuhlobo. Khetha umzuzu ongathathi hlangothi uze uthethe into enjengale: "Sasicatshulwa yimvakalelo enamandla, ndiyesaba. Yonke inamandla kakhulu, iyabonakala kwaye inzima. Ndifuna ixesha lokulijonga. Masithathe ikhefu. " Emva kokuba ikhefu lilungile, unokuliqinisa ngokude nje kuthatha, umzekelo, ngonaphakade.
Enye indlela ukwenza konke okusemandleni ukwenzela ukuba iqabane lizakukushiya. Udinga ukuyixhaphaza, yifumane, yenza izinto ezincinci, uzenze njengokuba nomsindo onomona, konke kuxhomekeke kwingcinga yakho. I-Motay iimbilini zomntu, ihlekise ngomsindo, ihlambalaze, ihlekise ngezenzo zakhe zesondo, iyamcaphukisa ngokuziphatha kwayo, imenze ihlazo kunye neyingaphandle, yenza izinto eziyinyulu, ihlazise phambi kwabahlobo, ixhala, ivela ngezizathu ezahlukahlukeneyo zokuxabana, uyeke ukusebenzisana naye ngesondo, njl, kude kube loo mntu engagqithisi umonde. Indlela enhle, efuna ixesha kunye nengcamango.
Indlela elandelayo - ukuhlukana "ngesiNgesi." Indlela engathembekanga, kodwa isebenzayo. Yiphephe nangayiphi na indlela, ungaphenduli iifowuni zakhe, iileta, imiyalezo, njl. Ukuba usagqitha, xelela into efana nale: "Ndixakeke kakhulu, ndinomsebenzi omningi. Ndiza kukubiza. " Futhi musa ukubiza. Kungekudala loo mntu uya kuqonda yonke into. Kwaye nangona ufumanisa kwaye ufuna iincatshulwa, akuyi kuba nzima, sele sele eqonda yonke into kwaye ulungele ukulungelelanisa.
Kwaye enye indlela , eyona nto inzima kakhulu, kodwa nayo ihloniphekile, kukutsho konke okulungileyo. Apha, kufuneka uqiniseke isibindi, cinga ngeentetho. Uninzi kunokwenzeka, kuya kuba nencoko enzima, kwaye akuyiyo yonke into eya kuhamba kakuhle. Kodwa ekuhambeni kwexesha, xa umntu ehlalisa, uya kuqonda ukuba waphathwa ngokufanelekileyo kwaye wamphatha ngokuhlonela.
Ngoku uyazi ukuba uyayikhohlwa umthandi wakho kwaye uphule bonke ubudlelwane naye. Uthande kwaye uthandeke!