Thatha inja kunye nenja phambi kwentlanganiso yokuqala nomntwana. Oku kuya kwenza ukuba isilwanyana sakho siphelile kwaye sivule ukuhamba. Uya kuba nethuba lokulilawula.
Nika umyalelo ukuba inja "hlala", yikhathaze kwaye yiletha kuphela umntwana. Ukuba isilwanyana sakho sisebenza kwaye asikwazi ukuhlala simi ngomzuzu, gxiba i-leash. Ukuba inja izama ukugxuma, unokuyikhusela. Okokuqala, isilwanyana sakho akufanele sibe neentloni. Izinja zivakalelwa kakuhle iimvakalelo zabanikazi.
Uqhelwano lokuqala .
Makuvumeleke omnye umfazi ukuba agcine inja nge-leash, kwaye yesibini iya kuzisa umntwana. Musa ukugxila kwintlanganiso yabo yokuqala, kuya kuqhubeka. Inja ingayiboni umntwana ngokukhawuleza. Xa iimfuyo zethu zibona into entsha, ziqala ukucofa into engaqhelekanga. Vumela inja iphose umntwana, mdumise. Umntu wokuqala owenzekayo, kwenzeka ukuba wonke umntu enze into yakhe. Vumela isilwanyana ukuba singene ekhitshini okanye kwelinye igumbi. Kungenzeka ukuba inja iya kwamkela i-oda elitsha yezinto ngokuqhelekileyo.
Fundisa inja ukuthetha nabantwana.
Xa umntwana wakho eqala ukukhwela, ubambe, uthathe, udonsa inja kuzo zonke iindawo zomzimba wakhe, isilwanyana kufuneka isilungele ukwenza oko. Qala ukufundisa inja ukuba isabele ngokuqhelekileyo ekunxibelelaneni nayo yintwazana yakho. Kubalulekile ukufundisa ukuze abadala bangaboni. Umntwana uphinda ukuziphatha kwabazali, oku kunokubangela iingxaki phakathi kwenja nabantwana. Fundisa intsapho yakho ukuba imthande kwaye ilumkele isilwanyana, kuba ilungu lentsapho.
Inja yayikuthanda ukudlala nabantwana bakho, ngokukhawuleza uqale ukumbamba ngesikhumba. Akunamandla kwaye anothando. Makhe asebenzise indlela entsha ye-caresses. Dumisani isilwanyana sakho ngokucoca isikhumba sakhe. Unako ukumbambazela ngeendlebe, okanye uyiphakamise. Khumbula ukuba yonke into ifanele ibe yinyameko kwaye ilunge. Kule meko, isilwanyana esiyintandokazi yesilwanyana siya kuqonda ukuba unomdla kunye nomdlalo, kwaye uya kuguqula umsila wakhe kunoko.
Abantwana bathanda kakhulu ukugubha izinja, ukuzingca nokuzicima. Isilwanyana sakho sasingamangaliswa yimidlalo enjalo, qalisa kwangaphambili ukumfundisa. Dumisani inja, mxelele indlela enhle kwaye enhle ngayo, kwaye uyamkela. Okokuqala, ngoko-razov ezayo yonke ixesha elide kwaye lide. Ngoko uya kuqeqesha isilwanyana sakho ukuze uvume.
Isandi esikhulu, ukukhala komntwana, ukuhleka, ukukhala - konke oku kunokuyikrakra inja. Ukuze ugweme ukuphendula okungalunganga, qalisa ukujwayela isilwanyana kwizandi ezivakalayo ezahlukeneyo. Thetha nenja ngokukhawuleza, utshintshe ithoni yezwi lakho. Musa ukumthusa, ungatsho ngomsindo. Emva kokumemeza kwakho ngokukodwa, udumise kwaye usilwanyana esilwanyana. Kumele ukuba athathwe ngokukhawuleza izandi ezivakalayo. Ngethuba lexesha inja idla, vula ukurekhoda kweemvana, ukuhleka, ukukhala. Ngoko uya kudala intlangano entloko yenja yabantwana ngeento ezintle, kunye "nokutya".
Musa ukumemeza kwaye ungayitshiyi inja! Xa uphakamisa izwi lakho uze ujezise isilwanyana sakho, unempendulo engalunganga ekukhaleni. Xa ubetha inja, uqala ukwesaba ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza. Wonke umntwana uyiselula, esebenzayo. Izenzo zezingane zidla ngokukhawuleza. Vumela inja yakho ingesabi loo ntshukumo.
Ukuqwalasela imithetho elula, xa uqhuba ukuqeqeshwa kwangaphambili kunye nenja yakho, unokukhusela iingxaki zokusebenzisana kwezilwanyana kunye nosana. Vumela abantwana bakho badlale, bahambe, bathande inja, kuba ngumhlobo onothando kumntwana wakho.