Abanikazi abaninzi bezilwanyana ezinamahloni benza into ephosakeleyo, bebona ukwesaba inja njengento. Ababonisi kakuhle kwi-pet, engento yanto. Ukuba kwimeko enjalo inja ayinakuncediswa, ngoko uloyiko oluya kukhula lube li-phobia langempela, kwaye le nto isele yingozi kwimpilo yezilwanyana, ngakumbi ekugugile. Kwaye, inene, inja ayikho into enokuthi ihlawulwe, yiphakamise ilizwi layo, u-spank - ngoko nje ungenisa ingqondo yesilwanyana ngakumbi ngakumbi. Ngoku iindudumo ziya kubanjiswa nenja kunye nokubandezeleka komzimba.
Inja, njengomthetho, iyamoyika iindudumo ngenxa yokudubha udonga lweendudumo. Uloyiko olunjalo entenini luhlala lubangele izizathu ezininzi. Ngokuqhelekileyo, izinja zixelela amabali ukuba xa ku-Eva kaNtshonalanga okanye ngokuhlwa ngokuhamba isilwanyana sazo soyikisayo isandi somlilo oqhekekileyo ngoku uloyikisayo nasiphi na isandi esikhulu. Ingxaki kunzima ukwesaba inja, ukuba kufuneka ahambe ngengozi enkulu eyayihamba nesandi esikhulu, umzekelo, yengozi yemoto.
Isigaba sokwesaba kwezilwanyana
Ukwesaba izinja, kuxhomekeka ngamandla kunye nokubonakaliswa, kwahlulwa ngamadridi amathathu:
Iqondo elibi - xa eziphatha ngokugqithiseleyo kwindlela yokuziphatha kwezilwanyana, inja ikhangele amehlo apho isandi livela khona, kodwa ingalawulwa, sinokuphendula kwisiteketiso kwaye yenza yonke imiyalelo yomnini.
Isilinganiso semyinge - isilwanyana siyabonakala ngokukrakra, sesaba ukuduma, ukuze iqalise ukugquma, ngaphandle kokuzingela yenza imiyalelo kwaye ayithathi.
Inqanaba elide - kunye nenja yakhe ilahlekelwa ngokupheleleyo yilawulo, iqala ukuthuthumela, ukuphosa, ukuhlala icaza okanye iphazamise, ebonakala ngathi iyalila. Ezinye izilwanyana ezinobungozi ziqala ukugubha ngamandla kwindawo enye, kuthukuthela kwesikhumba. Abanye bazama ukufihla, benyukela kwindawo efihliweyo baze bahlale apho de kube kuphephe. Kwakhona kwenzeka ukuba inja iyeke ukuvuthwa nokulahla. Abanye abanikazi beenja bakhulume ngemimiselo yokuziphatha okungapheliyo, umzekelo, xa isilwanyana sifuna umgodi kumgangatho, ongakaze wenziwe ngaphambili.
Inja idinga uncedo kuzo zonke iimeko ezintathu! Impazamo eqhelekileyo yabanini yindlela abaziphatha ngayo, apho bazama khona ukubethekisa inja, bayigxininise, bayiphathe ngayo yonke iindudumo. Oku akunakwenziwa, kuba ukwesaba inja kuyanda kuphela. Inyani yinto yokuba inja iyakwazi ukubona loo nto igugu, bathi, uyayesaba - kuhle, yenza kakuhle. Uya kucinga ukuba kuyinto evamile yokwesaba, kuba ngelo xesha ukhangelekile, uphathwe ngamathambo kwaye uphathwe. Izilwanyana ziya kuthatha isigqibo sokubhukuda, ukuqinisa umsila kunye nokunyanzeliswa kwamanzi kuyimfuneko ukukholisa umnini. Kule meko, inja inokuqala ukukhohliswa, ichaza ukwesaba okukhulu, ukuze ufumane ingqwalasela eyongezelelweyo kunye nomsindo.
Unokukunceda njani inja ukujamelana noyiko
Ukuba inja isaba iindudumo ezininzi, kubakho imfuneko ukulandela imozulu yezulu, kwaye ngaphambi kokuba iindudumo ziqalise ukumnika isilumkiso esilula, umzekelo, kwimifuno yemvelo. Ukuba olo lungiso aluncedi, kungcono ukubonisana nodokotela wezilwanyana ukwenzela ukuba umyalelo wezilwanyana zakho zichanekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, ukungenelela kweziyobisi omnye akunakwenza. Sifanele sibe nesineke kwaye sihambe ngokuthe ngcembe, ngokuthe ngcembe, ukuba sijonge inja kwinto eyoyikisayo-isandi sendudumo.
Kukho iindlela ezininzi ezinobulungisa zokugcina inja ngenxa yokwesaba kweendudumo. Okokuqala, kufuneka uyeke ukutholisa isilwanyana kwaye ugxininise ukwesaba kwakhe ngokutya. Inja yethumela iloyiko xa umninimvume evumela ukuba enze njalo. Yena, ngokuchaseneyo, kufuneka aziphathe ngokuzenzekileyo ngokuzenzele. Inja iyanyanisekile, kufuneka uzame ukuphazamisa ngokudlala okanye ukwenza imiyalelo ebalulekileyo. Musa ukukhawuleza lo msebenzi, ngokukhawuleza ukuba isilwanyana sibonisa ukungafuni ukuthobela. Kufuneka uqhubeke, kodwa kungenjalo ungeyifuni inja, ungayikhupheli - ngoku uqinisa ukwesaba inja.
Oku kunceda kakhulu umsebenzi - ukujikeleza kwisijikelezo eduze komnini ngexesha lokuduma kweendudumo. Unokwenza oku kwindlu, ukuba indawo iyavuma. Inja iya kuziva ukuba ibalekele ingozi, kodwa ngelo xesha iya kuva iindudumo. Emva kwexesha, ukwesaba kwakhe kuya kuncipha, uya kusebenzisa izandi. Ukuba inja ayifuni ukuphuma kunye nesitrato, ngoko uqala ukujikeleza egumbini, ngamanye amaxesha kusebenza ngakumbi, ekubeni imeko ayiyikrele.
Ukuthintela Iindudumo
Ukuze ukhusele ngakumbi ukwesaba okukhulu, xa isilwanyana sinoyikrozo simane nje, udinga ukurekhoda kwiidiski zeendudumo uze ulalele inja 2-3 ngamaxesha ngeyure. Lo msebenzi usebenza kakhulu. Okokuqala, isandi kufuneka senziwe sithule ukukhusela inja ukuba ingabikho ukwesaba, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo yenza ingqalelo kwizandi eziphumayo. Xa isilwanyana sisetyenziselwa ukuvakala kweendudumo kwaye siyeka ukuphulaphula, unokrekhoda ngokubanzi ngokukhawuleza ukuze kuphinde ikhange ingqalelo yintombi. Ngexesha elifanayo, kungcono ukungayinaki inkoyiko yenja, ungayitholili kwaye ungayikhuthazi. Ukuphulaphula ezo rekhodi kuyimfuneko kwiinyanga eziliqela imihla. Ngeli xesha, inja iya kusetshenziselwa izandi zeendudumo nokuyeka ukuyikayika. Uya kuqonda ukuba iindudumo zikhupha kumdlali kwaye akuyingozi kuye, ngoko akayi kubakhokelela.
Ukuba ukwenza lo msebenzi rhoqo, isilwanyana siya kusetshenziselwa ukuduma kwesibhakabhaka kwaye siya kuqonda ukuba ayithwala nayiphi na isongelo kuye. Into ephambili - ukuba ube nesineke, kungekhona ukuvumela i-phobia yepilesi ngokwayo. Kungekudala uza kuphawula ukuba inja ayesabi kakhulu ukuduma. Nokuba ukuba uloyiko aluyi kuhamba, isilwanyana siya kuqalisa ukudlulisa izandi ezothusayo.