Nazi ezinye zezizathu zokuba ungeke uqale inja.
Xa kufika inja uya kulibala okokuphela kweveki. Nsuku zonke, kusasa nakusihlwa uhambo lukulindele. Yaye ide kwaye igcwele, kunye nokuphonywa kwentonga, kulandela ezinye izinja kunye neekati, kunye nabanye abaninzi. Uya kufuneka uhambe nenja kunoma yiphina imozulu, nokuba kukufudumala, imvula okanye ibanda. Unokulibala ngokulala okuqhelekileyo, ukususela ngoku uya kulala njengenja yakho kwaye uvuke ngaphandle kwewashi ye-alamu, ucinga ukuba kufuneka ufumane ixesha lokuhamba ngaphambi komsebenzi.
Ndiza kufuneka ndilibale ngokuhamba ngezoshishino kunye neholide. Ukuthatha inja eluhambweni kulubuhlungu kakhulu, kwaye ukufumana umncedisi wakhe wesikhashana kuya kunzima. Kuyafana nakuwo wonke amaqela, amaqela kunye nezinye izinto. Uya kuba nexhala xa inkwenkwe yakho yokugqibela ihamba okanye idla, kwaye akunjani uhlobo lwe-cognac lokuthenga okanye okokugqoka. Ukusuka kumaqela uya kushiya kakhulu ngaphambili, ukhumbule ukuba inja yonke imihla ihleli yodwa ekhaya. Kungekudala awuyi kumenywa naphina.
Incoko eyahlukileyo isondla isilwanyana sakho. Ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokuba nenotuku, kuya kufuneka uqaphele ngokunyameko isondlo sakhe. Ukuze ukhule uphilile kwaye uphelele, kuya kufuneka ufunde ukuqonda izithako ezahlukeneyo kunye namavithamini. Ukuqaphela apho ukutya inja ingagula khona. Ekugqibeleni, qiniseka ukuba usoloko unika ukutya, kwaye akufunekanga ukuba ugijime phakathi kobusuku ukukhangela ivenkile yeeyure ezingama-24.
Enye into ebalulekileyo kakhulu yimpilo yezilwanyana zakho. Ukongeza kwinto yokuba kufuneka uhlambe, susa izandla emva kokuhamba emvula, kuya kufuneka ufunde ukulinganisela ukushisa kwakhe, ukuqonda iimpawu ezahlukeneyo zezifo. Ngokuphindaphindiweyo uza kutyelela udokotela wezilwanyana ukuze wenze inja zonke izitofu ezifunekayo.
Ukongezelela, kuyafaneleka ukuqwalasela uhlangothi lwezemali lo mbandela. Uya kufuneka uchithe imali ngokutya, izitya, iimveliso zokucoceka, ubuncinci kwizixhobo eziyimfuneko-ikhola kunye nokuqhathaniswa, kwiinkonzo zogqirha wezilwanyana, ukuba isilwanyana sakho sisifo ngokukhawuleza siwagula kunye nezinye izinto ezininzi.
Ukusuka kwinqanaba lezesengqondweni, lungiselela ukuba uhlale unetyala. Ngenxa yokuba inja ihleli ekhaya yonke imini, ngenxa yokuba usebenza, akukho mntu udlala nayo, akayi kuthatha ukuhamba. Xa ubuya ekhaya usuka emsebenzini ukhathele, uya kufuna ukuhlala ucelile, uphumule, kwaye akunakwenzeka ukuba uhambe ngokude kunye nenja.
Izizathu zokuba ungeke uqale inja kukungafuni nokungafundwa ukucoca kwansuku zonke. Inqwaba yeboya kwipenitshala, iphepha lodonga, i-pogrezennye izinto - konke oku kuqinisekisiwe kuwe. Ungathethi umkhondo ongcolileyo kwiphephe emva kokuhamba kwimozulu ye-slushy. Ngako oko, musa ukuqala inja, ukuba uyashukunyiswa yiyiphi ikhonkco kwiphephethi. Ukongeza, inja inokubamba izitya zakho ezithandayo okanye i-slobber ingubo ebiza, ngokupheleleyo ngaphandle kwenjongo enobungozi.
Zifumana ukutyhafaza, zulule kwaye ukhale. Izikhalazo ezivela kubamelwane ukuba isilwanyana sakho siphazamise ukulala okanye ubukele uchungechunge lwakho oluthandayo lweTV. Funda ukuthetha kunye nabakhanti nabadlulayo, ngubani oza kwenza zonke iintlobo zamabango malunga nenja yakho nokuziphatha kwayo.
Mhlawumbi uza kufuneka uchithe imali enkulu ekuqeqesheni nasekufundiseni izinja. Kwaye akusiyo into yokuba baya kunika umphumo. Ngokubanzi, ukuphakamisa inja kuyinto enzima. Uya kufuneka umfundise ukuba angagxumi kwiindwendwe kunye nabadlulileyo, bafunde ukuhlukanisa izinja ngexesha lokulwa nokunye okuninzi. Inja idinga ukunxibelelana rhoqo kunye nokukhuliswa, kungenjalo ekugqibeleni kuya kuphuka ngokupheleleyo kwizandla, kuya kuhoywa onke amaqela akho kwaye awukwazi ukujongana nayo.
Oku akuzona zonke izizathu zokubangela ukuba kungcono ukuba ungenayo inja. Ngokomzekelo, isizathu sokubangela sinokuba ngumqobo - ukuba unomntu osapho lwakho olwesaba okanye engathandi izinja. Okanye ukuba umntu ovela kwintsapho unengxaki yokunyusa iinwele zeenja.
Kwakhona, musa ukuqala inja, ukuba intsapho inabantwana abancinci, inokuba yingozi. Ayaziwa ukuba inja iyakwenza njani kumntwana, ayikhutshwanga ukuba uya kuba nomona kwaye ngenxa yoko kuya kuba nobudlova kumntwana. Kuyafaneleka ukuba ucinge ngemigaqo yococeko, ngokubonakala kwenja endlwini iya kuba yintsholongwane kwaye ingcola, kwaye oku kungonakalisa umntwana wakho.
Kwakhona, musa ukuqala inja ukuba sele ukhona nezinye izilwanyana, ezifana nekati, okanye enye inja. Ngamanye amaxesha izilwanyana zinomona omkhulu kwaye zinzima ukudibana.
Ukongeza kwokhuseleko lwemali, kufuneka ube neemeko zokuphila ezizinzileyo ukuze inja ingabi yithintelo kuwe okanye kwamanye amalungu entsapho. Ukongeza, ukubeka inja endlwini, kuya kufuneka ukhethe indawo apho angasabela khona kwaye aphumle, kwaye ngexesha elifanayo, yonke into eyenzekayo kwindlu kufuneka ibonwe khona. Ukuba indawo ikhethiwe ngokungalunganga, inja ayiyi kuyenza. Kuya kufuna kwakhona indawo eyahlukileyo ukuba idle, kufuneka ihlaziye kwaye ikhululekile, ngaphandle koko iya kuqala ukudonsa iziqwenga zokutya kwisitya ukuya kwenye indawo apho ingayi kuphazamiseka ngokutya.
Ungaqali inja ukuba uhlala kwindawo edolophini exakekile, apho kungekho ipaki enye kufuphi nalapho unokuhamba khona inja. Ngenxa yokuba, xa uhlwayela isilwanyana, akufanele ucinge nje ngeempawu zakho kunye neentuthuzelo, kodwa ngokuphathelele induduzo yezilwanyana. Kwaye ekubeni ukuhamba kuyingxenye ebalulekileyo yobomi bezinja, ukungabikho kwintsimi yokuhamba kuyinkathazo enkulu kumxholo wejaji.
Ngoko, siye saqwalasela izizathu ezininzi zokuba kungenakucetyiswa ukuba inja. Okokuqala, olu luxanduva olukhulu, ngaphandle koko, kuya kuthatha ixesha elininzi lokunyamekela, kwaye iindleko zemali zinkulu kakhulu. Ngoko ke, kukufanelekile ukucinga ngokucophelela ngaphambi kokuba ukhokele inja endlwini. Ngaba ulungele ukumnika phantse yonke ixesha lakho elikhululekile, hamba kuyo nayiphi na imozulu, qaphela kwaye uhlambulule isilwanyana sakho, uqaphele impilo yakhe. Ukongezelela, ixesha elide liya kufuneka liphakanyise inja kunye noqeqesho lwayo. Ukuba ulungele konke oku, qhubeka phambili. Kuhlala kuphela kukufisa inhlanhla enhle.