Sekuyiminyaka engamashumi amabini edlulileyo abo bangasebenzi, kwakuqhelekile ukubiza ii-parasites. Namhlanje, ngenhlanhla, akukho mntu uya kucinga ngokugweba umfazi ohlala ekhaya. Kwaye izizathu ezi zinto zihluke kakhulu. Kodwa kungakhathaliseki iimeko ezithile, bonke abaninikhaya, kungekudala okanye kamva, bajamelene neengxaki ezinxulumene noqhagamshelwano, ukulahlekelwa kwezakhono zobugcisa, ukuziphatha okuphantsi.
I-pink-cheeked baby
Esi sihloko esincinci esilumkile, imilenze yokumangalisa emangalisa kunye neepeni, uye waba yimbindi yobukho bakho. Soloko sinyamekele ekukhathaleleni okungapheliyo ngaye. Ngenxa yoko, ibinzana lakho elilodwa, elithethiweyo ngalolo suku, lubuliso olufutshane kumyeni obuya emsebenzini. Emva konyaka wobukho obunjalo, uqaphela ukuba isigama sakho silumile kakhulu kwaye sitshintshela kwimimiselo ethile efana ne "bu-bu", "ta-ta" kunye "ne". Ngexesha lomnxeba nomnxeba nomnxeba, uyanciphisa izivakalisi ezilula, kunye neempendulo ze-monosyllabic "ewe-hayi." Kwaye i-stupor engalindelekanga ifika xa, emva kokuba kwinkampani enobungane enomdla, ngandlela-thile awukwazi ukuxhasa incoko. Kwaye uloyiko loqhagamshelwano. Uloyiko lokuphazamisa into engabonakaliyo kwaye ibonakale ingcikivo.
Iyintoni ingxaki: Ukulahlekelwa kwezakhono zokuthetha nokunciphisa isigama ngenxa yokungabikho koqhagamshelwano.
Isixazululo: Musa ukulahlekelwa yindawo yokugcina yamagama kuya kunceda ukufunda iincwadi zakudala okanye ukufunda ulwimi lwangaphandle. Ngoxa umntwana usalala, uya kukwazi ukunqoba amaphepha amaninzi encwadi enomdla.
Nangona kunjalo, akukho nto iyakwazi ukuthatha indawo yokunxibelelana ephilayo. Ngexa ekliniki okanye kwindawo yokudlala, jonga ngapha. Ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kuba nemijelo eninzi kufuphi, ngubani oya kuthanda ukutshintshana amagama nomntu. Kungcono ukuba uvumelane nabanye babo malunga nokuncedana kunye kunye nexesha "bathathwe" ngeeyure ezimbalwa zeentaka zonke ukuze abanye bahlale bodwa baze bathethe ngekhobe yetiyi. Le ndlela ikuvumela ukubulala iintaka ezimbini ngelitye elinye: ngoxa oomama babelana ngeendaba, abantwana babo baqonda izakhono zokuqala zentlalo.
Ngentando yokuphela
Ngamanye amaxesha umntu ufumana ubophelelwe kwindlu engekho yintando yakhe, kodwa ngenxa yokuba, umzekelo, iingxaki zempilo. Iimeko eziqhelekileyo: umfazi omncinci wanyanzeliswa ukuba achithe iinyanga ezimbini emva kokushiya indlu, emva kokufumana ingxube enkulu. Inkcenkceshelo eyongezelelweyo yenziwe yinyaniso yokuba oogqirha bamkhange ngexesha lokufunda nokubukela iTV. Ukuxhamla kuphela kwehlabathi langaphandle kwakuyimfowuni nomama, owamzisa ukutya emva komsebenzi. Kwiveki kamva, waziva engenakuvuyela kwaye wayinqumla ebomini.
Iyintoni ingxaki: Ukuqhawulwa kwamanye amazwe kunye nokungabikho koqhagamshelwano.
Isixazululo: Into yokuqala yokuyenza kukugxila ekubuyiseni kunye nokugxotha zonke iingcinga ezidakisayo. Ukubona ukugula njengethuba lokuphumla nokuqokelela iingcamango zakho. Ukuphoqeleka "okulula" kunokuguqulwa kwixesha elizayo. Zihlele iqela lokuxhasa. Unganqikazi ukucela uncedo lwabahlobo bakho. Kodwa bahlobo ukuba babe nathi kunye novuyo. Emva kokuncenga bonke abahlobo bakho, awuyi kuba ne-hang out from guests. Ngenxa yoko, uya kulungiso ngokukhawuleza kunokuba uqikelelwe oogqirha.
Indiza yokukhulula
"Kutheni ndifanele ndisebenze ekhaya?" - lo mbuzo uvame ukucelwa ngabaqulunqi, intatheli, abaguquleli kunye nabameli bezinye "imisebenzi engaphandle". Kwaye ke kufika inkululeko ekulindelwe ixesha elide: uvuka, xa ufuna, usebenza xa kukho isimo sengqondo. Kubonakala ngathi usuku luhlala lude kwaye yonke into inokwenziwa. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha izinto ezingaqhelekanga zenzeke ebomini be-freelancer. Ngokomzekelo, uhlala ekuseni ukuze ikhompyutha isebenze, kwaye kamva kusihlwa uyazi ukuba ukujonga iposi, ukuthetha kwi-ICQ kunye nokubeka izimvo kwiiblogi zabanye abantu ngezizathu ezithile kuthatha yonke imini. Ukufutshane ukuya phakathi kobusuku, kufuneka uzibophe ngekomityi yekhofi kwaye usebenze kude kube sekuseni, uzifungise kwaye uthembise ukuba "le nto ayisayi kuphinda"!
Olunye utywala, apho iziteyibrari zamahhala zenzile, zisebenza ngaphandle kweentsuku kunye neholide. Xa imiyalelo enenzuzo iqhutywe enye emva komnye, kunokuba nzima ukuthi "yeka." Kwaye abantu badla "ukulibala" malunga nokuphumla, ukunxibelelana nabahlobo kunye nezihlobo. Unqanyulwa ebomini obungaphandle, uyeka ukuba nomdla kwizinto ezenzekayo.
Iyintoni ingxaki: Ukuhlehliswa kwemicimbi kamva, ukungabikho kwintlangano, ukuziva ukuba ixesha "li-rubber", okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, ukungakwazi ukwenza umgca phakathi komsebenzi nobomi bonke.
Isixazululo: Into elula kakhulu ongayenza kule meko kukuba wenze ngezicwangciso ngezikhathi ezithile. Kwaye iluhlu lwamatyala lufanele lube lixesha elifutshane (ngomso, uLwesihlanu osondeleyo) kunye nexesha elide (ukulayisha imiyalelo yenyanga okanye ezimbini phambi). Ukongezelela, kubalulekile ukwenza umyalelo wokwenza izinto eziphuthumayo kunye ezibalulekileyo kuqala kokungenakuqala kwabanye ngaphambi kokuba zigqitywe. Oku kuya kuphepha yonke imisebenzi nobusuku bokulala. Ngokuqhelekileyo ukuthetha nabahlobo bahlala, ngoko uya kulwa noloyiko phambi kweengxoxo.
Abenzi bokuzibophezela ngentando
Abanomdla abanobutyebi bamadoda kunye namathuba okungaze asebenze nonke, ngokukratshi, ukusuka kuzo zonke iintlobo zabafazi bezindlu zisesifo sengqondo. Ekuqaleni ubomi bubonakala ngathi enye iholide eqhubekayo! I-salon yobuhle, iklabhu yezobuchule, ingxoxo kunye nentombi e-cafe-leyo yimini edlulileyo. Kodwa kungekudala uqala ukuzala. Iingcamango malunga nokungaqiniseki kwazo ziyangena engqondweni yam. Ngokukodwa xa ukhangela abahlobo abasebenzayo, iziphumo eziziqhenyayo zomsebenzi. Njengokuba ngaphantsi komhlaba kubonakala ukuba nomona onobuqili kunye nobunzima obuphantsi. Emva kweminyaka emibini yobomi obunjalo kukho iingxaki zokunxibelelana, ubudlelwane beentsapho buye buthathaka.
Iyintoni ingxaki: Ukuzithoba, ukunganeliseki ngaphakathi.
Isixazululo: Cinga ngokwakho njengento yokuzilibazisa, ukwenzela ukuba xa uthetha ngako, amehlo akho akhanya kwaye uvakalelwa. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, luya kukhanyisa ukuhlala kwakho ekhaya uze uzalise ubomi bakho ngokubonakala kwintsha. Ngenye into - iimvakalelo ezintle ezivela kuwe, ziyakuchukumisa kwaye zikhonze umyeni wakho. Uya kuqonda ukuba awugcini nje ekusebenziseni indlu, kodwa ukhokelela ubomi obutyebi, obonwabisayo.
Msebenzi o yingozi
Iingcali zenzululwazi zithi abesifazana abasemakhaya lonke ixesha lokubeka ingozi yokuphucula i-asthma ngaphezu kokusebenza. Isizathu esibalulekileyo siqhagamshelana rhoqo nothuli kunye neenwele zezilwanyana zasekhaya. Ukongezelela, abafazi abahlala ekhaya nabantwana banamaxesha athile kunye nesiqingatha ngakumbi ukuba babe neengxaki zentliziyo.
Le yimizekelo kuphela yeengxaki ezinxibelelwano. Kukho okungakumbi. Kodwa ngokubulela iindlela zokulwa noyiko phambi kokunxibelelana, kunokwenzeka ukunqoba naluphi na ubunzima kwaye uphinde ube yilungu elipheleleyo loluntu.