Ngokukhawuleza xa umama etshela izihlobo zakhe nabahlobo ukuba umntwana wakhe akaphuculanga, ngoko ke uhluke kakhulu kwaye iziphakamiso kunye neengcebiso ezichaseneyo ziya kulandela. Kuhle kakhulu kwiimeko ezinjalo, ukuba loo nto ibhinqa imvelaphi yenkcazo kwaye ingxaki ixazululwa ngelahleko ezincinci. Kodwa oku kwenzeka ngeqabile, ngokuqhelekileyo umfazi, ukhathala ngemizamo emininzi yokwandisa ubuninzi bebisi, uqala ukumondla umntwana ngomxube. Ngethuba lexesha, kwaye umise ukuba umntwana angamncelisi, umntwana uyaba "ngumsebenzi".
Ekubeni umfazi engayiqondi yonke inkqubo eyenzekayo kwimizimba yakhe, uya kubeka ityala ngenxa yento eyenzekayo, kungekhona ukugqithisa, kodwa isifuba sakhe kunye nesiqu sakhe .Kukho esinye isizathu sokuba abanye abafazi abakhohlisayo bangavumi ukusebenzisa i-silicone lining-silicone ikhusela intombazana yowesifazane olambileyo, kwaye ibheyili ngokwayo ikulungele ukusetyenziswa. Ingxowa yecala ithola imilo epheleleyo, epholileyo kakhulu kumntwana, ngakumbi xa intombazana yintombi ixinezelekile okanye ifuthe. Abasetyhini abaninzi, emva kokuzama ubuncinane kanye ukunyusa umntwana nge-silicone pad, zigqibelele ukuba ngokwabo ngoku baya kuwusebenzisa rhoqo.
Kutheni umntwana elahlekelwa isisindo
Umntwana, unamathele kwi-pad ensimbi, uqala ukusebenza kanzima ngomlomo wakhe, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo ubisi lungafanelekanga. Xa uncelisa isifuba somama ngokusebenzisa ipilisi ye-silicone, i-coefficient of usefulness isinciphisa amaxesha amaninzi. Intsana, nangona ilisa ngokunyanisekileyo, ilala ngokulala, kodwa ebhokisini lomfazi ufumana uphawu lokuba kuyimfuneko ukunciphisa inani lobisi oluvelisiweyo, esesifubeni kwakhona kuninzi. Ukutya okulandelayo umntwana uya kufakisa ubisi olungaphantsi, kuba ukukrazula rhoqo ngamaxesha ngenxa yokunciphisa ubuninzi bebisi kuya kunzima. Kukho isangqa esichukumisayo: umntwana akahlali esitya, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo, ukubeka umgudu ongakumbi kuwo. Ubisi buyancipha emini, emva kwayo yonke, ngokusebenzisa ipilisi ye-silicone, kuthatha inxalenye encinane yobisi ebele, kwaye njengoko ubisi luhlala lukhulu, ubuncwane bebisi buqala ukuvelisa ngaphantsi.
Xa umfazi esenza isigqibo sokulandela ixesha elide elondla nge-silicone eyayibekwe kwinqwelo yokutya ngaphandle kwakhe, kuya kufuneka ukuba abe nomonde. Udinga ukuhamba ngokuthe ngcembe, kuqala ukutya kunye nepatch, uphethile ukunyusa umntwana ngaphandle kwendlwana, ngosuku ngalunye kufuneka linciphise ixesha lokutya ngokusebenzisa ipilisi ye-silicone, kwaye ixesha lokutya ngaphandle kwendlwana landa. Ngako-ke, ngeveki, unako ukuyeka iipilisi ze-silicone.
Kwimeko apho umfazi uyaqiniseka ukuba ingono yakhe ilungele ukondla, ngoko unako ukuyeka ngokupheleleyo ukusebenzisa i-nakladok. Ingono ye-Esli, ilukhuni, i-elasti kwaye ayiyi kuphelisa, utshintsho kwiimeko zokusondeza akuyi kulimaza i-pacifier. Kodwa ukuba isifuba sahlala sishushu, wazibhinqa, kwaye umfazi ngokusemandleni onke uyamkhusela kwimpembelelo yangaphandle, umlomo womntwana, osetyenziswa ukutshiza i-silicone, unokumlimaza, kubangela intlungu eyondla ngasinye isondlo. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, ngokuqhelekileyo kuninzi, abafazi babuyela ekusebenziseni i-silicone pads, kwaye ingxaki ingaphendululwa.
Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukubuyisela inani lobisi
Lapha ukusetyenziswa kwexesha elide le-silicone overlay idlala indima ebalulekileyo. Ukuba umntwana wasetyhini usondliwa ngokugqitywa kweeveki ezi-1-1.5, inani lobisi linganyuswa emva kweveki, kodwa kuphela xa umfazi esondliwa ngamabele amabini. Xa usebenzisa i-lining ngaphezu kweeveki ezingama-2-3, kunokwenzeka ukuba lo mfana akayi kuziswa, uya kuba mncinci kunontanga yakhe.
Ukwandisa inani lobisi lomntwana kuya kufuneka londle ixesha elide nangaphezulu. Kwakhona, ukwandisa inani lobisi lomfazi onesihlengikazi, umntu kufuneka avelise i-salads yemifuno kwimifuno (eluhlaza kuphela) kunye nemifuno yemifuno esanda kutyalwa. Kuya kuba kuhle ukuququzelela ubomi bakho ngendlela enokuba nexesha elaneleyo lokulala, kwaye ngobusuku kukulungele ukulala kunye nosana, ngoko umlinganiselo wobisi uya kwanda.
Ngaba ndingakwazi ukugcina isifuba kunye nentlungu nokuvuvukala ngaphandle kokusebenzisa i-silicone pads ?
Akunconywa ukuba isifuba senze izimo ezingabalulekanga zokufudumala, ikakhulukazi ukufudumala, njengoko oku kungakhokelela ekuphazamiseni ummiselo womzimba womzimba kunye naluphina ukuhla kobushushu bomzimba emva koko kubangela iingxaki. Amanzi amaninzi okanye isitya esahlukileyo siya kunceda ngexesha lokukhulelwa ukuze lukhunize amabele, wenze iimbumba ziqine kwaye zixakeke, ngokunjalo zivimbele ukuqhubezela nokuvuvukala. Nangona ukuzalwa komntwana kunokuziqhelanisa iingono zakhe kwimiphumo eyahlukeneyo-ukuxubha iingqimba zeqhwa, ukucwenga, ukuxubha kwiingubo kwaye ukunyamezela akuyi kuzisa intlungu kunye nentlungu. Ukuba umntwana akasetyenziswanga kakuhle kwibele, ke le nto ingaba yimvumba, ufunde ngokucophelele lo mbuzo.
Abanye abesifazana, abanamaphiko abo abangalungiselele ukutyisa, kunceda ukunqanda ukukhahlela ixesha elikhulu phakathi kokutya. Kodwa kule meko kuyimfuneko ukuqwalasela ezinye izinto. Umzekelo, umntwana unokufuna ukuba atywe kakhulu, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni imeko yeenambuzane zomama. Ukugqiba ixesha elincinci kunye nelona xesha livumelekile phakathi kokutya, impilo yomntwana, ubudala nobukhulu, iimpawu kunye nokuziphatha komntwana kufuneka kuthathelwe ingqalelo.
Ukuba umntwana ulinganisa ngaphantsi kweekhilogram ezi-2.5, uze ukondle njalo iiyure eziyi-1.5-2. Eli lixesha lexesha emini. Ukuba umntwana ukhulula malunga neekhilo ezi-3, zonke ii-2-2.5 kg. Ebusuku, kunqweneleka ukondla ngaphantsi. Ubuncinane bexesha eliphakathi kokunceliswa kwabantwana abancinci kuxhomekeke ekubeni ngaba umama uya kubanika i-intlawulo kwisondlo esasifanele. Phakathi kokuqala kokuhlawula kunye nokuphela kokutya, ubuncinane iyure enye kufuneka idlule.
Ukuba umntwana wazalwa encinci, ngoko kufuneka atywe ngokuphindaphindiweyo kunabantwana abazalwa ngokukhulu. Ukuba balala ixesha elide, bayakhuthazwa ukuba bavuke, ngakumbi xa kuziwa kubantwana abasanda kuzalwa. Ukukhula, umntwana uzakufumana ubunzima, kwaye unomntwana uya kuncipha, kodwa unamandla kakhulu.
Abantwana, ukuthotywa ngokunyanisekileyo, badinga ukutya rhoqo, kwaye nakubusuku, abantwana kufuneka bavuke. Ukuba ubisi luphantsi, ngoko umlinganiselo wayo unokwanda xa umntwana esetyenziswa rhoqo kwisifuba. Ukuvusa umntwana ekudleni kuyimfuneko nakwezo ziganeko xa kunceda ukuphilisa isifuba sokuqhaqha nokuqina kwezigulane zamathambo. Ungavumeli ubisi ukuba bube buhlungu, umntwana uba luhlobo lomhlanguli kunye noomama abaninzi bayabaxabisa ngoku.