ILwa, liza kuzaliseka kwaye liza kuphelelwa lixesha, alikho imbala engafanelekanga. Owesifazana obulalayo - lo ngumfazi odibana naye kunye nokuguqula ngokuphawulekayo ubomi bomntu. Kungenzeka ukuba emva kweminyaka engamashumi amabini yobomi bakho, indoda yakho iyavuma ukuba ungumfazi obulalayo. Kodwa yintoni enye? Emva kwakho konke, utshintshe isithuba sakhe kunye nobomi ngokubanzi. Okanye mhlawumbi kukho enye imeko: uzinze ngokwakho usebenze ishishini lakho, uye emsebenzini, uye kwiivenkile, u tyelele abantwana bomntwana, kwaye ngaloo mzuzu, umntu onokuthula ulwa nodonga, kuba ungumfazi obulalayo.
Umfazi obulalayo - unokuba ngumfanekiso wobomi, indima edlalwa ngumfazi ojikelezwe ngamadoda, okanye nje umzuzu wesikhankaso kwimbali yobomi bakho. Akuyimfuneko ukuba le nto ibe ngumnini wengqondo engavamile, imilenze ende, isifuba se-silicone. Nangona, izinto zangaphandle zidlala indima ebalulekileyo. Ibhinqa elidlala indima "elibulalayo" libonisa lo mfanekiso kwindawo yakhe, ngelixa abanye bebulawa ngenxa yokukhetha umntu.
Ukuba ngumfazi - i-museum inomnandi kakhulu kwaye ilula kunomfazi. Kunzima kakhulu ukudibanisa le mi sebenzi emibini, ukuba uhlala nomntu. Vumelana nokuba akunakwenzeka ukubonakala kumyeni wakho ebusuku ephupheni, ukuba ngumthombo wakhe wokuphefumlelwa, kwaye nangoko uxoxe ngebhajethi yentsapho, uhlambe, uyitye okanye upheke isidlo sakusihlwa. Ngelishwa, ubugcisa kunye ne-bytovuha zixhunyiwe ngokukhululekile. Nangona, kwimbali kukho imizekelo yabafazi-i-muses: iGala - umfazi kaSalvador Dali, uNatalika Goncharova - umfazi wasePushkin. Nangona, kwiimeko zombini, abafazi abazange bachithe ixesha ekhitshini ukupheka isidlo sakusihlwa kunye nezidlo.
Nangona ulwalamano oluqhelekileyo, inoveli elula iyakwenza ube ngumfazi obulalayo. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka "ixesha" ukuyeka ukuthanda indoda yakho. "Ndiyathandeka, kubonakala ngathi andiyikho yakho ..." Intliziyo yomqhubi iphukile, ubomi buphelile, ungumfazi obulalayo! Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuba loo mntu uya kukukhumbuza ngobomi, njengalowo owawuphosa, waqhekeza intliziyo yakhe, wahamba njengemothi, emshiya yedwa kunye namava akhe.
Uthando olubulalayo lunokuba lukhona xa kukho imingcipheko endleleni yobudlelwane obungenakunqotshwa, okuthintela abantu ukuba babe kunye. Iingxaki zobomi, ubukho bomfazi osemthethweni, iingxaki zomgaqo-nkqubo wokufuduka, abazali kunye nokunye okuninzi kunokubangela ukuba iimvakalelo zakho ezincinci zingabikho nto. Isiqinisekiso sokuba 100% yokuba indoda iya kufudumala kwaye ikhumbule ngenyameko kuwe ngezikhathi kwaye ucinge ukuba kwenzekani ukuba ...
Owesifazane obulalayo ngokwenene, njengomabhayisikobho, akagcini nje ukuphula intliziyo yomntu, kodwa uphulaphula iiplothi zakhe, athathe indawo, atshabalalise iintsapho, ahlambe i-akhawunti yebhanki, axabane nabahlobo kunye nezihlobo zakhe, ukuze kungabikho mntu unokunceda ngexesha elincinane. Yaye yenzayo, kungeyi navyazhchivo, eyancwina kunye nokuthetha entle yakho indlebe amazwi nemifanekiso yexesha elizayo elivuyisayo. Ukudibana nomfazi onjalo kuya kuba yingozi. Nangona kunjalo, oku akusekho umfanekiso, kubalwa ngokubanda kunye nendlela umfazi obulalayo enza ngayo ubomi. Kuphela emva kokuba indoda ixinezeleke ngokupheleleyo, ichithwe kwaye ihlukaniswe kwintambo, loo mfazi unelisekile, kwaye uqala ukuzingela ixhoba elitsha.
Ngoko ke kufuneka uyenze ntoni, ukuba ngokukhawuleza ebomini bakho udibana nomfazi obulalayo?
Ibhinqa-i-museum iyingozi kuba iyakhuthaza umntu wakho ukuba asebenze. Kwaye kulo mzuzwana, phuma, uhlambe, upheke. Bahlezi behleli kwaye bexoxa, kwaye uziva unqatshelwe kwaye ungadingekile. Qaphela, kuba ubuhlobo obunjalo bokudala buyakhula ngokukhawuleza bube ngaphezulu. Kungcono ukulahla loo minyulo, okanye umqhube umfana. Zizikhethele oko kubaluleke kakhulu - ulonwabo okanye ubuchule.
Umfazi obulalayo owaphula intliziyo yakhe kwindoda yakho ayiyingozi. Umfana uyakhala ekhanda lakho malunga nothando lwakhe olungathandekiyo, malunga nokuba waphoswa ngumfazi ongcono kunazo zonke ehlabathini. Yaye uyaziqhayisa, ukhonza i-handkerchief. Olu hlobo lolwalamano lunokwenzeka ekuqaleni. Kodwa ukuba kuthatha isantya soqhagamshelwano rhoqo, kufuneka uqikelele. Emva kwakho konke, ufana nomfazi obulalayo, unamehlo, umzimba, intliziyo nomphefumlo. Unokumnceda amkhohlwe, ukuba ixesha elide, awukwazi ukumkhupha entloko yendoda, shiya lo msebenzi uze ufumane umntu oqhelekileyo!