Indlela yokuziphatha nomntu: amaqhinga amabhinqa

Yonke into ebomini yegazi elinomdla, elonwabisayo kunye neengcamango, yonke into ekhuphayo kunye neengqungquthela, yonke imvelaphi-uthando. Yaye uthando luyintombi yesini, kwaye esinye sezibonakaliso zayo eziphawulekayo ziingcali zamabhinqa, i-female coquetry. Ukunciphisa intombazana yeli thuba ukusebenzisa iincinci zayo ezincinci zentombi kunjengokushiya intyatyambo ngaphandle kokukhanya kwelanga. Ngelinye igama, unako ukusinda, kodwa ungathini.

Indlela yokuziphatha kunye nomfana, ngoko yena ngokwakhe wayethathwe kwintombazana

Yintoni endiyithethayo apha eya kwenza ubomi kunye nolwalamano nendoda yakhe, ngoko ke, ukumnciphisa i-gray and monotony, yintombazana kuphela. Ngaphandle kwazo zonke iinkcazo kunye namacandelo amabhinqa, thina (kunye nabafana) asinakukwenza. Indlela yokuziphatha kunye nomfana: iinqhinga zamabhinqa kunye neempawu ezizodwa zokukhohlisa, yinto ebalulekileyo kakhulu kwintombazana.

Umnqweno wokudlala ngothando kunye nokwakha amehlo kwigazi lalo mfazi ngamnye. Emva koko, akukho mntu ufundisa intombazana, njengomntwana, ukutshintsha amehlo akhe emehlweni omntu ongaqhelekanga okanye iiyure ukujika phambi kwesibuko. Kulowo nalowo kuthi kuthiwa ngumkhombisi wesilwanyana esiyingozi. Ngako oko, ukuze ukwazi kakuhle indlela yokuziphatha nomntu, okokuqala, qinisekisa ukuba xa ungaziva uhle (okokuqala kuqala) kwaye ungabonakali kwihlabathi lonke, uya kuphelelwa ukuba unqwenele kwaye ufuna. Ukuzithemba yikhadi lakho lexilongo kumaqhinga amabhinqa. Ngeke ube nguye, njengoko kuyimfuneko ukuba ibe ngumnikazi, ngoko kungabi ncamango ukucinga malunga naluhlobo oluthile lwe "frills". Elula, engakhathazekiyo, i-virtuosic, yinto yonke into efuna ukuyibona. Ngoko, kufuneka uhlale njalo, phantsi kwazo zonke iimeko.

Kwaye ke, indlela yokuziphatha nomntu: amaqhinga amabhinqa aya kukuxelela apho kwaye nento oyithethayo, yintoni ongayenza kunye noko kungenjalo. Ibinzana: "udibane kwiingubo - uhambisane nengqondo", kungabi mnye kulo mbuzo. Khumbula, kwintombazana konke kufuneka kulungile. Ukubonakala kuyisimbozo sehlabathi lakho langaphakathi apho uveza khona ngaphakathi kwakho. Kufuneka ungenakunyaniseki nanini na nangaliphi ixesha lomhla. Umfana kufuneka abe neengcinga zokuqala malunga noko unokukwenza kwaye unokuzijonga. Kwaye ukhetho lwakho lwezakhelo, iinwele zakho, ukugcoba kunye neengubo, luyimiphumo yesifo esibuhlungu kunye neeyure ezininzi "zokuzicima." Kwaye okokuqala, kubalwa malunga nokuba yibuphi ubuhle bakho obuqhayisayo, ukuthanda ukuthanda kwakhe. Yaye lo ngenye idibene-ukubonisa lo mntu ukubaluleka kwayo. Yaye uyazi ukuba ungayithobela njani inkcazo kuyo yonke into, oko kukuthi, i-hairstyle yakho, kufuneka uhlale ufanisa ukwakheka kwaye ngaloo ndlela unxibe iimpahla ozikhethile okwangoku. Ndiza kubambelela kule nto, uya kuhlala uphezulu, into ephambili kukukunceda uhlale ukhangelekile, unomfazi kwaye unothando.

Ihlabathi langaphakathi yilokho afuna ukukubona ngaphantsi kweengubo zakho, into oyiyo kunye nento ongeke uyivule okanye utshintshe ngoncedo lwento. Ungowesifazane ohlala efuna ihlombe lomntu oqinileyo kunye nenkxaso yemoya ecaleni layo. Sebenzisa oku (ngokuqinisekileyo, ngaphandle kwesizathu). Ungabi neentloni ukubonisa ukulahla kwakho. Le yenye yezona zibhloko eziphambili zokunxibelelana kwabasetyhini kunye nesini esomeleleyo. Amandla akho aphantsi kobuthathaka bakho kwaye kungenjalo. Kule ndlela kuphela uya kukwazi ukubonisa umntu omdingayo kunye nenkathalo yakhe njengomntwana omncinci (nangona kunjalo akunjalo). Indoda ithandwa xa ibhinqa libuthathaka kwaye lingakhuseli. Ngenxa yokuba kunjalo, unokubonisa amandla akhe nokuthanda kwakhe, ukukhusela ebunzima beengxaki kunye neengxaki. Khumbula, ngenxa yentombazana enobuthathaka, kukho rhoqo umntu onamandla. Kwaye ngokumbulela kuye, ngenxa yenkxaso yendoda enamandla, bonisa iimvakalelo zakho ngeendlela zonke, unganqikazi ukuthetha ngazo. Musa ukuthanda ukuncoma. Ukuvuleka kwintsebenziswano, ngakwakho, kufuneka usebenze enye yeendawo zokuqala, oko kukunciphisa, ukwenza ngokufanayo ngokumalunga nawe. Ungaze uloyike ukulahlekelwa nguye. Kungenjalo, uloyiko lwenu luya kuba luhlobo olusisigxina, oluza kutshabalalisa ubuhlobo bakho. Umfana nje uqala ukukuphatha ngokuloyiko lwakho.

Ukumomotheka kwakho, ukubukeka komdlalo wokudlala ngothando - abo bonke bakho bavuni. Yazi, kwintombazana nganye ukubona kunye nokumamatheka kubonakala ngokuhlukileyo. Dlala naye ngemidlalo yokuthetha - iya kuhlala isinika ubudlelwane bakho into epheleleyo kunye nengqondo. Ezi ziqhinga zamabhinqa zibalulekile kungekuphela komhla wokuqala. Bamele babe ngabahlobo obunaphakade bobudlelwane bakho, ukuthatha isikhundla sesigxina. Kuba oku kungokwengqondo yethu, kunamandla ngakumbi ukuthanda ngalo, phantse yonke imihla. Mkhumbuze ukuba nguwe yedwa, bonke abantu basemgangathweni yabo, ngoko kutheni ungamthobeli, ukhuthaze umfanekiso ongenamdla.

Ukunxibelelana kwakho nenkwenkwe kufuneka kuhlale kuhambelana nokuqonda. Ukwazi ukuphulaphula, ukucebisa, ukunyaniseka. Kwabancinci - kodwa umfana uyavuya kakhulu ukuba unika kuye, ngombono wakhe wesintu kwaye uphulaphule icebiso anika lona. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uya kuqonda ukuba nawe unako ukuthetha nangayiphi na isihloko ngaphandle kwanoma yiziphi na izicatshulwa kunye neentambo. Le yindlela yakho eyona nto yokubambisana. Uyakwazi ukulungelelanisa indlela yakhe yokuziphatha kunye nokusebenzisa kakuhle, ukuba yiyiphi na loo mfuneko. Xa udinga ukukhubeka okanye ukuhleka, umomotheka okanye ukhale, sitshele ngengxaki okanye uhlale uthula. Enye yeengcambu zowesifazane yile: "Wena ungumfazi-ke ungumdlali weqonga, uyazi ukudlala, uguqula imaski kwaye wenze ukuba umntu abe ngumbukeli wakho onombulelo kwaye unike iintyatyambo kunye ne-ovation emileyo kuwe kuphela."

Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, khumbula ukuba ungowesifazane, kwaye bonke abafazi banalo isithandwa. Abafana abafani namantombazana abathanda incwadi evulekileyo. Ukwazi ukugcina iphazili yakho ekhethekileyo kwihlabathi lakho elingaphakathi, ukuba indoda ifanele ibangele "yimfihlo yowenu". Imfihlelo yakho kuyinkathazo ebalulekileyo yemathematika, eya kuzama ukuyicombulula ngenzala enkulu, ngaloo ndlela ikulandele njengomntwana. Umntwana onomdla kuyo yonke into entsha kwaye engaziwayo. Yiba yinto efikelelekayo kwaye ngexesha elifanayo lingalawulekiyo (indoda yangempela kufuneka inqobe ibhinqa bonke ubomi bayo, nokuba ibe necala layo) kwaye njengoko ndithethile ekuqaleni kwesi nqaku: zithande uze uthande nawe.