Indoda ngokwemvelo ngumkhuseli. Umsebenzi wayo kukukhusela, ukukhusela, kuqala, intsapho yayo, kwaye okwesibini, ilizwe lalo kunye nelizwe lakwabo. Kutheni, ke, ngaba bayagwema inkonzo kwimpi ngabo bonke iinyaniso kunye neengwenya? Ngaphambili, babeziqhenyce ngokuthi: "Ndikhonza!", Kwaye ngoku: "Ngamana uThixo unokusindisa, yintoni umkhosi?".
I-Paradox 2: Ngokuthengiswa
Ukuba ibhinqa litshintshile umntu - kukuwa, intlekele, i-scandal. Ulwaphulo lwabesifazane - olungenakuxolelwa, olwamkelekileyo, ngokwembono yesigxina esisisiseko sabantu. Ukuba umntu utshintshile, ke oku kungenxa yeengcamango zenzululwazi zikaDarwin ngokwakhe, i-biology yindoda, exhaswa yi-Sigmund Freud ngokwakhe, kwaye ngokubanzi, kutheni umntu angabambelela kuyo, kuba ethanda wena kunye nawe kuphela? Kwinkampani yabantu ngokwabo - eli sihlandlo sokuzikhukhumeza.
I-Paradox 3: Uyamehlo, kwaye u ...
Indoda enamabhinqa amaninzi, eyaziwayo ngesini esahlukileyo, utshintshe amaqabane, njengama-socks - oku kuluphawu. Abahlobo bakhe bazama ukumxelisa, bafunde ubulumko nobugcisa bokukhohlisa, uyindoda. Kutheni ke umfazi onamava athile olwalamano kunye nowesilisa ngesini, omnye umntu ongaziwayo uyayinyamekela kwaye akayedwa yinkwenkwezi yobumnandi obuhle, iprofurseet kunye nelinye igama elingabhalwanga lincwadana ezintlanu?
I-Paradox 4: I-Resolute
Indoda idla ngokuba nethemba lombono lwabahlobo bakhe, ngamanye amaxesha ngaphandle kwemvume-imvume yokukwenza into ayinakwenzeka. Inokwenzeka ukuba, banokukhetha omnye njengomlingane wobomi kwi-chorus, intlanganiso yokuvelisa kwindawo yokuhlambela okanye iglasi yebhiya kwibha. Emva kokuthetha nabahlobo, indoda ingabuya "intsholongwane." Ngenye indlela ukuba uqonde ukuba emva kokuqokelela ndawonye iiplani zakho ezidibeneyo zekhadi lokutshintsha ikhefu, kwaye ngeveki ezayo awuhambi kwindawo yokudlela yaseTaliyane, kunoko - ibhola lezemidlalo elitsha. Bobabini badakalisa kwaye bebuhlungu ngexesha elifanayo.
I-Paradox 5: Ikhunjulwa
Kubonakala ukuba isondo esinamandla sinemimoya ebuthakathaka kakhulu, njengoko ijwayele ukulibala imihla ebalulekileyo edlulileyo kunye neziganeko ezizayo. Kwenzeka ukuba badibanisa amaqiniso ngexesha, kodwa ngokuzithemba ngaphezu kwe-100% kukubonisa ukuba njani kwaye kwenzeka nini. Abayikhumbuli indlela ababuyela ngayo ekhaya ekuseni emva kweqela lequmrhu, kodwa baya kuchaza ngokucacileyo oko ubekayo xa uhamba kwiqela lokukhupha. Selekhe sclerosis, nangona kunjalo.
I-Paradox 6: Ifowuni
Xa ungeke ufikelele kumntu ixesha elide, qalisa ukukhathazeka malunga nokuba ungubani kunye nento eyenzekayo, kwaye emva koko ukudayela okufanayo, uva oku: "Ndandimatasa, izinto ezibalulekileyo. Kwaye akukho nto inokukhathazeka ngayo apha! "Kodwa akudingeki uphendule le fowuni, akunandaba ukuba uhlala kwindawo yokuhlambela okanye kwintlanganiso yebhizinisi, uya kuthi:" Kutheni ungayifaki ifowuni? Kunokuxakeka okunzulu kangaka? ". Isiphelo: abafazi abanalo matyala.
I-Paradox 7: Okubalulekileyo
Indoda-ugxeke ngohlobo, kwaye uthanda kangakanani ukugxeka abafazi! Nanku kuphela ukugxekwa, ekuqondeni kwakhe, ngumgca omnye: "Ndigxeka kwaye awuyi." Ngamana unokunyanzela nokunyamezela kufike kumntu ozama ukugxeka indoda yakhe.
I-Paradox 8: Inyaniso
Abantwana bahle, ziintyatyambo zobomi kunye nekamva lethu. Kubantwana, amadoda afana nenkqubo yokukhulelwa kwabo ngaphezu kwazo zonke.
Uluhlu luqhubeka kwaye kwaye, into ebalulekileyo kukuba asikwazi ukwenza ngaphandle komnye. Kubalulekile ukuba ungakwazi ukuthanda isithunzi, kodwa ukungaphumeleli kumntu, kwaye ungazami ukutshintsha nantoni na - kukuzingca.
Khumbula, ukungaqiniseki kwethu, ukuhluka kunye nokuyingqayizivele eyenza ihlabathi lixhamle kwaye linomdla, likhanyise kwaye lendalo.