Ukwabelana ngesondo phakathi kwendoda esatshatileyo kunye nomfazi

Phantse bonke abatshatileyo, ngamanye amaxesha kukho ukulala ngesondo ngapha nangapha, kodwa oku kungaphezulu kokulawula. Izabelo ezinjalo aziqabile, kwaye phantse zihlale ziphosakele, ngokukhawuleza.

Ngamaxesha onke, amadoda nabesetyhini abatshatileyo, bafuna isondo kwicala, xa bengakhululekile, okanye abanelisekanga ngesondo kwintsapho, xa baninzi ixesha lokukhulula, kwaye akukho ndawo yokuyibeka. Ukukhuthaza isondo kwicala kunye nokuba omnye wabatshatileyo udla ngokuhamba ngezoshishino, okanye usebenza ebusuku, xa usapho luhlala luphikisana rhoqo.

Xa ulala ngesondo, utshatile, njengaye kunye naye, ubangcipheko ukuba ubuhlobo babo bufundwa ngabafazi babo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, oku kuphutha, kwaye kwelinye - umngcipheko, unikeza i-adrenaline ebuhlotsheni babo kwicala.

Iintlobo zesini zesini kunye nabatshatileyo zizo ezo zikhethele ukuba kufutshane kakhulu, kwiimeko ezininzi, iqabane elilodwa elizinzile. Ngolwalamano olunjalo, kunomngcipheko omncinci we-blackmail kumlingani wesondo xa upholisa ulwalamano, njengoko abalingani bobabini bakhetha ukwenza ukulungelelaniswa okungcono kunokuba omnye umntu ayazi malunga nobudlelwane babo.

Utshatile kuphela, indoda kunye nowesifazane, bayazi ukuba bahlawulwa ngaphantsi kwezesondo kwintsapho kwaye bazama, ngamandla abo onke, ukuba balahleke kwisini ngasinye somntu. Awudingi ukunyengisa ibhinqa ixesha elide kwaye ufike ngezizathu ezahlukeneyo. Abasetyhini abazange baphathe kakubi ukusilela ekunxibelelaneni nasebudlelwaneni bobulili-loo ntokazi ibona konke ngokuqonda kwaye yona ithatha inxaxheba ekuphuculeni imeko. Ukutshata, indoda kunye nomfazi, benza oko bakuzonwabisayo, beyazi kakuhle ukuba, xa behluleka, baya kuwela kwinkqubo epheleleyo yecuckold.

Abasetyhini abasetyhini abayi kubenza bahlaziye, baziphatha kakuhle kwaye bahlambulukile, kuba ukususela ekuqaleni baqonda ukuba ngubani na apha kunye nendlela. Ngoko ke, akudingeki ukuba bazixinzelele kunye namaqabane abo, ukulawula ukuziphatha kwabo kunye nokuziphatha komlingani, okanye ukukhanyela into. Zinikezelwa ngokupheleleyo kwinkqubo enomtsalane. Kule meko, unokonwaba ngokukhawuleza kwezihlandlo ezingenakulibaleka.

Umfazi otshatiweyo akayinikezeli ngokwengeziwe, kwaye ufuna enye, okanye ayikho, ihlawula ingqalelo ekhethekileyo yobuncwane kwaye ibeka kwindawo ephezulu. Uninzi lwabantu abatshatileyo, impilo yabo yesondo ikhusela, kwaye kutheni kulo mzekelo alinakuxhamla oku ngekhulu leepesenti, ngelixa abatsha abaninzi basalugxeka ngenxa yokungabi nalwazi nokungazi kakuhle, kwaye amaqabane abo akaqapheli.

Umlingani otshatileyo uyazi kakhulu malunga nokukhulelwa, kwaye oku kukuvumela ukuba uphumule ngaphambi kokutya ukukhulelwa okungalindelekanga. Kwakhona akukho zibophelelo zesondo, iintlobo ezahlukeneyo, ama-hysteric, njl.

Bobabini indoda kunye nomfazi, abaneminyaka yobudala, baba nobuqili xa befuna ukuzonwabisa, abatshabambiswano abatsha, kwaye ngokozesondo phakathi kwendoda esatshatileyo kunye nomfazi yinto abayidingayo.

Ngamanye amaxesha, ngesondo phakathi kwendoda esatshatileyo kunye nomfazi, umfazi uphoxiswa ngumona wobomi bentsapho obuphumelelayo ngumhlobo okanye umphathi. Kwaye ke umfazi uqala "ukuguqula umsila" phambi komyeni wakhe, akayeki nayiphi na into, ukuze azame kwaye lo lonwabo. Ukongeza, abafazi abatshatileyo abafazi abatshatileyo, phantse ningathathi naliphi na amathuba.

Njengomntu, ibhinqa libeka ingozi kwimpilo engaphantsi, kwimeko enobudlelwane obusondeleyo kunye nendoda ebhinqa. Ukutshata, indoda kunye nomfazi basebenzisa imvula, kokubili nangaphambili, ngokungafani nabaselula, abahlala besenza nantoni na.

Kwimiqathango yezinto eziphathekayo, ukusuka kwindoda yamantombazana amancinci, inkosikazi inokuba nenzuzo enkulu, kodwa iyabhubha ngokukhawuleza njengoko ivela. Enye into ebhinqileyo. Zizinzile ngakumbi ubudlelwane.

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