Kuthekani ukuba ulwalamano olusecaleni lwaba lukhulu

Yintoni enokuyenza xa ubudlelwane kwicala luba lukhulu - kwiimeko ezininzi zobomi, amadoda abe ngabalingani ababi. Kwaye asiyi kugweba, kwaye sinokugqiba: "Ngubani omele uxanduva?". Kule meko, siya kuzama ukunceda owesifazane ukuba afunde ngokuchanekileyo kwaye ngokufanelekileyo enze izigqibo kwiimeko zobomi bunzima.

Iyokuqala imvakalelo yabasetyhini. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, ibhinqa lihlala lizijonga njengexhoba kwi-degree. Okokuqala, wahlaziswa ngumntu owamkholelwayo, okwesibini, uqala ukuzihlazisa. Kukhona isifiso esingaqhelekanga nesingaqondakaliyo sokufa, ukuze ungayiva le ntlungu. Kukho uvakalelo lokuba uqwengqileyo kunye neengxenye ezimbini, kwaye intlungu evelayo iyaqhubeka ishukumisa intliziyo njengentsimbi. Abasetyhini abasabela ngokukrakra ukukhala, iinyembezi - zilungile, ngoko zitshululela iimvakalelo ezingekho phantsi. Musa ukuvumela intukuthelo, intukuthelo. Kule ntlungu kunye neemvakalelo zokungcatsha ufuna ukulahla iingubo zombini. Ngoko ngoku qalisa uqala ukubulala phakathi kwaloo mfazi onobuqili, othakazelisayo, omhle, uyazi indlela yokwenza imali, umfazi osebenza kakuhle kunye nomfazi oyintombi. Kwaye ukuze kulungiswe le nto yesithintelo sowesifazane kunokudinga ngaphezu konyaka omnye.

Ukunyuka kobudlelwane - ungazami ukusinda kule ngxaki yedwa, ngoko ukuba umsindo nokudumala akukugodli. Khumbula ukuba nayiphi na imeko kufuneka uphile. Ukuba kunokwenzeka, yabelana ngenhlanhla yakho nomntu ofuna kwaye unokuxelela intlungu yakho. Xa ulwabelana, ubukhulu bentlungu yakho ibe yincinci, kwaye unokwazi ukujonga imeko ukusuka kwelinye icala.

Enye inxaxheba kukuthatha isahluko sephepha, ukwahlula ibe ngamacandelo amabini kwaye uzame ukuchaza ubomi bakho obutsha ngokulandelelana nakwixesha elidlulileyo. Ubomi ngaphambi nangemva kobudlelwane. Kungenzeka ukuba ungena kwisigaba esitsha sokuphila kwaye awuqondi ukuba kuya kuba ngcono. Dlulisa imeko yakho engalunganga kwiphepha, uze uyitshise. Masibe nomlilo owususe konke okubi.

Emva kokuba uqonde ukuba unokugcina iimvakalelo zakho phantsi kolawulo, kufuneka uqonde ngokucacileyo: ufuna ukugcina intsapho? Kulo mzuzu ujika ube yintsimi: into embi okanye emihle-yinto yakho. Uhlobo-endleleni yomsebenzi wokudala, ukulondoloza intsapho. Umtsalane oyingozi - eqhubeka nokutshatyalaliswa kwaqala ngumyeni wakhe.

Asiyi kuqwalasela imilingo kunye neentlondi zefestile embi, kuba kuzo zonke iindaba zeenkcazo kunye neengcamango kuphela amaWebhu amahle aphumelelayo.

Okokuqala, kuyimfuneko ukuphazamisa, akuthethi ukuba kufuneka ube nomthandi, ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba abuyisele kumlingane wakho. Le yindlela engcono kakhulu yokuphuma kwimeko. Ukuba bobabini abatshatileyo bele ndlela ewonakalisayo - kulo mzekelo, uthando kufuneka lulibaleke. Zama ukuphazamisa - kuthetha ukuthatha uhambo, utshintshe imeko kwindlu. Utyalo-mali kwimbonakalo yakho luncedo. Naluphina utshintsho luncedo. Kubalulekile ukudala umfanekiso womfazi ozolile kwaye othembekileyo. Yenza indoda yakho ibonise ukuba ulunge ngakumbi. Ezi ndlela ziza kuzisa iziphumo ozifunayo.

Asikucebisi ukuba udibanise abaxhamli beentlobo ezahlukeneyo kunye nabasemagqirha, abavakalisi kakhulu kwiimidiya. Okokuqala, uya kulahleka imali efanelekileyo (kungcono ukuyichitha le mali kuwe), kwaye okwesibini, ukunyuka kwiindawo ezinjalo kunye nenkqubo ephazamisayo ayiyi kubakho nantoni na.

Akunandaba ukuba ubudlelwane kwicala lube lukhulu, kodwa kubalulekile ukuba ukhumbule ukuba ulonwabo lomfazi lusezandleni zakhe kuphela. I-classic yathi: ubomi buyinto efanayo. Kwaye inendima ebalulekileyo kule midlalo yenziwa ngumfazi. Yaye lonwaba ngamnye kuthiwe webiwe, nangona kubonakala kungabibiwe kulobu buhlungu kunye novuyo ngexesha elifanayo.